#acesexual
People often say, ‘you should find someone. Get yourself a partner, it’s fun to be with someone’ and I agree with them. It’s fun to have someone close. The problem is, we have different definitions of 'fun with a partner’.
When others hint is 'sex is fun, have little happiness in life’
I think of relationships as: having someone to hang out with, go to cinema and on a trip to exotic countries.
I’m not sure if I should search for a boyfriend or girlfriend, because I’m fully aware what relationship means. What this really requires. And if I’m not Interested in sex and don’t feel any attraction, being in relationships is scary thought.
What if they want sleep with me and if I refuse, they will start cheating on me? What if they say I’m broken human being? What if I agree to make love be spite not wanting to, and it Will hurt me mentally?
All I want and need is a soul mate, best friend and significant other, but not act of sex.
Them: “Let loose. Have some fun for once!”
Me: *Plans dates to wildlife gardens, buys jigsaw puzzles in anticipation, prints out awesome recipes so you can cook together*
Them: “umm not like that”
meanwhile they… don’t buy condoms to safely “have fun” and expect sex at the drop of a hat with ‘no strings attached’*
(a pregnant girl on your heels ARE strings attached you numbskull!)
Happy pride to yall!!!
And happy pride to me and Elijah! We’re both biromantic aces :D
