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if you’re reading this, you’re probably like us- stuck in an abusive and/or neglectful household for seemingly an endless amount of time, feeling trapped and like you’ll never get out. well, good news! you’ll get out eventually! and until you do, we have some tips to help you through it. it sucks, I know, but we’ll all get through it together, yeah?
these are all from a variety of sources and have been compiled over years of research. some may be outdated or may not work due to various reasons [changes in how appliances work, your abusers’ behavior, the resources you have available to you, etc]. however, there are enough tips here that I hope at least one will be of use to one of you out there. please reblog and share if you can!
General/Other:
- Check “college life hack” blogs/channels/etc, specifically the ones about living on campus. Usually they’re all about saving money or doing things without roommates knowing, which can be extremely useful.
- Take advantage of any opportunities you might get. Your parents bought a bulk pack of granola bars? Take a few. You missed your bus and have to walk home? Stop by a store on the way to pick up food or essentials. You get the idea.
- This may sound obvious, but don’t provoke your abusers intentionally. This especially goes for all you avenger alters out there [you know who you are], but it goes for everyone else too. Don’t test your boundaries unless it’s absolutely necessary. If you know something’s gonna piss off your abusers, don’t do it. This isn’t to say them abusing you is your fault- nothing like that. But we’re trying to avoid being abused as much as possible. I know it’s tempting to do things to piss them off or get back at them, but for your safety and the safety of others, don’t do it.
Health/Hygiene:
- Stock up on any medication you might need. After you get out, you might not be able to afford medication for a while, so it’s important to have a supply on hand. Stashing meds can help with this. I recommend stashing one extra per night if you take a lot of the medication, and one every other night if you only take a little bit (ex: if you take four pills per night, take an extra one to stash every night, and if you only take two, then take one every other night). Just make sure you label their expiration dates, and if the expiration date gets close, then you should restock your stash.
- If at any point your parents threaten to take you off your medication and you know they’re serious about it, wean yourself off. Never quit any medication cold turkey unless you’re on a low enough dose. This especially goes for antidepressants and anticonvulsants. Search up the recommended amount per week to take off and follow that. It sucks, but it’s necessary. And if they don’t follow through, then you can build back up to your regular dose again.
- Maintain proper hygiene as well as you can. This is especially important if you will be put in danger if anyone suspects you’re in an unsafe household. This might mean having to take showers at school, buzzing your hair to avoid having to wash it, wearing beanies to hide grease or dandruff, washing your hair in the sink, taking sponge or washcloth baths, only brushing your teeth at school or every few days, hiding hygiene products in your locker or somewhere else (I recommend your gym locker, if you have one- easier to explain that you’re just cleaning up after gym class), or anything else you might need to do to keep yourself safe and healthy while also maintaining your cover. This can also help you in getting a job, if you’re able to get one.
- If you menstruate, ask around at school or work for sanitary products. I recommend before gym class or during lunch- those tend to be the best times. Tampons are more discreet, but can’t really be worn safely overnight, so make sure you have both tampons and pads. If you can, get a menstrual cup. They’re easy to clean (wash under hot water or boil them), last a long time, and are reusable.
- If you have no access to sanitary products, a sock or rags wrapped in several layers of toilet paper will work. For heavy flows, use two socks. You can use baking soda to get the blood out later.
- If you need toilet paper, steal from public bathrooms or porta potties.
- Check those “life hack” YouTube channels, subreddits, profiles, tumblr blogs, whatever. Sometimes they’ll have useful information. The porta potty tip actually came from a CinemaSins video, and the menstrual tips come from various beauty bloggers. I really recommend https://useful-adulting-shit.tumblr.com/ , they’re a fantastic resource. you can sometimes find gems on there.
Cleaning/Generally flying under the radar:
- If you need to throw something out and don’t want your abusers to see, throw it out in a neighbor’s trash can, preferably one that’s half-full, or on garbage pickup day. This worked wonders for us anytime we had to throw out food wrappers we had hidden in our room. If you can’t do that, throw it out as far away from your house as possible. If there’s no garbage can, you’re gonna have to litter. Say your apologies to the environment now and hope someone with a generous soul comes by later to clean it up. I had to throw out the packaging to a pack of pacifiers out in a Target parking lot after I bought some for our little and realized I had no way to dispose of the packaging before getting home. At the end of the day, your carbon footprint is literally not going to matter. Sometimes you might have to litter. Throwing one or two pieces of trash into the bushes is better than being beaten or yelled at for hours.
- Stuff towels in the cracks of your door to muffle noises.
- Lost and founds are a gift from god himself. Take full fucking advantage of them. You can get free clothing, shoes, or sometimes even water bottles if you’re lucky. It’s especially useful during the winter. We didn’t have to use ours as much (our body basically never grows, so we never grow out of our clothing), but they could be very useful. You can usually find lost and founds in schools, churches, and basically any work building. If you can help it, try not to take anything sentimental, but sometimes you might need to.
- Steam from the shower can work as a makeshift iron. If you’re able to, take a longer-than-usual shower and hang up your clothes somewhere in the bathroom. Make sure you close the door all the way [or at least most of the way] and leave them hanging while you take your shower. Is it perfect? No. Does it work? Yes.
- Baking soda can help remove stains from fabric or carpet, specifically blood stains, or just stains in general. You can also use regular dawn dish soap, or any kind of soap that you have on hand. Just make sure to keep the stained area wet until you’re able to get the stain out. This has worked to get so many paint and blood stains out of our carpet and clothes, I can’t tell you how many rounds of shouting we’ve avoided just by keeping the carpet wet and scrubbing it over and over with dawn dish soap.
Food/Food Storage/Dishes:
- Store non-perishable foods in various places, and constantly change your hiding spots. Cans are only useful if you have access to a can opener or if the cans don’t require one to open. Crackers and granola bars are riskier because of the noise and all the crumbs, but they can be bought in bulk, so if you can get away with it, buy them. There’s advantages to big containers and individually wrapped packages. If you buy bulk, it’s easier to hide the noise and they last longer, but they’re harder to move and hide. Individually wrapped packages might be harder to hide the evidence of and could be louder, but they’re easier to hide in various places. We recommend keeping bulk containers of things like peanut butter and applesauce, and having individual packages of things that could go stale, such as crackers or chips.
- Eat food under your blankets, and clean up any crumbs you make. Bugs are the worst.
- If you can, have your friends ship or give you food. Our friend ordered three packages of food to our house once, and our parents luckily didn’t really care- they only questioned us once and then shrugged it off. It’s a great way to have a sure supply of food.
- In a similar vein, take advantage of any and all free food you can get. Free samples. Free lunches or breakfasts, if your school offers them. Church breakfasts are another big one, as well as food pantries and food drives. Stop by a few churches every so often to see if they’re doing one. What we do is get our school’s free lunch every day, store what we can in our locker or our backpack, and eat the rest of it for lunch. Before they tracked our pin numbers, we’d first wear a sweatshirt with the hood up, then we’d take off our sweatshirt and go in again. We’d give the extra perishable food to our friends so it didn’t go to waste.
- As long as they don’t have eggs (or are pre-cooked), you can eat noodles raw. You don’t need to cook them. And you can buy most noodles in bulk as well. As long as you can hide the noise, they’re a very good source of food.
- If you need to wash any dishes, wash them in a bathroom, or use a wet rag if you don’t have access to one. If you can wash them in the bathroom, wash them while you’re taking a shower. If you need to sneak them downstairs, do it while everyone’s asleep, not home, or when you find an opportunity. For the damp rags, wet one with water and dish soap, and another with just water. Even just scrubbing away the grime a little bit is better than not washing them at all.
- If you can’t get away with washing dishes, try layering plastic wrap on top of plates or bowls. This means you can crumple up the dirty plastic wrap and throw it away right after. If you don’t have access to plastic wrap, a napkin, parchment paper, or any kind of paper will work as long as the food isn’t too greasy or wet.
- You can use an iron to cook some types of foods [like pizza and grilled cheese]. This might work better if your parents don’t tend to notice things, or if you don’t have access to a stove or oven.
- Similarly, you can use the hot water from your sink to heat up certain foods or liquids. Put it in a plastic container, set the faucet to the highest setting, and run the container under the tap until it’s heated. It’s a good way to heat up canned soups if you have access to them, and it’s less noisy than a microwave.
- If you have access to an electric kettle, you can use that to quickly and easily boil specific amounts of water. It’s relatively quiet- much quieter than a regular kettle or a microwave- and there’s no risk of it boiling over like there would be on a stove. You can use this to cook all kinds of soups, noodles, and pastas.
- You’d be surprised how many stores actually sell food. You don’t need to go to a grocery store or Walmart to get access to food- a pharmacy, Ikea, Christmas Tree Shop, ACMoore, the dollar store, 5Below, Goodwill, or basically anything that isn’t the bank or an expensive restaurant are good places to find food. We have a pharmacy that’s about a half hour walk from our house, and we usually go every few weeks to replenish our food supply. Shitty food is better than no food. Just make sure you don’t buy canned food or produce from the dollar store, and you’ll be good.
Money-Related:
- Steal whatever you can get away with. Literally anything. If it isn’t useful to you, there’s a chance you can sell it to make money. That’s what we did- we took money, food, sewing and medical supplies, toys, games, tools, anything we could get away with. We sold everything that wasn’t useful to us, and our parents never found out- they thought we were shipping packages to our friends. We made over $250 in one summer just from reselling things that our parents had in storage for years and never noticed went missing.
- Save every coin you get, no matter how small. They add up quickly, and you can exchange coins for paper money. If you steal money from your abusers, make sure it’s an unnoticeable amount, and only take a few coins at a time- we usually took a maximum of two coins per night from our mom’s purse, but some rates could be much higher or lower depending on how closely they watch their change. Don’t take quarters or paper dollars unless there’s a lot of them- they’re extremely noticeable.
- There’s a few other ways to get money as well. Check drains and streets/sidewalks and parking lots when you walk around outside. Fountains, especially at public gardens, are a really good place, just make sure there’s no workers or cameras watching you and you’re set. You can also check outside stores or stands for dropped change, though be careful because shops might not allow loiterers. You can also try just asking people for a couple cents- one thing that tends to work is to lie and say you just need five or six more cents to buy a sandwich/water bottle/whatever is relevant or comes to mind. It’s scummy, sure, but at the end of the day, you’re the one who needs to get out of your house as quickly as possible.
- Get a job if you can, even if it’s unconventional. If you can, go door to door and ask to walk dogs, mow lawns, weed gardens, wash cars, babysit, anything for an extra few bucks. Sell stuff on Instagram. If you can, get an actual job. This might not be an option for most of you, but if you can get one, you’re able to open up a ton of new opportunities for yourself.
- Use PayPal for all your online purchases. There’s a way you can go through PayPal and make it so your online purchases don’t show any specifics, only that you spent X amount of money through PayPal, which is of course super helpful when you have nosy parents.
- If you’re able to get a debit card, make sure you DO NOT USE IT TO BUY STUFF OFFLINE. It is very traceable. Your abusers will be able to see what you are purchasing. Instead, go to the bank or an ATM and withdraw cash. Cash is the only 100% non-traceable form of currency. If you’re old enough, try to get a credit card. They’re only traceable to whoever has access to your bank account.
=-=-=-=-=-= I’ll make a similar post soon about what to do if your friend/loved one is in an abusive household. Yes, a lot of these tips are very scummy and some involve being a less than decent member of society, but at the end of the day, you’re not the bad person in this situation. You’re doing what you need to do to survive. You’re in horrible, horrible circumstances that no person should ever have to be in. Sometimes you have to be a little scummy in order to survive and make it out in one piece.
We spent a lot of time on this post, I hope this helps at least one person. Thanks for reading <3
Don’t forget to label your stuff when packing with a specific color code. You can use different tapes for packing different materials like you can use red tape for packing clothes; prefer green tape for packing shoes, and take black tape for packing stationary and books. This will help you stay organized while unpacking and minimize your cleaning effort.
2. Binder clip cord organizer
You must be wondering how to keep all your computer cords and cables in one place. You can use few simple binder clips to make a horizontal channel and then use it to hand all your cables and cords. In fact, binder clips can serve many other purposes. Just be creative!
Creating a magnetic board for your cosmetics stuff will help you in managing them. Moreover, this will help you to grab your daily cosmetics easily and will save your time during the daily hassle.
Colored notebooks can be easily distinguished. Or you can simply color your notebooks if you don’t want to buy new ones. These notebooks can save you time during class hours as you don’t need to waste your time searching for them in your bag.
Fold your t-shirts or shirts properly and stack them horizontally in your drawer. This will save your time in choosing one out of number of t-shirts and also save space for more t-shirt.
You can use washi tape to make photo frames instead of hanging the wooden photo frames using nails and hammer. Washi tape photo frames look stylish and can be easily peeled off if you want to change your photograph or the dorm room.
Your mother won’t stay with you in your dorm room. So, a first aid kit is much needed. You can keep all the first aid stuff in any box and label it clearly. Also, keep it at a place which is easily accessible in case of an emergency.
Folding chairs can save space as these are easily stored. These are easily available and come in different colors and styles. Choose one that matches your personality.
If your dorm room doesn’t have enough floor space then utilize the wall space. Hang a magnetic strip on your bathroom wall and it’s ready to hold all your bath and beauty supplies.
These bed lifters will not only free up space under the bed but also gives you additional outlets. One bed lifter includes 6’ cord which can be easily plugged to the nearest outlet. These bed lifter outlets come with 2 power outlets and 2 USB ports.
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No matter how hard you try; it feels like you can never get your college schedule just right. Whether it’s because your time ticket is second to last or you’re trying your best to get all of the best teachers on Rate My Professor. Either way, you are bound to have a little bit of time in between classes.
If you’re anything like me, it’s always too much to start walking to your next class, but not enough time to go home. And you know you would if you could. I mean, that’s where your Netflix is always signed in and your bed is always waiting for you.
So, if you can’t go home, why not try one of these suggestions!
1. Review the notes you just took
If we’re being honest here, we both know you’re not going to study later on. You’re going to leave these notes in your back pack until it’s finally time to cram for that test. So, maybe take this opportunity to read over your notes again now. You never know how much of a difference it might make!
2. Study for your next class
I don’t know if this happens to you, but have you ever walked into a class and been handed a pop quiz? Well it sure has happened to me! And since I’m a HUGE procrastinator, I rarely studied before class. So, if you get the chance take a few minutes to look over your class notes and prepare for the unexpected!
3. Read something
If you’re tired of reading notes, read something else. Personally, I’m a book girl, but there are so many other things out there for you to read! Pick up a book, scroll through a blog, or even check out your school’s magazine. I always checked mine for the latest campus police news, that and the event’s page to find out where all the free food was gonna be :)
4. Grab a bite to eat
Speaking of food, take this chance to splurge on something yummy! Whether you pack yourself snacks, go to the cafe, or head off campus, this is the perfect time to eat. Especially if you woke up late and ran to class without eating, I know how it goes! So make sure you take a moment to eat, that way your stomach doesn’t interrupt your next lecture!
5. Visit a professor
It’s always good to get on your professor’s good side, so use your free time to drop by and visit one. Each teach holds office hours on campus and they are scheduled for you! Use this time to get to know your teacher, get help with an assignment, or ask questions about something you’ve been having trouble with. Just make sure that you follow your professor’s instructions carefully, some require appointments to be scheduled during office hours, while others encourage walk-ins.
6. Make a to-do list
As a college student, you’ve got a lot on your plate! More than likely, you’re taking classes, working, and part of a team or club. On top of all of those responsibilities, you still have to remember to do laundry, clean up after yourself, and more. So, take a moment to create a to-do list. You can write everything out in a notebook, an electronic device, or even the palm of your hand. Although, be careful with that last one, especially if you wash your hands a lot.
7. Check your e-mails
If you want to be productive, check your e-mails! I always recommend doing this before classes anyways in the off chance that one gets canceled. There’s nothing worse than waiting outside the classroom of a class that won’t be starting. Make sure to let your friends know too, just in case they don’t check their e-mails.
8. Meet up with your friends
If you’re just looking to relax, I suggest making time to meet up with your friends! I’m sure they’d love to hangout if they’re free and if they’re on campus, you can head over to their place. Who knows, you might even make some new friends too!
Now, if there’s a large gap in your schedule, you may prefer something a little more time consuming. Here are 4 more friendly suggestions!
9. Head to the gym
In case you’re worried about the dreaded Freshman 15, head to the gym and get a quick workout in. Most campuses provide a large list of classes and physical activities for students. I know at my school, Zumba was one of the most popular classes. So much so, that they had multiple classes each day of the week. If Zumba’s not for you, I’m sure you can find something else that is!
10. Take a power nap
We might not be kids anymore, but I’m a firm believer in nap time! If you’ve got the time, I highly suggest heading home and getting some rest. Even if you can’t sleep, it’s still good to lay down and relax throughout the day. Just make sure to set an alarm so you don’t sleep through your next class!
11. Get a job
If you’ve got a decent amount of time between classes, why not use it to make a little bit of money? College can be expensive and even if you’ve got your expenses covered, it’s still nice to have a little spending money every once in a while. The great thing about it is, college towns are constantly looking to hire. If you’re lucky, you might even find a job right on campus or in your field of study!
12. Go to a campus event
Each semester, campuses hold a variety of events for their students. There are so many different departments and clubs that there is almost always something going on.
If you haven’t seen any, try checking the flyers around campus and your school’s social media accounts. Plus, if you know any RAs I’m sure they’d be more than happy to give you free food at their next event!
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