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hey king! can i get a crime boys (tommy and wilbur) moodboard for a c!tommy fictive with themes of early days l'manburg and the song “elsa’s song” by amazing devil? thanks if you can!!

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Hi there ^-^, we have a recovering manburg-era schlatt requesting an aesthetic. Themes of recovering from addiction, sunrises, rams, black, red, and orange. Thank you very nuch in advance <3

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Hello, may we request a mood/aesthetic board for our c!Phil, who has been homesick and missing Techno? Themes of immortal friendship/reunion, drying herbs/pressing flowers, old letters/books, and friendship emeralds/gold jewlery? An almost cottage core aesthetic, with a warmer bronze/gold palette.

Thanks if you get to this, hope you’re well,

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We normally dont add art,But it felt appropriate for this one.

I only half apologize for all the soulmate vibes, Because they fit really well.

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➥“hiii! This will sound rlly weird but recently our John green fictive went dormant, and we miss him dearly. Can we get a stimboard with sciene/experiments, themes of therapy/getting better, and themes of light academia and history! Thank you so so much!~ tubbo fictive (the hexic system :)) )

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Here you go! i hope you like it!

i honestly have no idea how to tag this

-Mod bonk (Ranboo Wastaken)

DID things

When someone asks if you’re okay and you answer:

yes, no, maybe, i dunno

cause everyone is feeling different things so you have no idea

For Protector Alters

You’re amazing! we love you so much. We wouldn’t be where we are without you. You are vital to you’re system!!! You’re doing an amazing job! Keep going, we need you. We know that it can be quite frustrating, but we are all grateful for you, even if it sometimes doesn’t seem like it. We love you!!

Sometimes I wish my alters had their own separate bodies so we could physically do stuff together like shopping with the girls and talk out loud to each other and try things on in our own bodies and compliment and hype each other up cause I think North would be a good hype women.

Having DID is having to always check all of your social media because who said what to your friends when you weren’t around?

thesnowsystem:

if you’re reading this, you’re probably like us- stuck in an abusive and/or neglectful household for seemingly an endless amount of time, feeling trapped and like you’ll never get out. well, good news! you’ll get out eventually! and until you do, we have some tips to help you through it. it sucks, I know, but we’ll all get through it together, yeah?

these are all from a variety of sources and have been compiled over years of research. some may be outdated or may not work due to various reasons [changes in how appliances work, your abusers’ behavior, the resources you have available to you, etc]. however, there are enough tips here that I hope at least one will be of use to one of you out there. please reblog and share if you can!

General/Other:

- Check “college life hack” blogs/channels/etc, specifically the ones about living on campus. Usually they’re all about saving money or doing things without roommates knowing, which can be extremely useful.

- Take advantage of any opportunities you might get. Your parents bought a bulk pack of granola bars? Take a few. You missed your bus and have to walk home? Stop by a store on the way to pick up food or essentials. You get the idea.

- This may sound obvious, but don’t provoke your abusers intentionally. This especially goes for all you avenger alters out there [you know who you are], but it goes for everyone else too. Don’t test your boundaries unless it’s absolutely necessary. If you know something’s gonna piss off your abusers, don’t do it. This isn’t to say them abusing you is your fault- nothing like that. But we’re trying to avoid being abused as much as possible. I know it’s tempting to do things to piss them off or get back at them, but for your safety and the safety of others, don’t do it.

Health/Hygiene:

- Stock up on any medication you might need. After you get out, you might not be able to afford medication for a while, so it’s important to have a supply on hand. Stashing meds can help with this. I recommend stashing one extra per night if you take a lot of the medication, and one every other night if you only take a little bit (ex: if you take four pills per night, take an extra one to stash every night, and if you only take two, then take one every other night). Just make sure you label their expiration dates, and if the expiration date gets close, then you should restock your stash.

- If at any point your parents threaten to take you off your medication and you know they’re serious about it, wean yourself off. Never quit any medication cold turkey unless you’re on a low enough dose. This especially goes for antidepressants and anticonvulsants. Search up the recommended amount per week to take off and follow that. It sucks, but it’s necessary. And if they don’t follow through, then you can build back up to your regular dose again.

- Maintain proper hygiene as well as you can. This is especially important if you will be put in danger if anyone suspects you’re in an unsafe household. This might mean having to take showers at school, buzzing your hair to avoid having to wash it, wearing beanies to hide grease or dandruff, washing your hair in the sink, taking sponge or washcloth baths, only brushing your teeth at school or every few days, hiding hygiene products in your locker or somewhere else (I recommend your gym locker, if you have one- easier to explain that you’re just cleaning up after gym class), or anything else you might need to do to keep yourself safe and healthy while also maintaining your cover. This can also help you in getting a job, if you’re able to get one.

- If you menstruate, ask around at school or work for sanitary products. I recommend before gym class or during lunch- those tend to be the best times. Tampons are more discreet, but can’t really be worn safely overnight, so make sure you have both tampons and pads. If you can, get a menstrual cup. They’re easy to clean (wash under hot water or boil them), last a long time, and are reusable.

- If you have no access to sanitary products, a sock or rags wrapped in several layers of toilet paper will work. For heavy flows, use two socks. You can use baking soda to get the blood out later.

- If you need toilet paper, steal from public bathrooms or porta potties.

- Check those “life hack” YouTube channels, subreddits, profiles, tumblr blogs, whatever. Sometimes they’ll have useful information. The porta potty tip actually came from a CinemaSins video, and the menstrual tips come from various beauty bloggers. I really recommend https://useful-adulting-shit.tumblr.com/ , they’re a fantastic resource. you can sometimes find gems on there.

Cleaning/Generally flying under the radar:

- If you need to throw something out and don’t want your abusers to see, throw it out in a neighbor’s trash can, preferably one that’s half-full, or on garbage pickup day. This worked wonders for us anytime we had to throw out food wrappers we had hidden in our room. If you can’t do that, throw it out as far away from your house as possible. If there’s no garbage can, you’re gonna have to litter. Say your apologies to the environment now and hope someone with a generous soul comes by later to clean it up. I had to throw out the packaging to a pack of pacifiers out in a Target parking lot after I bought some for our little and realized I had no way to dispose of the packaging before getting home. At the end of the day, your carbon footprint is literally not going to matter. Sometimes you might have to litter. Throwing one or two pieces of trash into the bushes is better than being beaten or yelled at for hours.

- Stuff towels in the cracks of your door to muffle noises.

- Lost and founds are a gift from god himself. Take full fucking advantage of them. You can get free clothing, shoes, or sometimes even water bottles if you’re lucky. It’s especially useful during the winter. We didn’t have to use ours as much (our body basically never grows, so we never grow out of our clothing), but they could be very useful. You can usually find lost and founds in schools, churches, and basically any work building. If you can help it, try not to take anything sentimental, but sometimes you might need to.

- Steam from the shower can work as a makeshift iron. If you’re able to, take a longer-than-usual shower and hang up your clothes somewhere in the bathroom. Make sure you close the door all the way [or at least most of the way] and leave them hanging while you take your shower. Is it perfect? No. Does it work? Yes.

- Baking soda can help remove stains from fabric or carpet, specifically blood stains, or just stains in general. You can also use regular dawn dish soap, or any kind of soap that you have on hand. Just make sure to keep the stained area wet until you’re able to get the stain out. This has worked to get so many paint and blood stains out of our carpet and clothes, I can’t tell you how many rounds of shouting we’ve avoided just by keeping the carpet wet and scrubbing it over and over with dawn dish soap.

Food/Food Storage/Dishes:

- Store non-perishable foods in various places, and constantly change your hiding spots. Cans are only useful if you have access to a can opener or if the cans don’t require one to open. Crackers and granola bars are riskier because of the noise and all the crumbs, but they can be bought in bulk, so if you can get away with it, buy them. There’s advantages to big containers and individually wrapped packages. If you buy bulk, it’s easier to hide the noise and they last longer, but they’re harder to move and hide. Individually wrapped packages might be harder to hide the evidence of and could be louder, but they’re easier to hide in various places. We recommend keeping bulk containers of things like peanut butter and applesauce, and having individual packages of things that could go stale, such as crackers or chips.

- Eat food under your blankets, and clean up any crumbs you make. Bugs are the worst.

- If you can, have your friends ship or give you food. Our friend ordered three packages of food to our house once, and our parents luckily didn’t really care- they only questioned us once and then shrugged it off. It’s a great way to have a sure supply of food.

- In a similar vein, take advantage of any and all free food you can get. Free samples. Free lunches or breakfasts, if your school offers them. Church breakfasts are another big one, as well as food pantries and food drives. Stop by a few churches every so often to see if they’re doing one. What we do is get our school’s free lunch every day, store what we can in our locker or our backpack, and eat the rest of it for lunch. Before they tracked our pin numbers, we’d first wear a sweatshirt with the hood up, then we’d take off our sweatshirt and go in again. We’d give the extra perishable food to our friends so it didn’t go to waste.

- As long as they don’t have eggs (or are pre-cooked), you can eat noodles raw. You don’t need to cook them. And you can buy most noodles in bulk as well. As long as you can hide the noise, they’re a very good source of food.

- If you need to wash any dishes, wash them in a bathroom, or use a wet rag if you don’t have access to one. If you can wash them in the bathroom, wash them while you’re taking a shower. If you need to sneak them downstairs, do it while everyone’s asleep, not home, or when you find an opportunity. For the damp rags, wet one with water and dish soap, and another with just water. Even just scrubbing away the grime a little bit is better than not washing them at all.

- If you can’t get away with washing dishes, try layering plastic wrap on top of plates or bowls. This means you can crumple up the dirty plastic wrap and throw it away right after. If you don’t have access to plastic wrap, a napkin, parchment paper, or any kind of paper will work as long as the food isn’t too greasy or wet.

- You can use an iron to cook some types of foods [like pizza and grilled cheese]. This might work better if your parents don’t tend to notice things, or if you don’t have access to a stove or oven.

- Similarly, you can use the hot water from your sink to heat up certain foods or liquids. Put it in a plastic container, set the faucet to the highest setting, and run the container under the tap until it’s heated. It’s a good way to heat up canned soups if you have access to them, and it’s less noisy than a microwave.

- If you have access to an electric kettle, you can use that to quickly and easily boil specific amounts of water. It’s relatively quiet- much quieter than a regular kettle or a microwave- and there’s no risk of it boiling over like there would be on a stove. You can use this to cook all kinds of soups, noodles, and pastas.

- You’d be surprised how many stores actually sell food. You don’t need to go to a grocery store or Walmart to get access to food- a pharmacy, Ikea, Christmas Tree Shop, ACMoore, the dollar store, 5Below, Goodwill, or basically anything that isn’t the bank or an expensive restaurant are good places to find food. We have a pharmacy that’s about a half hour walk from our house, and we usually go every few weeks to replenish our food supply. Shitty food is better than no food. Just make sure you don’t buy canned food or produce from the dollar store, and you’ll be good.

Money-Related:

- Steal whatever you can get away with. Literally anything. If it isn’t useful to you, there’s a chance you can sell it to make money. That’s what we did- we took money, food, sewing and medical supplies, toys, games, tools, anything we could get away with. We sold everything that wasn’t useful to us, and our parents never found out- they thought we were shipping packages to our friends. We made over $250 in one summer just from reselling things that our parents had in storage for years and never noticed went missing.

- Save every coin you get, no matter how small. They add up quickly, and you can exchange coins for paper money. If you steal money from your abusers, make sure it’s an unnoticeable amount, and only take a few coins at a time- we usually took a maximum of two coins per night from our mom’s purse, but some rates could be much higher or lower depending on how closely they watch their change. Don’t take quarters or paper dollars unless there’s a lot of them- they’re extremely noticeable.

- There’s a few other ways to get money as well. Check drains and streets/sidewalks and parking lots when you walk around outside. Fountains, especially at public gardens, are a really good place, just make sure there’s no workers or cameras watching you and you’re set. You can also check outside stores or stands for dropped change, though be careful because shops might not allow loiterers. You can also try just asking people for a couple cents- one thing that tends to work is to lie and say you just need five or six more cents to buy a sandwich/water bottle/whatever is relevant or comes to mind. It’s scummy, sure, but at the end of the day, you’re the one who needs to get out of your house as quickly as possible.

- Get a job if you can, even if it’s unconventional. If you can, go door to door and ask to walk dogs, mow lawns, weed gardens, wash cars, babysit, anything for an extra few bucks. Sell stuff on Instagram. If you can, get an actual job. This might not be an option for most of you, but if you can get one, you’re able to open up a ton of new opportunities for yourself.

- Use PayPal for all your online purchases. There’s a way you can go through PayPal and make it so your online purchases don’t show any specifics, only that you spent X amount of money through PayPal, which is of course super helpful when you have nosy parents.

- If you’re able to get a debit card, make sure you DO NOT USE IT TO BUY STUFF OFFLINE. It is very traceable. Your abusers will be able to see what you are purchasing. Instead, go to the bank or an ATM and withdraw cash. Cash is the only 100% non-traceable form of currency. If you’re old enough, try to get a credit card. They’re only traceable to whoever has access to your bank account.

=-=-=-=-=-= I’ll make a similar post soon about what to do if your friend/loved one is in an abusive household. Yes, a lot of these tips are very scummy and some involve being a less than decent member of society, but at the end of the day, you’re not the bad person in this situation. You’re doing what you need to do to survive. You’re in horrible, horrible circumstances that no person should ever have to be in. Sometimes you have to be a little scummy in order to survive and make it out in one piece.

We spent a lot of time on this post, I hope this helps at least one person. Thanks for reading <3

=-= Karl [most tips written by Luke & Techno]

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so since everyone in the system is good at different things, we could all get really really good at one or two things, and one of us could get good at figuring out how to switch on command

and then we’d have like twenty something cool skills that we’re really good at

and if we could switch on command, we’d have twenty or thirty skills at the ready whenever we want

come on if everyone let the host know we were a system while I was dormant, they’ve at least got to have passed some cool ideas around

-presleyy

hey so can anyone recommend me like a good, factual website to learn about systems? we’re doing a genius hour project and I know most of the stuff already, but I can’t exactly cite headspace as a source lol.

every time I think I find a good one it’s like “and endos exist” but won’t elaborate or anything. and if yall think endos exist bc of religion or something then I can’t say anything about that in school, but scientifically, they can’t exist.

anyway if a website says that, then it’s not a scientific, factual, website. so I need some to cite.

not having enough time for hobbies when you’re a system

I feel like one of the things people don’t talk about as a system is that you can’t get the body to practice your hobby often enough to be good at it?

like m. m is a cheerleader. in headspace she’s incredibly flexible and can do super cool cheerleader shit. but even if she stretched every single time she fronted, it wouldn’t be consistent enough to get the body flexible. she’s tried.

and brynn loves baking. but she doesn’t front enough to bake enough to get good at it.

the only way to have consistent hobbies is when most of the members of the system enjoy it. and even then, it’s iffy.

I have a few hobbies I’ve gotten good at, just because I’m the host, but even little things like video games are hard. yesterday we passed a video game level easily and got more lives and power ups during it. so I decided to do it again, to get more, only to fucking lose all of it, because I had no idea who was cocon and who was doing what.

anyway hobbies are hard and not enough people are complaining about it so I will

-felix

ppl really don’t talk about how embarrassing it is to cry while there’s other people sharing your body who are just staring at you

today I was in the bathroom crying because I was called a slur and alixe was co-con. just. staring at me. waiting for me to finish so we could go back to class.

he wasn’t being judgmental, but it was really really embarrassing

-felix

you ever signing off and it’s like

-felix but also larry but also mena but also annalise but also sage but also alixe

idk what singlet needs to hear this tonight but THAT INTROJECT IS NOT YOUR PERSONAL CELEBRITY MEET AND GREET

one of the most failproof ways to find out who’s cocon is think what your favorite color is

someone asked me and I immediately went “orange” and yall I’ve literally never liked orange and I figured out who it was pretty quick

-felix

our system’s fictives are like, oh yeah, you know, someone from that popular piece of media, someone from a different popular piece of media, someone from a roleplaying account, and then there’s the whole herd of alters from that one piece of media -felix

me: oh yeah, we know how many alters there are in the system

me the next day: *sighs and edits our system masterlist*

the problem with trying to make system playlists is that my family has a family plan acc and they can see all my playlists

anyway tip for hiding playlists!!

title it as a character kin playlist. it works especially great if you’re a fictive of that character.

really though I have a playlist that’s titled as a varian kin playlist and it has two likes because ig the songs actually sounded relatable to varian?? we relate to the songs because they’re relatable to sharing your body with other people

-felix

ok so this is probably going to be a long fucking post but like. we need some help. we’re very new to knowing that we’re a system and I still haven’t read up on as much syscourse as I should. but I specifically need help from people who know what they’re talking about with poc alters.

ok. so here’s the deal. I’m the host. I look like the body.

the body is not white. the body is mixed. very, very mixed. we’re like ¾ white I think. the other fourth is mostly hawaiian (also a little asian. we’re not comletely sure). if we never go outside, we’re white passing and look tan, and if we get tan, we aren’t white passing anymore.

so here’s the deal. most of the human alters are white. we live in idaho and I never knew anyone that wasn’t white so I barely knew that poc existed. so most of the alters are white.

then there’s me. I identify with the body, and I identify with the body’s race.

and then there’s another alter. he doesn’t like being online much (I did get permission to ask about this) so I’m not going to mention his name. but.

he’s hawaiian. my parents didn’t teach us much about the culture or really anything. but when they did, he always always fronted. that’s one of the only things that he fronts for. and whenever my parents told the body to be proud of our hawaiian ancestry, he was the one they were telling. and he’s 100% hawaiian, and none of us know what to do with that.

because a lot of people say that you can have poc alters but they aren’t poc past the headspace because they can’t understand racism?

but our alter does. because he also fronts for when people are racist toward the body. he was there when we went to hawai'i and visited the room where our princess was kept. he was there when someone assumed we were white and told us to call off our vacation to hawai'i in the first place because of how rude native hawaiians are.

and he was there when we looked at the family tree, specifically the family tree of our hawaiian ancestors, because my mom wanted to show me which ones were cast out of there homes when america took over.

except he’s less white than the body. and he’s got the cultural things that my parents have said that we would’ve had if we grew up in hawai'i (like you know the tattoos and stuff)

and idk what to do?? so many people have talked about poc alters in white bodies and poc systems and shit but I don’t think I’ve seen anyone talk about a situation similar to this??

you know when I still thought I was a singlet, I knew that more people in a body costs more. I followed systems on tt and stuff before I knew I was one. and I knew that like with everyone’s different interests, it would cost more to keep people happy

but you know what I didn’t anticipate

HOW MANY OF US WANT OUR HARRY POTTER HOUSE SKIRTS

I’m hufflepuff and I have a hufflepuff skirt. madison is also hufflepuff. and I have a ravenclaw skirt because sage wanted one. but alixe also wants a slytherin skirt?? he doesn’t even like wearing skirts??? just like for fun I guess?? and delilah wants a gryffendor skirt?

these skirts are like ten bucks each when we get them from cheap thrift stores. we don’t have the budget for 40 bucks on fucking harry potter merch????

-felix

it’s so much harder to do math homework when I wasn’t even there to learn the shit and the alter that WAS there didn’t understand because it was a continuation of a lesson that a DIFFERENT alter was there for -felix

does anyone ever see something you own and be like “I thought you hated this” but you’re closeted as a system so you can’t explain that the thing isn’t yours and you don’t hate it and you can’t remember who owns and hates the thing anyway -felix

it’s so much easier to procrastinate things when you don’t know which of you actually agreed to do the thing and you can’t choose when you communicate -felix

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