Because there’s a lot of fresh faces on this blog and some people aren’t getting this.
Consent is mandatory. If you interact with someone’s post and they tell you you’ve made them uncomfortable, oblige them and remove yourself from the situation, take down your post, unfollow them, etc. Your kink is not above someone else’s comfort. Follow up: if you see “men DNI” or “women DNI”, etc. clearly listed and you belong to said group, do not fucking interact
Put your age in your bio. I don’t know how many times you people have to see that before you do it. If you are not forthcoming with your age, you do not get to interact with adult content. People can’t consent to you if you don’t say how old you are. If you’re actually a minor, leave. You’re endangering people by being here.
Do not impose your kinks on someone else’s post.Especially on non-sexualized posts and ESPECIALLY if you do not know them.
Do not send unsolicited sexual messages. Especially with people who you have never interacted with before. It’s creepy. And with people you do know? It still needs to be solicited, bucko. Ask them first.
Treat online kink like you would treat kink in person. If you ignore consent, boundaries, and comfort in a real kink community, you are no longer welcome in that community.
If it says don’t reblog, don’t reblog. Respect people’s privacy.
Am I missing anything major? I might keep this updated.
Tonight at the con I was about to take a picture with a deadpool cosplayer and when we were posing he said “is it okay if I put my hand on your waist?” And I was like “yeah sure thanks for asking!” And he just laughed and said “I’m deadpool, not CREEPpool!” And that was the most wonderful and reassuring con experience I’ve ever had.
HERE HE IS BTW
I love that so many Deadpool cosplayers ask for permission for all of their affections and pranks. In my experience the majority of Deadpools are good people.
I hope you guys don’t mind if I add mine! This guy was super cool! We were going to take the picture and he goes. “Would it be okay if I picked you up?” and of course I’m like “UH- YEAH!!” So really!!! Asking consent is NOT THAT HARD and really appreciated!!
