#homosexuality
Know your history:
Gay:
- Used to mean carefree
- Then sexually deviant
- Then prostitute
- Then slut
- Then sodomite
- And THEN as we know it today but only as a slur
- Reclaimed in the seventies
LGBT:
- Invented in the nineties
- Has faced constant backlash (from both straight, queer, and LGBT folks from being not inclusive enough or too inclusive)
- Every year there are pushes to change to acronym
- LGBTQ
- LGBTQ+
- LGBTQ*
- LGBTQIA
- Mogai
- Alphabet soup
Queer:
- Used to mean “other”
- Became a slang term for “not straight” in the 1400s
- Became a slur in the early 1900s
- Reclaimed in the 80s.
- Sudden push back from within the queer community to have it seen only as a slur in the 2010s, a push that can be traced back to terf ideology.
- Is the only term that includes all non cishet people
Homosexual
- A medical diagnosis
- Used for decades to make queerness into a mental illness
- Used as a slur for the latter half of the 20th century
- Rejected by the queer community as an acceptable term for a brief period of time in the early 2000s before coming back into fashion.
- Only describes the experience of cis gay men and cis lesbians
Think what you want, believe what you will, but every word we have ever used to describe ourselves is coated in blood.
Op ur so brave to assume people on this site can read well enough to get this
I actually talked to an older queer guy who said he was amazed to see how many young people call themselves gay. When he hears it, he just hears a slur…but he also said he was glad that people are able to reclaim it, and he’s happy to see a generation of lgbt+ people comfortable with it.
People on this site could learn from him
I told my grandma I was, “not as convinced as I used to be,” that homosexuality is wrong. (Which is technically the truth since I don’t think it’s wrong at all anymore) And she told me she wanted to spank me (I’m 26), teared up, and tried to tell me why I was wrong. I did my best to explain why, from a Biblical perspective, it is possible to believe homosexuality isn’t a sin, ya know, hypothetically. She is convinced it’s a conspiracy.
The conversation started because she asked me what I think she should do about the wedding reception of my sort-of-2nd cousin and her wife.
How the heck do people come out in this culture when I’m sitting here scared to come out as an ally?
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Hey guys! Today I was talking to some of my friends and the subject came up about coming out. My one friend came out as bi to me and I never realized she was bi! Then a chain of my friends started coming out to me. I never realized I had a bi friend, three gay friends, and a demi friend! Afterwards I came out to them as pan and we all laughed together. We feel closer than ever.
You guys who haven’t come out to anyone yet, you aren’t alone, and you should try to come out! Coming out is an amazing feeling, you’ll feel like a new, better person. Love you guys! <3
~Caitlin
Man, the closest to a ‘golden age’ of being a homosexual must have been the late 2000′s, early 2010′s…I remember being a young teen going through the realization that I was gay and going online to spaces where it was actuallyokay in their eyes to be a homosexual.
So many YouTubers who were based around serious and light-hearted discussions about being lesbians really helped me, as well as seeing gay men express themselves since that helped me learn more about the LGB community. I felt like things were looking up for us and that even though being gay was different and could sometimes be scary, there would always be this community to back each other up. It was going to be okay to be a gender non-conforming lesbian, because the older women I saw on my laptop screen were trying to make it so.
And then in about 2015-2016, something shifted right before my eyes. It’s not like the trans community didn’t exist before - I knew them well enough, and was 100% supportive of them, but they had grown muchlouder. I think the most damning thing for me personally was watching all the lesbian idols I had come to know on places like YouTube started coming out as trans men or nonbinary. I couldn’t help but feel a bit disappointed each time, even though I had been taught by now that this feeling of disappointment was “transphobia”. These were my role models, my only connection to gender non-conforming females since I lived in a small conservative town in the armpit of Florida.
I tried to be supportive all the same, even though it seemed like every day those channels I watched or blogs I read started to disappear or change themselves to being about exclusively trans topics. It was like these people thought that the legalization of gay marriage in America was the end-all to oppression or issues for homosexuals, and so they had to move on to the next thing. I felt frustrated, but also pressured to joining the bandwagon, accepting that trans people were the oppressed now, and “cis” gay people had power over them even if it didn’t make much sense to me.
I wish I could go back to those times. Most libfems and tras really think that because gays can marry now and sometimes commercials on TV will show a gay couple, they don’t need to care about us anymore. But I’m still here. There’s plenty of people still here. This is a very America-centered post as well, since I’m sure the experience of anyone outside of it may be different, but my personal experience really opened my eyes to the trans community and their ‘allies’. Greedy consuming erasers.
If any of you ‘not-straight’ darlings ever cringe about how hard you pretended to be #straight, just remember that my friends and I (none of whom are straight) brainstormed the straightest thing we could do, and came up with the brilliant idea making a science fair project looking into why certain men are thought of as hot. Because this would make us seem super straight.
It basically consisted of us showing pictures of dudes to other girls asking who they thought was hotter and being all like ‘hmm, good choice’, then making graphs and writing up psychological reasons for these men being picked.
Naturally, we came first place - and proved that no amount of science can make you straight!