#enby discourse

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Honestly, anyone who uses they/them and also binary pronouns are probably just straight up trans/cis.

If you are fine with your AGAB pronouns as well as they/them, you’re probably just cis.

If you’re fine with the pronouns opposite of your AGAB as well as they/them, you’re probably just trans.

Being fine with they/them in general doesn’t mean you are nonbinary. It just makes you normal.

(This post does not include people who only use they/them pronouns)

You put it into words.

Also cis people who say they go by any pronouns. It’s not that you go by any pronouns, it’s that you don’t experience dysphoria in being misgendered the way trans people do. My friend is a cis man but he dresses pretty neutral and has incredibly long hair so he often gets called a lady and such. It doesn’t bother him the way it does our other guy friend, who’s trans. He’s similar, his hairs on the longer side (nowhere near the other one’s tho) and he can be kinda feminine but when he gets misgendered? It hurts. Because he’s not cis.

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“there’s a guy in a discord i’m in that always refers to everyone as “brother” or “sister” based on their pronoun settings and i was wondering what he’d do with an nb person and tonight he answered my question replying to someone with “thanks cousin”
-@metaltxt

january 2020 - january 2021

it does get better, i promise.

hEy pls go take the time to maybe go like a few of my tiktoks, it would make my week lmao

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