#gender based violence
Umoja is a community of 48 women in the arid plains of northern Kenya. The word means ‘unity’ in Swahili.
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TW: Sexual Assault mentioned
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As a sexual assault and DV survivor advocate for 4+ years, I was often asked how people could be more supportive of survivors in their day-to-day lives. In honor of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, I want to share some of my most successful advice:
A great way to be trauma-informed and supportive of survivors in your everyday life is to speak to and treat people as you would someone whom you know for a fact has been assaulted. At least 1 in 4 cis women and 1 in 10 cis men in this country have experienced sexual violence, and the numbers are higher for trans and gender-nonconforming folks.
You’re never going to hurt someone who hasn’t been sexually assaulted by treating them with the same kind of thoughtfulness that you would a person of whose trauma you’re aware, but you could hurt someone by treating them specifically like they haven’t experienced sexual violence.
IMPORTANT!!! VvVvVvV
I’m not saying you should walk on eggshells around everyone! I’m saying you should put trigger warnings for content that references sexual violence, you should always check in with someone before you start a conversation regarding sexual violence, and when you’re talking to/in a big group of people, assume that someone in that group has had some kind of experience with sexual violence (the numbers tell you it’s probable). Don’t treat anyone like a victim, but be aware of the topic, and the odds of someone having experienced it, when it comes up.