This advice is meant for girls interested in threesomes and polygamous relationships involving their sisters (or equivalent - friends, cousins, female relatives etc.). Thanks to societal bullshit expectations, men have been taught to suppress their primal instinct to collect more women throughout the course of their lives. As a result, they will often deny any interest in polygamous relationships, contrary to their natural drives. So, girls interested in living by nature’s rules of being part of a harem or family of women serving one man, will often find it difficult to bring up this topic with the hope of getting honest answers and thoughts. Therefore, I have devised a method for girls to smoothly and quickly start a functioning harem even with men who superficially deny interest in these things.

1. Pre-discuss with your sister(s) and set-up a harem with them.

2. Familiarize all sisters with the usual kinks by reading through a blog such as this.

3. Establish some clear rules for a harem to function - such as a clear hierarchy, complete obedience to a Master without limits, complete privacy, strict vetting of new recruits and clear consequences on flouting of rules, etc.

4. Insist that other sisters must chaperone any of the sisters going on any dates. If you are already dating or are in a relationship, just insist upon this for all future outings with your man.

5. Send him nudes of yourself and all your harem sisters frequently even if he protests.

6. On the date itself, all girls should wear very revealing clothing and no bra or panties.

7. Whilst he might be focused on the girl he had asked out on the date, all the girls present should be frequently flashing him their breasts and vaginas and making reference to each others privates casually and openly.

8. They should also dare each other starting with his intended date, to expose themselves and perform various sex acts on him, in a cheerful and humorous fashion.

9. Then they should casually get him to do some rough sex acts on them as a dare.

10. If things progress well, they should as a group, beg him to be their Master and to use them as he pleases.

I hope the above tips lead to the formation of a good number of harems. Remember girls, all males are meant to be alphas to all women, whether they know it or not. Serve your men and pay homage to nature by helping the men you know reach and satisfy all their primal drives.

I had an exchange today with a fellow Master and this got me thinking about the practical aspects of organizing a polygamous relationship. Working as a professional in a field which closely scrutinizes the meaning and effects of all sorts of relationships, I have come to some insights, which I wish to share.

It is all well and good to fantasize about having a posse of mindless slaves or obliging subs to do your bidding but how is this going to be sustainable? If you have managerial/leadership experience, you will know that human resource management can be the most challenging aspect of the job. Every single recruit to the cause comes with a different set of skills, personal backgrounds, interests and dislikes, values and goals, and personal attitudes and aptitudes. This will affect the way they relate to others within the unit, their abilities, the effort they will put in, their compliance, and their longer-term commitment.

It is much the same in setting up a harem. Your ability to manage multiple people really depends on your ability to select the right individuals, and unless you can predict the future, you will likely fail. People invariably will present their most pleasing aspects during the first few meetings, showcasing their hidden flaws much later on, when things start becoming comfortable.

So the following will detail my advice on how to start and maintain a harem. Please note, I am interested essentially in polygyny which is maintaining a relationship between one man and multiple women, so my advice will reference this lifestyle within a dominance and submission framework. However, I do think aspects of this will still be applicable to other poly-amorous lifestyles.

1. Probably the best thing you could do is to enter into a relationship with a girl pair/group at the same time. For girls interested in this lifestyle, I always suggest talking to your sisters, friends and other female relatives and forming a harem with them before finding your Master. For Masters, look for a group of girls wanting to enter into a relationship with you at the same time. Sisters, friends and relatives have a natural bond which will endear them to each other and promote the continuation of the relationship.

2. For those already in a relationship, I suggest getting your partner emotionally invested in a polygamous setup. This whole thing will only work if both partners have the same vision. It is only natural that 2 people coming into a relationship don’t see eye to eye on every single thing. However, it is also natural that individuals in a relationship grow to adopt some of the interests of the other. So, introduce your partner to this lifestyle and monitor the uptake. To this end, you can introduce them to any number of Gorean, Cuckquean and similar literature, groups, blogs or websites. If they are interested, proceed to point 3. If they are not interested, do not pursue this for it will only end in tears.

3.  For those in a relationship with a willing partner, delegate the task of finding the other partners to her. Similarly for girls reading this who are already in a relationship with a guy who is willing to Master a harem, take it upon yourself to find the other partners.

4. It will be infinitely better to find partners from the pool of women you already know. This means within sisters, friends and female relatives. As for reasons why, please read point 1.

5. It will be essential for girls involved to completely serve under the leadership of their Master without limits, surrendering any moral compass or conscience to their Master, and unquestioningly serving all his interests whether it appeals to them or not. In the less than ideal setting where there are limits, these should be observed by all members equally. 

6. It will be essential for all members to maintain secrecy about their lifestyle in regard to all outside members. All potential new recruits should be vetted extensively before letting them into your exclusive group. This is both for safety and your peace of mind.

7. It will be essential for there to be some sort of agreed hierarchy within the group. Order and structure are essential for good and clear group dynamics. This should be enforced by the more senior members of the group.

8. It will be essential for group activities to extend to other areas of life apart from sexual activities so relationships can become wholesome.

9. One must think about the costs of running such an endeavour and really, a stay at home group of slaves that is not generating any income, is neither practical nor sustainable. So, I would suggest gainful employment be sought by all members to contribute towards the Master’s harem.

10. If members of the group are threatening group dynamics by not observing the hierarchy, not observing secrecy, not contributing financially and otherwise, not following the group rules, have severe mental illnesses or personality disorders, or engaging in damaging habits (severe drugs and alcohol, self harming and overdosing, violent/criminal acts, undisclosed infidelity) have a discussion within the group and release them from the group. Trying to work with these problems will do more harm than good for the harem.

So there you have it. This is actually quite a serious post. I have been thinking about these issues for awhile but I have finally gained the impetus to put it in writing. I hope you aspiring polygamists out there will find the above points useful. If you wish to discuss anything at all, do not hesitate to contact me.

10 reasons for polygamy

For most of human history polygamy (i.e. polygyny - one man with multiple women) was the norm. This was how nature intended it and we see it right across the animal kingdom and especially so with our closest mammal relatives. So, why should it be any different for us humans? The problem seems to stem from a mistaken belief that women and men are increasingly happier with modernity. Whilst the technological advancements of the current age have brought much comforts, I don’t think we can say we are happier as a species. Depression and suicide rates are through the roof as are all manner of other psychiatric disorders. This is why a return to the ways of the past with respect to polygamy will bring us closer to nature and is the path our kind should take. The following are some of the positive reasons for polygamy.

1. Families, siblings, friendships stay together. Typically these relationships grow apart at least to some degree over time but if you stay in a relationship with one man, this will not happen and you will work towards common goals.

2. Potential financial benefits may be greater if there are several working adults supporting the family.

3. Domestic and other chores will be less time consuming with more hands on deck.

4. Sexual interactions will be infinitely more exciting. This will be especially so if women leave these choices to the Man who they serve.

5. Loneliness will never trouble you ever again. I suspect that this in fact is likely the major cause of mental illness in our increasingly fractured society with isolated nuclear families.

6. Any sort of entertaining activity or outing will be infinitely more fun.

7. All problems are better solved with more heads and brains under a centralised leader.

8. You will have a sense of purpose and order belonging to a larger unit where your place in the hierarchy is clear.

9. Men have bountiful seed and thus have been clearly made/evolved to have multiple partners to give their progeny the best chance of survival.

10. Women have a finite number of eggs and a limited number of menstrual cycles where they can conceive. If they do conceive, they are unable to conceive further for another year typically on top of a further focus on child rearing, an extended period during which they are more vulnerable and need added protection. This clearly indicates that girls have been made/evolved to select one Man to serve and get his favour, to give their progeny the best chance of survival.

Discuss with your partners or if single, discuss with your sisters, friends and female relatives. Make it happen and enjoy a life of bliss!

Kinks of a Dom

This is a personal post to order and organise my interests. Naturally new things arise from time to time and priorities can change as well. So, I have taken pains to list the most stable and arousing of my interests.

1. Areola slip

2. Nip slip

3. Large areolas

4. Large nipples

5. Large labia

6. Large natural breasts

7. Saggy breasts

8. Braless and pantiless

9. Old man and Young girl

10. Fat man and slim girl

11. Ugly/disabled man and beautiful girl

12. Dominance and submission (M>f)

13. Cum facial

14. Cum swallow

15. Ass licking/Rimming

16. Girl drinking Man’s piss

17. Girl eating Man’s shit

18. Girl being Man’s toilet

19. Face fucking

20. Tit torture

21. Pussy torture

22. Groping/Stripping

23. Forced everything

24. Anal especially painal

25. Virgin defloration

26. Ass to mouth and pussy to mouth

27. One guy and many girls

28. Humiliation of girls

29. 24/7 TPE with no limits

30. Flashing and exhibitionism

If any of these interest you, contact me. I am constantly on the look out for more slaves to join the Harem.