You come late from work after a long day, before you even get to the door you hear the song “I like me better” playing faintly in the background. You open the door and go to the lounge where you immediately find be dancing around with a silly smile on my face in one of your t-shirts. I’m so small that you t-shirt comes to my mid-thigh. You can also smell food being cooked, there is something in the oven, you know it’s home made because I love to cook for you, something you like after a long day. You smile and come in. “I’m home princess” I turn around and smile big and happy. I run and jump into your arms “You’re home!! I missed you, I made your favourite!” I give you a pec on the lips and try to get down, but you won’t let me. “Let me dowwwnnnn” I whine and pout. “Hey there sweetheart” you grin. I giggle and give you a proper kiss, then I try to get down again. You grab my thighs harder and I whine, you move your hands to my ass. “Pleeaaseee let me down, the food is going to burnnn” I pout again and you chuckle. “Ask properly and I’ll let you down.” I look at you and shake my head. “Can you please put me down so I can keep making the diner that I spent the last hour doing for you” I make a pause “daddy” I say in a bratty tone. You don’t look happy, you give me a light but firm spank and I squirm “ah ah ah, don’t get bratty with me princess. Askproperly,I won’t ask again.” You say in that voice that makes me,want to listen. “Sorry daddy, it won’t happen again, could you put me down, pretty please” I say while giving you the puppy eyes. “How can I say no to you, darling” you put me down and smack my ass on my way to the kitchen and I yelp. “When we finish eating we will talk about how I don’t like it when you get all bratty” you actually love it, because you get to punish me. “And we can also talk about how desirable you look in my clothes” your voice goes the right tone of rough and you can hear possessiveness in it. “Well you are going to love what I’m wearing underneath, daddy” I say as I go to the kitchen, right before I turn I mouth one word ‘nothing’. You groan and I giggle as I serve dinner.
Most people don’t understand how intimate hand holding is.
If I hold your wrist? You don’t have to hold my hand but that doesn’t mean I’m not going to hold yours somewaysomehow.
If I grasp your ring finger and your little finger? I’m feeling extra small and I know you’ll protect me while we’re out in the world, that’s the ultimate trusthold.
If I place my hand in yours and entwine our fingers and/or hug your arm? I’m not letting you go unless I definitely HAVE to and don’t you dare pull your hand from mine or I’ll cryandwhine like the sensitive cry baby I am.
Gets scolded by literally anyone else: *is mad* I don’t need you to tell me what to do I’m old enough to be responsible and know what to do thank you! *Walks of*
Also me:
Gets scolded by Daddy: *fidgets nervously as I sniffle like a baby and apologies almos crying* I’m sorry Daddy. I’ll be a good girl I promise! Don’t be mad, I’m so sorry!
I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.
Subdropis what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during a scene or session.
Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentallyandemotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how someone normal would not find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.
That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.
Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know is what topdrop is. It’s the same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.
I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.
Rememberwe’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.
Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments or sexual scenes down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.
That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow.ASK THEM IF THEY’RE OKAY!! Especially right after a session.
That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.
“Fuck you my child is fine” Ma’am your child wants a man twice her age who she will only call daddy or sir, depending of her behaviour that day, to rail her into next week; treat her like a brat, slut or baby depending on their mood.
“Why you into that kind of stuff?” My man I wish I could tell you. But my pussy and I are two totally different people. She tells me she likes it and I just roll with the punches. Now put your hand around my throat.
being tired just makes me so submissive. i just want to wrap myself in a fuzzy blanket and curl up in his lap. i want him to tell me that i’m good and play with my hair and let me nuzzle into his neck and give him sleepy kisses everywhere. and i’d love if he’d let me warm his cock while i sit in his lap so that i can cry into shirt when i feel overwhelmed with how full i am. he could thrust up into me if he wanted of just let me fall asleep there like a good little sub.
This isn’t a matter of wanting it’s a matter ok needing.
I love how sometimes a Dom takes care of everything, but sometimes I just want to hold their face between my little hands and tell them how much I love them and how perfect they are and how much I appreciate how they look after me.
