#making people uncomfortable
I’m not sure if I think any of us are obligated to apologize to some hearing people for making them feel uncomfortable for five seconds when we are uncomfortable in their world for a lifetime.
Reaction Junkie: Who’s Daddy’s little feminist bitch?
Me: *raises hand because my mouth is full of dildo*
Reaction Junkie: That’s right!
He just saw this and said “I’m literally quivering in discomfort.”
hehehe
I’ve always wanted to do a couples costume with someone, and this year I get to do two!
For the parties tonight, I’m going to be a feminist and he’s going to be an MRA. I have to admit I find it hot when he acts like a pretentious, condescending, sexist douche. I’m looking forward to having our usual switching back and forth plus the added feminist vs. MRA dynamic.
For the parties tomorrow, I’m going to be a Catholic schoolgirl and he’s going to be a teacher. I’m eagerly and evilly anticipating acting like a high schooler and making him just a bit uncomfortable. And of course, retaliatory spankings.
This is going to be the best Halloween I’ve had in a good while. I’m so excited!
One of the short list of things that get me feeling dommy, and that I have some facility with, is making boys uncomfortable, particularly sexually uncomfortable. I’m especially fond of making them uncomfortable and turned on at the same time. Finding someone who has shame or uneasiness about some aspect of their sexuality or who is repressed is such fun. I thoroughly enjoy pulling at that thread and watching them struggle with the combination of arousal and discomfort. It makes me feel powerful and predatory and in control. I also enjoy being able to help someone turn those negative feelings into something they can have fun with, as others have done for me with my Catholic guilt, my shame, and my feelings of being fucked up. I know what it’s like to feel uncomfortable, ashamed, and guilty about sex and my kinks, which makes it easier for me to turn that around on other people.
Repressed Boy is especially great for this because he definitely enjoys being told to do things, being told he’s good, etc., but he’s also repressed and new, so he gets uncomfortable and just starts giggling, which is wicked adorable. I also played with this with Marxman with regards to calling him “Daddy,” although that was a different kinds of dynamic because he was much more on the d side of things. It started as a joke, and he was clearly uncomfortable about it, and finally admitted it also turned him on. We stopped playing, so I can’t do that anymore. That combination of feelings, tho…Unf. Also, The Programmer got uncomfortable when I just gave him a certain look, which was delightful. Makes me want to treat him like prey.
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