#moms demand action
The motivations for suicide are hard to predict, but often it’s only a matter of minutes between the first suicidal thought and the attempt itself.
Suicide is often a convergence of factors leading to a sudden, tragic event. In one study of people who survived a suicide attempt, almost half reported that the whole process, from the first suicidal thought to the final act, took 10 minutes or less …
“What people experience before attempting suicide is a combination of panic, agitation and franticness,” he said. “A desire to escape from unbearable pain and feeling trapped.”
Sometimes,depression isn’t even in the picture. In one study, 60 percent of college students who said they were thinking about ways to kill themselves tested negative for depression.
“There are kids for whom it’s very difficult to predict suicide — there doesn’t seem to be that much that is wrong with them,” said Dr. David Brent, an adolescent psychiatrist who studies suicide at the University of Pittsburgh.
Dr. Brent’s research showed that 40 percent of children younger than 16 who died by suicide did not have a clearly definable psychiatric disorder.
What they did have was a loaded gun in the home.
“If the kids are under 16, the availability of a gun is more important than psychiatric disorder,” Dr. Brent said. “They’re not suicidal one minute, then they are. Or they’re mad and they have a gun available.”
you know our country has a huge problem with gun violence – and the media’s ability to cover it.
Guns are fun and make people feel cool.
The gun lobby makes a crazy amount of money off making and selling guns.
The politicians get enough of that money to turn the other cheek.
Mental illness is an issue everywhere that can affect anyone.
It’s all very, very simple.
If you’re not American and you’d like to be part of our solution, please, we welcome you with open arms. Help us. We are living in an actual nightmare. We are scared, and constantly mourning. We welcome your camaraderie and your voices.
If you’re here to give us your sanctimonious take on how you just can’t possibly understand how Americans could blah blah blah, please, sit it out. It’s all very simple. You have the privilege of being born in a country where this issue was never allowed to spiral out of control. There are no inherent differences between us. “In Australia we just can’t understand…” ok first of all in Australia you literally have concentration camps. And I am confident that you speak out about and against that!!!! I am. “Well in Canada” you have a deep and quite recent history of slaughtering indigenous school children. And I know you mourn that! I know you do. I know you are 100% dedicated to righting those wrongs. “In Germany we just don’t…” oh brother I am not touching that with a ten foot pole y’all.
Americans are not an alien species with inherently different problems caused by who we are fundamentally as people. We are a different country struggling with a different issue and living in a nightmare of political making. If you can’t be part of our solution, please, just focus on your own problems.
Every time, with the self righteous pile on. We get it. You “just don’t get it.” Given how simple it all is, that’s on you. Keep it to yourselves, please. It’s not appropriate today.
Tomorrow we will see their smiling faces and learn their names, and their precious ages.
On Thursday we will read a heroic story or two, about a teacher, a custodian maybe, who stood their ground and tried to fight back.
On Friday the NRA will meet as planned in Texas and we will all rage online.
On Saturday we will ask ”what are we supposed to do, just go back to normal????”
On Sunday we will.
We are America.