My Goddess knows this too, and I have accepted this as my reality. I know I don’t deserve orgasms. I don’t deserve pussy. I don’t deserve any form of sexual stimulation. I only deserve chastity and denial. My Goddess deserves all the pleasure. I’ve learned to receive my pleasure and fulfillment from her orgasms.
At this point, being denied as long as I have been, I know I cannot possible compare to the fuck the strap on gives my Goddess, and she deserves the best fuck possible. She deserves a thick cock that can fuck her for as hard and long as she desires, and I know I cannot offer her that. I know too that I don’t deserve her Goddess pussy. I only deserve chastity and denial.
Permanent chastity is always a kinky idea at first. It’s quite interesting how people tend to have a love hate relationship with the idea. The more you think about it the sexier it gets, until the idea becomes scary. One day she’s telling him she’s thinking about locking him up forever, and that gets him all horny and wanting release. Then she lets him out and lets him cum, and it’s a great experience for both to share that level of passion.
However, as time goes on, the idea of permanent chastity becomes a more dominant idea. The spaces between unlock times get a little longer, and she teases him a little more often about it. Saying it’s permanent, and then making him wait an extra week or two. She knows exactly the effect this is having on his psyche. She is likely not yet comfortable with the idea of permanent chastity, so he gets a release eventually.
It is addicting. The more she keeps him locked, the more she wants to keep him locked. She notices the increased enthusiasm to serve her. She can feel it in his tongue as his eagerness to please her is overwhelming. She notices the increase in submissiveness, and how he is basically throwing himself at her feet. She notices how much his willingness to use his tongue in other places such as her ass, or feet, even if at one time he may have been hesitant to lick her ass, he is now begging for it. She notices his focus on her pleasure is far greater than his focus on his own pleasure, even though she can see his desperation for release, she enjoys his redirected energy into her pleasure only.
The addiction to chastity grows in both of them, and before long, the idea becomes scary, because it’s so close to being a reality. She loves having him chaste and at her whim, and he’s certainly not complaining about it. The idea of never entering her again with his uncaged penis is terrifying yet totally erotic. It’s like the worlds best drug. An idea both can play with, and make better with simple gestures and thoughts. Tapping the key on his cage while contemplating whether or not she should unlock him. Then deciding not tonight.
She learns to grow in that power, and she loses any kind of guilt about not giving him pleasure. It empowers her. Yet it is his sacrifice that turns her on, and gives her a sense of owning him completely. He wants to serve her so much, that he is willing to let go of intercourse with her, in order to earn his place at her feet forever. That’s a level of loyalty conventional relationships could only dream of having. She has the ability to make him pussy free at any time, and that’s why the idea is scary for him. Because he doesn’t know what she thinks about it. She can tease all she likes, but what if she’s serious?
It’s a cognitive dissonance idea. He wants to sacrifice for her, but he also wants to have intercourse with her because he is so deeply in love with her. It can be difficult for both partners to give up intercourse in favor of permanent chastity, because she is going to need to find a replacement if she enjoys penetration. Either with another partner, or with toys that he can use on her. It’s a different kind of sex. It’s a major psychological shift that he is going to have to undergo and realize his penis is no longer his dominant sexual organ.
When she finally does make the decision that his penis is to be forever caged, and intercourse is indeed a thing of the past for him, it can be very emotional, on top of enhanced desperation, for the first month or two. Letting the reality sink in and absorb the new life in real time is real surrender. He will be pushed to the breaking point, because there is no other place for him to go. He must let go of a lifetime of living sexually through his penis, and let go of all aspects of his old sex life. From that point forward, he obeys her, and only her. She decides all of it.
Once that breaking point is reached, and he has had that realization, that he’s never going back to the old way, he will cry tears of acceptance. He will surrender himself to her, and to the cage. This is when permanent chastity moves from being a scary idea, to his actual reality, and he can no longer fear it, because she has decided for him that this is the way it will be. He is surrendered to her. That’s when the cage becomes his home. That’s when he feels naked without the cage on. His desperation turns into dedication. He no longer fights the cage but embraces it. And she never goes back on her word, it’s permanent, full stop. Never to be questioned. That’s the sacrifice of permanent chastity.
This is something many don’t realize about being kept locked in chastity 24/7 without release for long periods of time. It makes you a premature ejaculator. You will no longer be able to give a woman a good long fuck. My Goddess let me out for an orgasm after four months in chastity. She let me inside her and I came within seconds. I didn’t even get to thrust. Luckily for her she has me wear a strap on so she can enjoy being fucked, because I can’t do it anymore. The joy of a long hard fuck has been taken from me. My life is now chastity and denial which keeps me horny and desperate. I prefer it that way though . It makes me a better slave.
The male orgasm exists only for procreation and as a tool to be used to control him by being denied. When he is denied orgasm, he remains horny and desperate and this will drive his submission and obedience. He will be on his best behavior in hopes of receiving some sexual stimulation and relief. It will also keep him focused on His Goddess and her pleasure.
I have accepted this is the state my Goddess wants me to remain in. Being horny and desperate drives my submission and obedience and keeps me always eager to pleasure her.
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I dreamed of being denied even the sight of my own erect cock. For years I didn’t look down at it as she teased me. I tried to avoid staring. It did help keep me from suddenly cumming.
This is truth! The exception being when I remove or put on the cage. I have fully accepted I will never again wrap my hand around my hard cock. I don’t have a cock anymore. It belongs to my Goddess. She alone decides when I can have an erection, stimulation, emission, or orgasm.
Indeed, I’m very grateful my Goddess has taken away my cock and taken ownership and control. I used to be watch pornography and masturbate incessantly. I gave myself an orgasm usually multiple times a day. She has shown me that I am a much better slave when I’m denied orgasm and don’t have access to my cock. Now stay horny and desperate and am always eager to pleasure her. I’ve learned to find my pleasure and fulfillment for her pleasure and orgasms.
You have to admit that sex had never been so good until you met me and started wearing a chastity cage.. your little penis will never give me the total pleasure I desire you need to accept that and begin living the life you deserve.. real chastity begins when you want out and your poor denied balls start aching.. men like you don’t even deserve to cum, hence the cage being the last thing your dick will ever slide into, you are staying in chastity FOREVER!!
I don’t think my Goddess realized how much she would enjoy it either. My Goddess was a good girl. A virgin up until our engagement. She had zero experience in the D/s lifestyle. She went along to appease me, but she quickly learned she was into it as well. At first she felt bad keeping me denied, but now she barely even thinks about it and enjoys receiving all the pleasure.
Definitely not. My Goddess forbids it. She’s assured me I will never again wrap my hand around my hard cock. I’m not even allowed to touch the cage. There are exceptions. When I remove or install the cage, I am allowed to touch it, and when I need to adjust the cage due to discomfort. Other than that, I know my hands don’t belong anywhere near her property.
It really is amazing what it’s done for our marriage!
Soon my Goddess will be having me get the PA piercing so she can secure her cock to the cage. This will make chastity inescapable. I will be thankful to have the temptation to pull her cock out removed. The less temptation I have, the better. I have weak self control when it comes to her cock. I’m a slave that needs chastity, and the most secure chastity at that.
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This is so true! Now that I know I’m never cumming again, I have been able to totally focus on pleasuring my Goddess, and when she gets pleasure, I do too! I moan right along with her.
My Goddess has made clear that I definitely do not deserve to cum. Ever. She also tells me to never expect any sexual stimulation or pleasure, and that I don’t deserve to feel her tight wet Goddess pussy on her cock. I only deserve denial and chastity. I know she knows what’s best for me. I am happy to accept her guidance and control.
If I happen to be up around midnight, one of my newest guilty pleasures is checking my counter app on my phone and see the number of days has increased by one. I’m aiming to beat my last record of 100 days.
Going 100 days without orgasm and succeeding was exhilarating. i had never before completed a challenge that had meant so much to me. i love being free of the clutches of my clit, its wanton ways having a hold over me, tempting me back to defiling myself like a sexual siren. i had deluded myself into thinking i had beaten lust and the demonic hold of orgasm.
That’s when it gets you though. When you think you are invincible and free. The first orgasm was not much to worry about. It was hardly worth the effort involved and i was left feeling guilty that i had failed in my attempts to be a good girl. And that is the problem. It only takes one to begin luring you back. It can be a shitty, non-event orgasm, but it is an orgasm and it calls to its own. It was quite a while before i felt the urge rise again, but it did and i surrendered.At first it was maybe one a week, then long periods of no orgasm, where i was deluded in thinking i was over it.
The last couple of weeks proved to me i’m not free of the clutches of my evil clit or its orgasms. i was up to almost one a day and in some cases, two. A couple of days ago i was busy getting myself aroused with the intention of having an orgasm when i was interrupted. At first i was annoyed, but then the feeling of being aroused and not releasing it reminded me of how much i truly enjoyed feeling this way. It reminded me of how being always aroused, always hot and ready and never releasing that, is the more natural state for a women to be in. i went from being annoyed to being thankful i was saved from my disgusting path of self pleasuring and am once again able to hold my head up, knowing i am a good girl again. I will never again take for granted the evil intentions of my clit and the hold it can have over me.
