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I have NEVER seen a cancer-capricorn relationship between two people. They might be opposites but they truly don’t even attract each other? Or it might just be me, anways…

The traits they both share is: good advice. They can give advice about everything, you need help? Go to a Cancer or Capricorn, but Cancer might have some trouble with seeing things more emotionally and Capricorn would look to it more objective. They are both prone to dark moods (doesn’t have to be in a bad way). Let’s don’t forget their leader qualities such as Aries & Libra. 

Spotting differences between these two is very easy. Cancer people rather stay home and Capricorns rather go outside and live some adventures with friends. Cancer people are more introverted (water infleunce) than Capricorns, while you can indeed find a introverted aura around a Capricorn but that has more to do with being detached about their emotions. About emotions, Cancer really just let everything go with the flow and Capricorns will keep everything inside of them. Capricorn is more focused on the logic of things while Cancer is more focused on the emotional side, so that makes Cancer a dreamer and Capricorn a doer. 

My favorite match of all opposites going along with Leo & Aquarius.

What they both share is that Taurus & Scorpio people really respect boundaries of people. Of course they are loyal too (fixed influence). When a closed one of them breaks a promise they can immediately develop trust issues for that person. Because they are both feminine (negative) they have some trouble with taking things personal, especially Scorpio (water infleunce). 

All have noticed it is hard to get to know a Scorpio, and a Taurus person is the type of ‘What you see, is what you get’. Next to that Taurus isn’t emotionally expressive as Scorpio. Scorpio has a more intens aura catching around them while Taurus has a more playful aura, due to that people might see Scorpio as ‘odd’ while they rather see things first instead jumping into conclusions what Taurus easier would do. 

Aries & Libra is truly the defenition of War & Peace. Aries always being up front and saying what is on their mind and Libra trying to keep everyone as a friend and changing personalities for every other person they meet. I have met a couple of aries-libra friendships in my life. I totally understand why they attract each other. 

Why do they both attract each other? First at all, Aries & Libra placements can make a person very passionate about everything. I have read articles where they only say that Aries & Libra’s are only passionate with their partners but this is NOT true. For my feeling they always have this passionate vibe, mostly caused by their ruling planets Venus & Mars. Also they are both very softies at heart. Next to that they both have incredible leader qualities which I admire, definitely both shy of expressing their emotions. 

But let’s not forget about their differences which will make their relationship challenging. Aries is definitely more impulsive since Libra sorts things out. Aries has a more harder nature while Libra has a more harmonious and softer side. This combination gives off a lot of soulmate enegry around them. 

Let’s go into a more deeper dive why they are opposites from each other. 

When I got into astrology I found Gemini & Sagittarius quite a good match in my own experience but that is mostly because they are both mutable signs. Gemini & Sagittarius placements can makes a person intellectual. Next being only mutable they are both also masculine signs (positive). Gemini people seek knowlegde but they don’t really have a goal. Sagittarians seek knowlegde but they feel empty without having a necessarily goal. Both signs have some issues around emotional/TRUE intimacy.

Sagittarians are more external and Gemini’s are more internal. They may annoy each other at times, Sagittarians may have issues with details while Gemini’s focus a lot on that. Sagittarius is more prone to philosophical, more hot headed and try new things without ‘over thinking.’  Gemini’s have a lot of ideas but have a lesser spontaneous motivation to do the same things such as Saggitarius does at a time. Geminis have 97238 moods while Sagittarius has one single mood, personality and vision, next to that Sagittarians hate two-faced people. 

So in short: I can understand why Gemini & Sagittarius get seen as a good match but they are clearly opposites. 

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