#duality
You know whats funny about kpop stans?
The concept of duality.
Like have you ever seen them use the the term “duality”?
Yeah its cause rooted in the fact these girls love to infantilize these grown ass men. Who are in there 20s hitting their 30s. They call them babies, literal kids, assume they are the purist and know absolutely nothing of the real world. But when the kpop stars just idk. Get angry, or do a sexy dance, or just give an intense gaze.
girls explode and go “OH THE DUALITY!!!”
Like bro. He’s human, he’s a complex human and pisses and shits like you do. These niggas can go and serve in the military and hold a gun, and have sex, and these girls will go “HE’S NOT SUPPOSED TO DO THAT HE IS LITERALLY TOO FRAGILE!!”
While simultaneously making erotic fanfiction of the kpop guy fucking his bandmate and showing it to the musicians.
Another thing. Like… stop acting like you know these people.
Stop making invasive essays about their personal life and how they ACTUALLY act
You treat these people like they arent even human. But little characters you play with. Like dolls. Projecting your disgusting fetishes onto real people. Like stop.
They’re people. Who didn’t consent to you being a fuck ass weirdo. Like stop. They’re human beings.
Why are you drawing them in lingerie and showing it to them.
Why are you writing weird mpreg fanfiction. Why are you harassing random girls who just stood next to them.
Dont idolize human beings for fucks sake.
notice how its really only a thing with kpop? theres an element of racism methinks
Fetishization is wonderful isn’t it?
I am good: Cancer, Libra, Aquarius
I am evil: Scorpio, Aries
I am solace: Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces
I am chaos: Taurus, Leo
I am human: Gemini, Sagittarius
“The duality of our time”
ᚳᚻᚱᛁᛋ • ᚢᛚᚺᛕ • ᚛ᚋᚐᚅ᚜
A scatter shot ..my brain thoughts ..are racing through my head. Can’t tell ..fact from fell ..to utter nonconviction. Are we living ..or are we dead ..this is what we sought
A blind eye is treasure wrought ..I xx thee finder fought ..lucana’s call a siren drawl ..luring hidden guise
Grasp full ..your actions past ..and wounds that have since festered ..a septic root does wither ..the entirety of the lot
And so it is
Why Socionics is NOT wrong about Duality
duals are not complete opposites. they are in the same quadra. what does that mean? they share “all” the valued functions. not only that, duals help each other where they are the most lazy or stubborn or unmotivated. oh yeah, do tell me how important orderliness is as an entp, how should i eat properly, sleep in time, plan my stuff etc. i will only tell you shut up b1dch. so an isfj who does all those things with “zero effort”, naturally, is NOT even working FOR entp. they are just being themselves like usual and entp benefits. the same way, tell isfj how she should be positive and try new things and take it easy, relax, adapt to new situations. tell isfj, oh, it’s gonna be ok, just try, just learn from your errors. but entp does all those things just normally.
isfj the caretaker. entp the mischievous peter pan personality. nobody can take entp bullshzt easier than isfj. nobody has more buffer for entp. and nobody can take isfj bull easier than entp either. duality requires no work. entp being entp just autmatically compatible with isfj with all his antics and vice versa.
now at this point you can argue: but are “no work” relationships good for you? maybe not. you think you can adapt to an infp or intj as an entp? go right ahead. improve your other functions, don’t be lazy. but most won’t do that and what socionics says is this: there’s a natural compatibility between duals. even before a ton of personal development. otherwise, if you develop your mind, body and soul… then you can also do a “true opposite” like entp & isfp. that’s relations of conflict. fi dom AND se aux AND ne polr, etc.
learning about cognitive functions can be that development itself. understanding how different other types are wired, wherein lies their “don’t press me” buttons. when you know those things suddenly things are much more easier to control. for example an xntp will bust your balls each time you make a logical error. but if xntp likes his xnfp and knows how cruel it would be to hurt the cute unicorn hearts of them, then xntp can control himself.
ALSO NEVER FORGET: socionics’s duality is just jung’s anima/animus renamed.
i cannot remain silent about this anymore.
all my friends are so skilled and creative and intelligent and incredible and they deserve so much recognition for their work and all the happiness in the world