#polyfidelity
One time I dreamt that I was going to the movies with my two partners, but then they wanted to bring their partners, and those wanted to bring theirs, etc. We were one giant group of polycule nerds and we took up almost the entire theater. The tickets were insanely expensive though. Afterwards, we went to McDonalds and I watched the workers all stare in utter terror as we poured in
So, I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “power couple” before, that references two hard working monogamous people in a relationship.
Well, when referring to my triad I always say we are a “power triple” because we are badass!
We will be around to answer questions and chat a bit this weekend!
Send us asks or anons
Hey guys! There are a few BIG CHANGES happening over here and I wanted to fill you all in. :)
As many of you may know, this polyamorous blog was started by myself, “A” and my love “J,” in order to document our adventures in non-monogamy, and through this blog we met a woman, “K,” whom we dated for awhile in a serious triad relationship. We also dated one other woman (whom has never used tumblr at all and didn’t want to be written about either) on and off four the past four years. However, it became clear that a serious life with J and I as triad is not something she is ready for or capable of having right now. It hurts, but c’est la vie!
Now that I’ve given a concise version of our background story for you newbies, I’ll just go ahead and say it…From now this blog will only be run by myself, A. (I’m the cute ginger girl! haha) As mentioned before, J and I wen’t to counseling with Dr. Neil Cannon the polyamory/BDSM Psychologist for counseling to work on the complex issues we have encountered along the way during our almost six year marriage, and 4+ years involved in ethical-nonmonogamy and D/s dynamics. Unfortunately, despite counseling, great effort and compromise on both of our parts; J and I have chosen to separate and I have no moved two hours away from the home we once shared…
I don’t know what the future holds for J and I as a couple (or if he will be in my life at all.) This is a very painful and difficult time for us both and I ask for your understanding and respect during this time. If you ask why we are choosing to cut ties or make hurtful remarks regarding any of this, I will ignore/delete/block you. No exceptions. Thank you in advance for any support, and all understanding.
-A
PS. You may be wondering if the content of the blog will change, and the answer is: NO! ABSOLUTELY NOT. I will write and blog exclusively about ethical non monogamy (which i am now dating multiple men and women ethically at the same time!) Also, I will start using hashtags for #NSFW content that I post for you guys to filter out if needed.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
Y O U C A N B E P O L Y A M O R O U S A N D S T I L L C H E A TYOU CAN BE IN A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP AND STILL BE CHEATING
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Yes! This is SO past due.
EDIT: As of 6/12/13 (and possibly way before this), Facebook has changed this os that it is no longer possible. We apologize– it was good while it lasted.
While many people have complained and petitioned that Facebook’s “in an open relationship” status is still too limiting (since it only allows you to list one partner), recent tinkering has revealed to us that it may in fact be possible to list multiple partners on your Facebook account!
How?
- In your profile, go into your “About” (/Info) page.
- Click on “Family” section.
- You can add “Husband”, “Wife”, or “Partner (male)” / “Partner (female)”
- Your partners can approve the relationship, which will then be visible if someone looks in your About section.
Preliminary investigation suggests you can list as many partners (male or female) as you like, although sometimes Facebook gets glitchy and refuses to approve listing two same-gendered partners.
Unfortunately, Family members aren’t listed in the main profile like the <3 Relationship Status is, but it does allow for a bit of Net 2.0 legitimacy for poly relationships.
Anyone want to do more digging and find out what combinations are/are not allowed in the “Family” category? PLEASE SEND US YOUR FINDINGS.
This is encouraging!
Fellow poly people or non poly people:
We made an instagram for our throuple!
If you’re interested in following our journey, here’s our insta @triad.blt
Fellow poly people or non poly people:
We made an instagram for our throuple!
If you’re interested in following our journey, here’s our insta @triad.blt
Fellow poly people or non poly people:
We made an instagram for our throuple!
If you’re interested in following our journey, here’s our insta @triad.blt
Fellow poly people or non poly people:
We made an instagram for our throuple!
If you’re interested in following our journey, here’s our insta @triad.blt
Tim Burton party with my creepy babes
He loves us, I swear lol