#advice blog
Imagine, just imagine someone that is so in love with you is scared to lose you. Scared to lose what you have just as much as you. That desire, the fondness, the love that brings you back together. The type of love where you say, “let’s fix it together”, “I’ve got you like you got you” or “take my hand, let’s do this together”. The love where the eyes meet and you can’t stop gazing at one another even from across the room. To be so in love that you do not know anything else. The world disappears, becoming silent as your heartbeat syncs in with theirs. Just imagine, imagine a positive love filled with happiness, laughter and joy. I simply can not wait, just imagine
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I’ve been looking through some blogs today and I’ve found some people who I feel like just need someone to talk to or someone to listen to them. I may be wrong in my assumptions, and I know that some people would rather be left alone or think that it’s none of my business, but…
If you wonderful people, my followers, have any questions, complaints, achievement that may be regarding your day, how things have been recently, or just want to have a conversation with me, feel free to message me in my ask box!
If it makes you feel more secure about telling a complete stranger about your struggles and achievements, just know that I’ve given advice many times to not only my friends (who are my age, 16-17), but I’ve also been able to help out those younger and older than me. I belong to a youth group outside of school where I’ve been able to do this a lot, and when I graduate, I do also plan on studying psychology. I am truly interested in understanding others and giving aid to them. I WILL try my best to help you out! I really want to have the opportunity make anyone’s day better, if I just could.
Boyfriends, relationships, break-ups, friendships, family, achievements, personal struggles, OR WHATEVER IT MAY BE that you’re concerned about, please don’t be afraid to voice out what you think. Blow off some steam by talking to a friend or anyone who will listen to you. It’s good for you.
So what are you waiting for? I WILL be wearing my heart out on my sleeve for you. I WILL listen to you. I promise. (:<3
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I am officially opening my advice section on my blog!
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For anyone trying to get over someone right now:
- It’s possible for you to be happy without him because you were happy before him
- Think about all the people you’ve felt this way about in the past and how little you care about them now
- People make time for what they want to make time for and you don’t deserve anything less than first place
- Remember when you had to convince yourself he was good enough for you?
- Think about all the things you loved doing with him and ask yourself if you could be just as happy doing those same things with someone else (someone better)
- Shift your energy to something else- everytime you start thinking about him open a book or start a yoga class or cook
- Just because it was comfortable doesn’t mean it was meant to be
- Write down all the things you hated about him- literally every little thing that annoyed you. Then burn it along with any pictures of him you have
- Write down all the things you think he’s going to miss about you. Keep that list somewhere you’ll see it everyday
- Finally- If he wanted to, he would have. And there’s someone out there who will.
I have typed the word “piercing” so many times in the last hour that it’s starting to look super fucked up now. If I make any spelling errors, that’s why. It doesn’t look like a real world anymore, and I’m really messed up about it.
We will be around to answer questions and chat a bit this weekend!
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I have decided to create a generalized list of supplies with how I use them that can be used in all the way from middle school to college.I will put in some tips that will be more helpful for college student than others, but I hope you all enjoy. Feel free to message me with any questions or for further explanations :)
I will try to have the tips section up by tomorrow, the original intention was to have the supplies and tips together, but many of the tips go hand in hand with the time management post I was asked to make. As such, I have decided to combine them.
School Supplies;
Pencils;
- I have tried quite a few types over the years but my favorite ended up being the Bic sparkly mechanical pencils, they weren’t overly thick and they lasted me a long time.
- Not really a pencil, but I was unsure of where else to put this. I am huge fan of having clic erasers compared to those on the back of mechanical pencils or the square ones.
Pens/Markers;
- I use quite a few types of pens, each one I have a favorite use for. I like to use the Bic pens for everyday things, note cards and for writing in the monthly view of my planner. I like how smooth these pens write as well as how they are not overly expensive and easier to find.
- The product I swear by are Staedtler pens. I got my first pack my sophomore year and I fell in love. I still use some of the markers from my first pack to this day and I am in college. They have a vibrant pigment that never leaves you struggling to read notes later and come in a variety of packs that make it easy to get as many(or few) as you wish. I use these for almost everything, especially notes.
- I am a big fan of the paper mate flair pens. I like how nicely they write as well as the quality of pigment they have. I use these for note headers, writing in the weekly section of my planner and other small things. I borrowed one of my sisters pens my eighth grade year and have used them for school since.
- Last but not least, I like expos brand of thin tip dry erase markers. I like the variety of colors and how long they can last me. I get these for a little bit of an unusual use, I don’t usually use them on an actual whiteboard, but more often on sheet protectors(or my dorm room window) I keep in the back of my chemistry binder for solving problems and drawing out structures when I can’t find a free whiteboard or don’t want to waste paper. These were a lifesaver last year and I used them almost everyday.
Planner;
- I cannot emphasize how important having a planner is. I take my syllabus given in the first week of class and write every date in my planner as soon as possible. I also write due dates, important dates,appointments, school events, my work schedule, study dates, important items to bring to class on certain days, and little reminders. A planner helps you stay so much more organized and helps ensure little forgetful mishaps don’t lead to a zero on an assignment or a missed appointment.
Note cards;
- I don’t have a specific brand of note card I recommend as all are about the same. I do recommend starting with a white pack and if you like using them then trying a colored pack to help organize. I used colored note cards in my medical terminology class to separate suffixes, prefixes, terms and drawings. If you are a heavily visual person using this system can help memorization using color association.
Highlighters;
- This is one of those products where any brand works, the pack you get simply depends on the use and how many colors you desire. I have used simple packs in the past with the four basic colors and it worked well for me. I got the zebra brand this year after a friend recommended them to me as I use them for highlighting notes, highlighting important information in my planner, and as part of color coding. I haven’t gotten to use them much, but I highly recommend them for those who want multiple colors in a thin size as regular.
Folders;
- I have a love for five stars plastic folders. I have used them since my freshman year of high school and never went back. They last me a lot longer than paper ones or other brands. I use these for loose papers from my classes as well as a special one that holds my tests for review. I usually match them to a notebook with a different color for each subject. I am trying something different this year with a more patterned notebook however.
- With my classes I don’t have a huge need for multiple binders and I really don’t want to carry them around campus either. With that said I get an inch binder to hold chemistry and biology notes. I like to use binder dividers with little pockets in them to keep the subjects separate and it has worked well so far. For subjects that require their own binder, i use the tabs to divide general class papers, handouts, notes, assignments and blank paper from each other. It makes finding papers much easier and the pockets hold papers which can’t be hole punched.
7/17/18
Hoping to post my school supplies later tonight. I have put some explanation as to how I use the supplies, but after beginning to write I saw how long the post was starting to get. I have decided to separate the supplies from the tips so that I can go further into detail with those(a lot of them also seemed to go hand in hand with the time management post I was asked to make) I have attached images of my own supplies(not all are included as I have yet to get them) but I wanted to put it out there that not all of the supplies I have are needed to be successful in school. These items are just some of the products that I personally like and are needed to help me, but I know many people who are just as successful with less. See you all soon.-A
