#punish
Just to be clear…
Dominance isn’t about sex.
A D/s relationship isn’t about bondage and toys.
TPE isn’t about keeping a sex slave.
I post a lot of porn because, well, let’s face it: we all love porn. But the sexual aspect forms such a small part of the whole that I sometimes feel like I’m doing it a disservice with my blog.
Dominance is being there for her.
Dominance is working through her meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting her, especially when she won’t accept herself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love her.
Dominance is tucking her in at night.
Dominance is telling her no.
Dominance is quieting her demons.
Dominance is being her bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off her anger and frustration when you do things for her own good.
Dominance is encouraging her.
Dominance is comforting her in the middle of the night when she’s had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding her.
Dominance is building her.
Dominance is love.
On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.
Submission is about being there for him.
Submission is about being that consistent person for him.
Submission is building him up and letting him know he’s loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the drug store when he is under the weather.
Submission is helping him get ready for work when he is running late.
Submission is letting him lead, even when it’s hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what he deserves.
Submission is having his back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for his in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways.
All. Of. This.
That’s a cute pink striped drop seat onesie pajamas.
Just a blushy little girl, all powdered and diapered!