#rope bondage guide
Shibari Tutorial: Leg Wrap
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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Shibari Tutorial: Ankle or Wrist Slip Knot Restraint
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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Shibari Tutorial: Fishbone Bodysuit
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Reblog for the weekend folks! The fishbone bodysuit was used in this photo set in case you wanted to see more ♡＼(￣▽￣)／♡ ♥ Hazel
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Shibari Tutorial: Fishbone Bodysuit
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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Shibari Tutorial: Mirror Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Tie from this photoset.
Reblog for the weekend crowd~
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Shibari Tutorial: Mirror Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Tie from this photoset.
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Shibari Tutorial: Half Turtle
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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Shibari Tutorial: Checkerboard Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Reblog for the weekend crowd! The featured tie was used in this photoshoot~
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Shibari Tutorial: Checkerboard Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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Shibari Tutorial: Rope Ladder
We’ve received quite a few requests for this one.
It’s versatile too -both legs, forearm to bicep, arm to arm- creativity’s the limit :)
♥Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues♥
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Shibari Tutorial: Consequence Collar & Cuff
A guide for the tie from last week’s photo set.
I’ve included how to undo the collar quickly (the last six pictures).♥Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues♥
End of the week re-blog. Everybody have a super fun weekend!
If you’ve got any questions about the tutorials @fetishweekly on Twitter <33
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@synapticfool: Thank you! If you have a lot of extra rope, it’s easiest to embellish each part of the harness – if you leave it all to the end you’re limited to that one little area to “burn the rope” (as it’s called).
If you don’t mind trailing rope, you can always just daisy-chain it and let it hang (prettily).
But if you want the finished product to be very compact, I’d recommend winding the rope around itself in various areas as you go, that way you gradually make it shorter (you can see what I mean in the very last steps of our rope gag tutorial here).
Another way would be to just double-up steps. So if you’re supposed to criss-cross a rope once, just do it twice. I hope that made sense!
@iamk3vin: all three of our hand tie tutorials will work on ankles, as well as the rope cuffs (second part of that infographic). For legs we’ve got the hitch ladderandleg ladder.
@crimsonduex: For books, I like Douglas Kent (even though he gets a bit of flack from purists, it’s still a good resource for beginners) as well as the Knotty Boys (you can find both on Amazon).
Sites:
- Remedial Ropes (safety and starting out properly)
- A Passion Play (medium - advanced traditional kinbaku picture tutorials)
- And this insanely detailed FetLife post, with videos and infographics, and a huge list of ties & how to do them. If you don’t have an account I urge you to join just to see it !
@kyo696 & @jip28: thank you & you’re very welcome <333
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Shibari Tutorial: Versatile Ladder
I did a simple leg ladder tutorial here, but a lot of people asked specifically for the fancier one used in our Straps & Ladders set, so here it is <33
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Shibari Tutorial: Consequence Rope Gag
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Re-blog for the weekend crowd!
(btw we used this tie in the collared shirt set (≧◡≦))
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Shibari Tutorial: Consequence Rope Gag
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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Round 2! Answers about shibari in seifuku, the illusive male bodied bondage guide, and easing into kink~
Anonymous: Do you know of any ties that look good while the tied person is wearing a seifuku?
Hazel: Yeah I’ve found that skirts get all scrunched up in bodysuit type rigs. I think two separate ties would be the cutest option…
Top:
Bottom (under the skirt):
Anonymous: Hey, I saw a earlier anon asking about male-specific bondage. This is a very NSFW PDF that covers cock and ball ties. Not super harsh, just kind of crotch ropes for them’s that got dicks. Google “bondage for cbt - tonyBuff” and it should be at the top of the page.
Hazel: Thank you! Here’s the direct link (nsfw!)
Anonymous: Hi there~! I love your blog and most of your tutorials are super easy to follow along with! I’m having problems with one of them though, the Weave Harness, I’m stuck on step 8. Would you ever consider doing a video to better explain how to do that harness?
Hazel: Thank you! Unfortunately we don’t have the time and equipment to do video right now, but I can explain step 8 a bit more:
The rope in your hands, if you’re at step 7, cross it over at your back, like you were tying it off in a knot at your spine.
Then when it comes back to the front, it’s up through the 4 bottom ropes, over, and down through the 4 bottom ropes again.
If I lose track of where a tie is going, I find it helps to trace 1 rope in MS Paint (or whichever program) with a bright colour so it becomes clearer.
I hope that helps!
Anonymous: Hey Hazel, I was wondering if you could help me out. My partner loves bondage, she adores the thought of being tied and being controlled.. However, she is pretty shy in terms of saying what she wants during sex. I have to figure it out, what feels good and what excites her. I have asked her before to tell me what she enjoys the most but she can’t get herself to tell me. I have ropes and a blind fold but I can never find a good way to incorporate them during sex.. ideas?
Hazel: If she’s not too shy, you could discuss it ahead of time. Some of the nervousness from talking about sex might be taken away if it’s in a more “here’s a list of things I like”, ‘clinical’ setting.
If that’s still too much, maybe role play? Get in a chat room, separated in real life, and cyber it up. The degree of separation between her and the screen might be enough for her to open up.
For starting out: blindfold first. The minute that goes on, you’ll feel a lot more free to try out some rope. The pressure to be sensual every minute is gone- but make sure to throw in a few caresses here an there so she knows you’re still present, even if you’re figuring out a knot or untangling :)
Anonymous: Hello I love your blog! Big question…I really want to bleach my rope white! Is there a tutorial you can share that teaches you??
Hazel: That all depends on what your rope is made of. Once you know that, give it a search. There are loads of professional fabric wranglers out there who know way more than me!
Anonymous: Hi Hazel~ Any advice for introducing a lover to shibari in the bedroom? (We’re both female, if it changes anything.)
Hazel: There’s two camps on this- the 'do it in the moment, when it feels right’ folks, and the 'talk about it before’ folks.
I’m solidly in the second one. I think that introducing something entirely new while having sex can result in some seriously uncomfortable weirdness. Even if the person is open to the idea of kink, its sudden appearance can be a bit shocking.
But discussion doesn’t have to be super scary 'time for a sit-down talk’.
My preferred method is pictures (no surprises there). I’ll show my partner a photo of something I like and just ask “what do you think?”
This leaves a lot more room for anything from a curious “looks interesting” to a graceful rejection “looks overly complicated”.
Hopefully some helpful tips in there, and another thank you to the anon who provided the male body bondage link!
♥ Hazel
Shibari Tutorial: Horizon Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Friday re-blog!
This is the tutorial for the tie featured in last week’s photoset.
I’ve also updated our full bondage tutorial list, and shibari sets + accompanying instructions collection
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Shibari Tutorial: Spider String Bodysuit
(The rings are just shower curtain rings you can buy at any dollar store :))
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
Ourfull list of tutorials is updated with this one now!
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Shibari Tutorial: Hip-cross Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
This tie was featured in this photo set.
I’ve also updated our shibari guide & accompanying photo set list with it, as well as the masterlist of all our tutorials.
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Shibari Tutorial: Hip-cross Harness
♥ Always practice cautious kink! Have your sheers ready in case of emergency and watch extremities for circulation issues ♥
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