#transgender issues
“In the 70s it was black and minority ethnic people, in the 80s it was gay people, trans people are just the latest to get it in the neck from comedians who can’t be bothered to try at their jobs anymore. I cannot stand there and watch another dogshit comedian go: ‘Ooohh if a woman can identify as a man, maybe I’ll identify as a chair!’ Why don’t you identify as good comedians, you hack motherfuckers?!”
- Nish Kumar: “It’s In Your Nature To Destroy Yourselves pt.2”
Yeah but you needto actually hear the full clip and the fury and passion and glee (because he knows he’s nailing them) in his voice.
(Wish I could find the audio somewhere other than Twitter, but I can’t.here it is!
I don’t get why “trans men are men, trans women are women” is even a conversation. I mean, they are, but when I hear someone like “ooh she’s not a real woman she has a penis” all I can think is WHY DO YOU CARE. Why is this a public argument. Why are you so obsessed with knowing what other people’s genitals look like that if their pronouns, fashion choices or bathroom use don’t tell you, you feel deceived. Even if you don’t think trans people are real or gender is real or whatever, why is this an issue for you. Why aren’t you seeing something you think is stupid, rolling your eyes, shutting the fuck up and moving on.
Y’know, even if I was a transphobic shitheel who thought I knew better than trans people about their own bodies, nobody would notice because it would just never come up in conversation. Because other people’s genitals aren’t any of my fucking business. Why do you feel deceived by people letting you make incorrect assumptions about their bodies when their bodies are none of your business in the first place? Why do you feel like they need to advertise their biology to you? Why do you feel like, if you see someone who introduces himself as Bob and uses male pronouns but he doesn’t ‘pass’ as male, that the parts of his body you can see and use to deduce he might have a vagina are more relevant to the conversation than what he’s said to you? It’s none of your fucking business. People can do what they want with their bodies, and obsessing over other people’s genitals to the point of harrassing them about what bathrooms they use or what their name is or what sports teams they join is really fucking weird. Leave them alone.
“transition poses some ethical questions. Such as, from what age should you be allowed to irreversibly change your body.“
This of course completely ignores the fact that puberty makes irreversible changes to your body. But let us just rephrase the question: “from what age do you gain bodily autonomy?” Now it gets very easy to answer: From the moment you’re fucking born.
I’m sorry, I’m reblogging this twice in a row it is that important
Stand up and say it again for the people in the back row.
This is all completely true and correct, of course, but on the topic of changes that irreversibly change a child’s body, prithee, go and talk to a fucking ballet dancer.
If you start ballet at 16, you are too old to ever expect to be able to do it seriously. If you start at 12 you’re too old. If you want to do ballet as a serious thing, as a career, you need to start at like eight years old or even younger, because your bones and joints need to be trained while they’re still flexible in order for you to be able to perform many of the required motions and stances of ballet. In particular, you need to be able to perform turnout of the hips, but all of your joints in your legs and feet will be affected, and this irreversibly changes your body.
And yet! Nobody talks about this as a negative thing! Little girls say they want to be ballet dancers, and if their parents have enough money, that’s what they get to be! Does it cause problems in later life? Yeah, sometimes! Often, even! But nobody talks about that because it’s a thing for cis people to do and so naturally it’s all fine!
Go and talk to a fucking ballet dancer.