#your path
Do you ever have a feeling that you‘re doing something wrong? That there could be more in your life? That you chose the wrong path? That things were meant to be different? That you should do something much different from what you are doing now? That you should be a different person? A better one?
I do.
It’s your route to start, and you’re the only one that can get on that train…
You Choose…
It’s Your Life… Your Journey… Your Path to Walk
In life I don’t wait for others to decide my path. I have my own thoughts and feelings which are mine alone. I know what I prefer and what drives me to strive for some goal or dream. I get a job on my own, usually with character references, to do a job with the talents I have learned or blessed with. Others might give advise, directions from your boss, but in the end it is my hard work, often as a team member, that achieves the goals.
I might walk this path with a friend, perhaps a best friend. That friend might become a life partner. And with a life partner you’ll most likely compromise some of your choices as you walk your path. But that life partner is never a full dominate as if you have no say in anything. Even the idea of they, your partner, has the final say. Some might like this but I don’t think that is a health relationship. If there is not full agreement, a way to compromise, then it’s a dagger in the long term partnership, a house divided.
In stepping outside the box of your gender role self determination is essential. You’re going against the normal flow because of how you feel inside. You might strive to wear clothes that are outside of the normal lane of clothes, of traditions.
You don’t wait for someone or something you want or feel. You have to make your wishes known or show them. You have to make it happen and make the bold choice with your choices. You then have to walk that path and live with your choices.
So stop waiting for someone else to live your life. Plan your move and make it happen. Live your own life, walk your path, with your own choices. As you live your walk and meet others you just might meet a friend who becomes your life partner if you choose.
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