You are not a burden to your friends, your partner, your caregiver, or anyone else when you regress. If anyone in your circle has a problem with it, that’s THEIR problem, not yours.
Your regression is not ‘dirty’ or 'gross’ or any other word like that. You are free to cry, and scream and fuss during your regression if you need to. Regression is not always happy, but that’s okay. You do what you need to cope.
Once you regress, there’s no rush to go back up in age, or be an adult. You can be regressed for weeks or months, however long you need is fine.
No one is going to take away your toys or comfort items. They’re right there with you, and that’s where they’ll stay, I promise.
It’s okay to talk to your caregiver about boundaries your regressed self has. Boundaries count during regression as much as they do when you are big. Example: My little doesn’t like timeouts, they make her upset so when she gets fussy, I ask her to “draw papa why you’re frustrated instead.” And then she explains it to me.
It’s alright to have a loud outburst while you’re regressed. Sometimes, it may be scary to do that if it’s always been met with negativity, but it shouldn’t have ever been that way.
It’s okay to ask your caregiver to hold you, or tell them you need attention, or a hug. If they can’t at the moment, that doesn’t mean they don’t love you though. Still, any caregiver will understand if you tell them that.
No one secretly hates you. I promise you, no one secretly hates you, or your regression.
I’m so glad you were born. Thank you for making the world a more beautiful place because you are in it. I care about you and want more than anything for you to be safe and happy
It’s okay to go at your own pace, sweetheart. If you need more time, there are people that will wait for you. If you need help, I’ll lend it to you. You’re going to do everything you want, sometimes we just end up taking the scenic route.
the school year’s just about wrapping up, isn’t it, little one? you worked very hard this year, and I know you’re going to finish strong! repeat after me: I have a sharp mind that makes me a great student. It’s okay to not know everything, I can always learn. I work hard and try my best. I am going to do well on finals.
remember to take study breaks, get some rest when you need it, and don’t forget to eat something if you’re hungry! and above all, remember:
I love you bunches, kiddo, and I see how hard you’re trying every single day ❤️
Today marks the start of a special holiday for several of our friends! Today is the start of Lunar New Year! You may also know it as Chinese New Year, because it’s the first day of a new year in the Chinese lunar calendar! Because it follows the moon phases, it changes every year, but this year it starts today, February 1st, and ends on February 15. Kind of like the zodiac, years in the Chinese lunar calendar have animals - this year is the year of the tiger! I thought you might like to color some of the animals, too!
Lots of Asian countries celebrate Lunar New Year, so let’s learn what some countries do!
In China, people wear cheongsamorqipao,andeatfishanddumplingscalledbao!
In Korea, people wear colorful costumes called hanbok! They eat dumplings called mandu and rice cakes called ddeok!
In Vietnam, people wear silk tunics with pants - they call this áodài! They eat sticky rice cakes called bánh tét or bánh chung.
In several countries, people give children lucky red envelopes filled with money! ❣️❣️ Some of these have very fun designs, like animals that match the year and cartoon characters!
Happy Lunar New Year! Let’s wear red and gold for good luck, and make this year awesome!
oh, hi sweetheart! what’s up? you have something to tell me? alright, I’m all ears!
okay, I think I understand - you want to go by a different name, right? what name should I use?
wow! I love that name, it suits you perfectly! and you picked it yourself? that’s so awesome, you’re so creative! can you tell me one more thing, baby? what pronouns do you use?
okay, I see! thank you for telling me. I love you no matter what and I’m so proud of you - you’re my perfect, lovely, thoughtful angel and I think your name is amazing!
Paper to draw on if you don’t wanna use a colorbook!
Crayons, markers and/or color pencils!
Your Agere journal!! If you have one!
Your most favorite Stuffie or Stuffies!
A DS, 3DS, Switch or Switch Lite (+ games!!)
A sippie or bottle that’s easy to clean and won’t get lost easy!
Binkies, of course!!
A pillow and your blankie for naps!
Snacks! Such as, Goldfish Crackers, Cheezits, Oreos, Cereal Mixes, TrailMix, and other easy snacks!
School: (note: it’s not recommend to regress at school if you can help it, cause school can be stressful and you may feel unsafe or scared.)
Blank paper to draw on
Color pencils, markers or crayons!
A small stuffie or your favorite one if you’re allowed to!
Some cute accessories to wear to make you feel small and happy
A small book to read, maybe a kids book. Hide it in your binder and read it secretly, or if people ask say it’s one of your favorite childhood books and you like to read it cause it makes you happy!
A small snack or candy, if your school allows it
On a Day Trip (to the park or playground!)
Your favorite Stuffie!! Have to take them to the park! They’ll love it!
Band-Aids just in case!
Chalk!
Make some painted rocks or shells and hide them around the playground!!
Snackies!!
A drink! Like water! Stay hydrated!!!
A container or baggie to out your treasures in if you find any, especially if they’re alittle dirty so your bag won’t get dirty!
A name tag in your bag just in case you forget it or lose it! (Can be applied to the other categories as well!)
If you have anymore ideas, feel free to add them!! ùwú
Other Stuff: Chronic Tinnitus, Asthma, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Synesthesia, Aphantasia, Chronic Headaches (product of my SPD + Tinnitus), Immunocompromised, Hearing Loss & a slight Stutter and/or Skip in speech particularly when nervous or excited
Other Facts:
I need a wrist brace
I have a congenital cataract in my left eye.
Im 5′2″.
I have two caregivers. They are also my partners but we keep the two seperate. I have a girlfriend/mommy & a boyfriend/daddy.
I’m Nearsighted. T-T
I’m an artist!! (Commissions are open! DM @acornfluff on most social media!)
I have a YouTube channel!! Ùwú (look up acornfluff -sfw agere-)
I’m a Witch!! I practice witchcraft (NOT WICCA).
I’m a Eclectic Polytheist. (I worship multiple gods from multiple pantheons)
I’m a SFW furry/babyfur!
I’m a SFW Age Regressor/Pet Regressor. I regress due to trauma and stress. I usually regress involuntarily.
I’m a Hufflepuff~
I have heterochromic eyes. its called Central Heterochromia, its an eye condition where there are two colors in the same iris.
I have Two cats. A grey tabby named Bug & a smol orange babey named Toast!
I also have a puppy. His name is Salem. Hes a fluffy black lab mix.
Im a nightowl,and i literally have THE WORST sleep schedule..
