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What happens when a bully grows up?
Japanese TV station NHK World is showing a series on bullying. In the old days I think people who were bullied felt ashamed & embarrassed to be victims. I was.
Driving through the Beacon Hill neighborhood ️ always reminds me of middle & high school. Starting in the 7th grade, I was bullied by a “frenemy” who picked on me on & off for 5 years. We hung around the same crowd of people but she was sly & no one noticed. I always wondered why she chose me?
She & I liked the same boy when we were in middle school. She enlisted a group of girls to threaten to beat me up after school. I was petrified. The girls let me go without hurting me, but it really shook me up.
The frenemy later worked on the H.S. paper & attributed things to me that I never said, making some angry! And of course, she got away with it.
The events happened decades years ago. I’d like to purge her from my thoughts, but can’t. I’ve wondered if she’s given a moment’s thought to any of it?
What makes a person bully & torment others for fun, & do they continue being a bully into adulthood? ♀️
We crossed paths again later as adults. ☠️ Our kids were in the same after-school program. I had a successful design business & she was a low-level bureaucrat in the midst of getting a divorce. Not quite karma, but close!
She acted as though nothing had ever happened. But it’s hard to believe someone can forget menacing another person.
Have you ever been a bully, or have you ever been bullied? Do you still remember why or how it felt, & did you ever resolve things with the other person?
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Photos: In #JapantownSeattle. I met fellow author @p.s.travelstories. I have a few copies of my book & we did an exchange. #japantown #alleyway #alleywayart #kobeterrace #chinatownseattle #internationaldistrict #firstttimeauthor #bookexchange #homegrowntomatoes
(at Japantown Seattle)
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Alleyway
It was great to start the year in collaboration with a few of my favorite Austin businesses.
In early January, I teamed up with the folks behind the ever-expanding Ramen Tatsu-Ya empire to launch a brand-wide photography campaign.
The first shoot took place at the recently-opened Domo Alley Gato - an outdoor bar and food concept that feels like Tokyo - or at least a movie set of Tokyo. It’s the best place to start, or end (or both) an epic night with a group of friends on E. 6th street in Austin.
We are looking forward to the next shoot!
Stay tuned for images from another awesome local project that I’m excited to share soon.
The Alley, Gdańsk, Poland
Experimenting with digital watercolour. It’s kinda tricky but less intimidating than real watercolours haha ><“
I’ve been a little unsatisfied with my style lately so I wanted to try something new! Watercolour requires a different approach to choosing colours so it’s helping me break out of my habits
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Reflective alleyway in Clarendon Dock, Belfast
