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ok so this is probably going to be a long fucking post but like. we need some help. we’re very new to knowing that we’re a system and I still haven’t read up on as much syscourse as I should. but I specifically need help from people who know what they’re talking about with poc alters.
ok. so here’s the deal. I’m the host. I look like the body.
the body is not white. the body is mixed. very, very mixed. we’re like ¾ white I think. the other fourth is mostly hawaiian (also a little asian. we’re not comletely sure). if we never go outside, we’re white passing and look tan, and if we get tan, we aren’t white passing anymore.
so here’s the deal. most of the human alters are white. we live in idaho and I never knew anyone that wasn’t white so I barely knew that poc existed. so most of the alters are white.
then there’s me. I identify with the body, and I identify with the body’s race.
and then there’s another alter. he doesn’t like being online much (I did get permission to ask about this) so I’m not going to mention his name. but.
he’s hawaiian. my parents didn’t teach us much about the culture or really anything. but when they did, he always always fronted. that’s one of the only things that he fronts for. and whenever my parents told the body to be proud of our hawaiian ancestry, he was the one they were telling. and he’s 100% hawaiian, and none of us know what to do with that.
because a lot of people say that you can have poc alters but they aren’t poc past the headspace because they can’t understand racism?
but our alter does. because he also fronts for when people are racist toward the body. he was there when we went to hawai'i and visited the room where our princess was kept. he was there when someone assumed we were white and told us to call off our vacation to hawai'i in the first place because of how rude native hawaiians are.
and he was there when we looked at the family tree, specifically the family tree of our hawaiian ancestors, because my mom wanted to show me which ones were cast out of there homes when america took over.
except he’s less white than the body. and he’s got the cultural things that my parents have said that we would’ve had if we grew up in hawai'i (like you know the tattoos and stuff)
and idk what to do?? so many people have talked about poc alters in white bodies and poc systems and shit but I don’t think I’ve seen anyone talk about a situation similar to this??
My identity is nonexistent.
In all honesty, I’ve been questioning whether or not I’m a system since 2018. You’d think after a few years I’d know by now. I want to confidently say I’m a system, but I also don’t want to spread misinformation and turn out to have been f//king all along.
Bill Cipher inspired PluralKit member description template
ଘ(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* ੈ♡‧₊˚ for my favorite Bill Cipher fictive ♡
Free to edit as you like, credit is appreciated but not necessary!
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︶꒦꒷`『 S Y S T E M △ I N F O 』`
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`∷⌛:` [ character ] - [ source ]
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︶꒦꒷`『 K I N 』`
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`∷⌛:` [ primary kins ]
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︶꒦꒷`『 B O U N D A R I E S 』`
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When we are regressed our minds slip back to a child’s so stuff like Halloween causes that! But that unfortunately means we aren’t as aware as usual so here’s how you can help protect your little
•Remember to check their candy before they eat it!
•Hold their hands at all time!
•Walk up to the door with them so you can see if somebody is acting off or saying weird things
•Always believe your little when they say something is wrong!!
•Always bring a spare jacket incase they get cold
•Make sure you aren’t walking in front of them and you always have your eyes on them and know where they are at
•Have warm comfy blankets ready at home (and maybe some extra candy too ;) )
•Cuddle up with your little one at the end of the night and have a comforting movie night
•If something does happen remember the address and please report it to your local police!!
!!
: Kink, NSFW, Anti-Agere/Petre, DDLG, ADBL, Or any variants, Don’t sexualize me or any of the posts I make
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Baba: oh little oneee? Where are you?
Little One: *hiding but giggling alot*
Baba: *hears* hmmm I wonder if they’re under..Here!!
Little one: AHHH!! *giggling*
Baba: the tickle monster is here!!! *tickles the little*
Little one: Ahh! Nooo baba! *laughing*
Baba: *stops and chuckles* c’mon little one the dino nuggets are ready
: Kink, NSFW, Anti-Agere/Petre, DDLG, ABDL, or variants, Don’t sexualize anything I post!
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Let’s Meet The Main Fronters!
Name: River
Pronouns: They/Bun
Sexuality: Pansexual
Role: Trauma Holder
Age: 16
Little Age: 0-4
Personality: shy and quiet then outgoing and loud when they get to know you!
Name: Dabi
Pronouns: He/Him
Sexuality: MLM
Age: 17
Role: Fictive
Little Age: 3-6
Personality: A little cold sometimes unintentionally but really kind!
Name: Saturn
Pronouns: She/Her
Age: 4
Role: Emotional Protector/Little
Personality: Suuuuper hyper she’s on like a constant sugar rush
Name: Darrien
Pronouns: He/Him
Sexuality: MLM
Age: 18
Role: Internal Helper
Personality: super chill doesn’t really overly talk but is very comforting
These are our main fronters but in total we are currently at 11 others! So expect lots of other people!
Meet the underworld system!
Who are we?: We are a Medically Recognized Dissociative Identity Disorder System what does medically recognized mean? It means a medically professional (in our case 2) has confirmed and told us we do in fact have dissociative identity disorder it just isn’t written down on paper We are called “The Underworld System” which is a name we all mutually came up with.
Okay, Well how do we know who we’re talking to?: We’ll have a sign off with whosever postings name and pronouns and if we respond to a message we’ll include the same!
Aren’t you scary and dangerous?: Nope! That’s just how the media portrays DID (very poorly) none of us are dangerous or is gonna harm you! If you want proper education on DID I’d do your own research and ask actual systems!
Well what can I expect to be posted?:Lots of different kinds of content! Agere concepts, tips and tricks, DID things and advice as well as education on both topics! We do our best to educate people but we are not medical professionals so we can only speak from experience!
