#good post
edging someone and tickling them right before they cum every time ❤️
OR
making them cum hard then tickling them right after to ruin it
“love’s a game, wanna play?”
no not particularly
this is my new favorite video
m u n c h i e t e c h d e c k
Cis people with trans headcanons are.. suspicious
If you’re cis & you immediately go “hehe he’s trans” when a male character is short or thin or whatever…….. I don’t trust like that
If you’re cis & you immediately go “ooh she’s trans” when a female character is tall or muscular or whatever, I especially don’t trust like that
Cissies can and should reblog this but y'all best not be clowns in the notes
hey op I’m trans so i hope you don’t mind if I add:
transmasculine/trans men need to check themselves about this too.
we have to ask ourselves: hey, why do i headcanon that female character as a trans woman, while i think this other female character is cis? is there a (possibly hurtful) pattern?
just because we’re trans too it doesn’t excuse us from transmisogyny
You’re right and you should say it
As a trans woman, we have to keep an eye out for this as well! Making headcanons that a character is a trans man because they’re “small” or “thin” or “soft featured” is really suspect and not great!
yodel they/he hoo or whatever the fuck
hi. if you’re a young person or teenager who happens to be following me: write it down! keep a secret diary, a notepad, a blog your parents don’t have access to. write it down. keep a record somehow.
when i was a little kid and both my dad & i were being actively abused by my mom, he was familiar enough w her gaslighting that he instructed me at elementary school age to write down all the horrible things she did/said to me. it would be useful in court when custody was being argued and it would be useful to ME, years later, when my mom would try and convince me none of it happened. i had the proof, often word for word, that it did–and there was no hope in convincing my mom but a lot of hope in convincing myself and holding my stance against her. it was pivotal to advocating for myself and my feelings and eventually leaving her in my dust!
write it down!!! it’s so frustrating to have to deal with this bullshit, whether your parents are outright abusive or just fucking toxic/dysfunctional assholes. but you can do something for yourself and your mental health and that something is writing it down.
Protip for anyone engaging in discourse or just online arguments in general.
Turn off anon and replies.
Trust me, it may prevent some responses from getting through, but at the end of the day it is way better for your mental health. No anon hate, no one hiding in the replies to be jerks. I may have had some productive conversations with someone using the reply feature, but not seeing any more hate without arguments is well worth it.
It’s not cowardly to set boundaries like that. It is taking care of yourself.
i can’t stress this enough. i swear my anxiety has gotten worse from some of the experiences i had when i still had anons on and replies from anyone. i’ve been sent death threats and gore before. i don’t want others to go through that
i know kindness exists because i am kind
“people aren’t good”
i am people. i am good
you are wrong
if you are capable of it then so are others
be your own proof of concept
the idea that humans are a garbage species is so obnoxious no one talks about the peaceful parts of history and prehistory because they aren’t as exciting as us killing each other but um homo sapiens have been doing awesome things all over for a long time….we survived the fucking ice age…we made it through the sinai desert….we shared the savana with big cats before we ever made a weapon, we wove baskets from literal plants and halved blades from flint to handles we made, carved harpoons from bone and fought megafauna for our loved ones, cooked food and took care of the elderly and buried our dead, painted pictures and shared stories, built homes from clay and mud and straw, made instruments so we could dance and sing…it is so easy to focus on the negative and i get it ok we are in the middle of a mass extinction event that specific humans are at fault for but listen: they don’t want you to remember it hasn’t always been like this…we were and are so much more than evil
how can I gain a cow’s respect dm me
There are ACTIVE wander over yonder blogs??? AND NO ONE THOUGHT TO TELL ME??