#ldr things

Our Long Distance Love

Though I may cry and though I may weep;
I know you may be far but in my heart I shall keep.

Thoughts of you have made my days bright;
I wish to kiss your lips and hold you tight.

I know, at times, I can be hard to understand;
With all of the wonderful things I know is at hand..

Why should I let tears fall from my face?
Why not a smile to wear in their place?

Because I need you here and in my arms;
Because I know in your love, I shall never no harm.

Because as I lie in bed these countless nights;
I wish and I pray that I could take flight.

Over the miles that come between;
Over the fields and across every stream.

That I could rest soundly within your space;
Gaze into your eyes and caress your face.

Whisper my love into your ear;
Tell you all of the words I’ve wanted you to hear.

But then I awake, alone in my bed;
Thoughts, all of you, running through my head.

I know that someday my dreams will come true;
I wish and I pray that “someday” will be soon.

You are my one and only, love
This is the one thing I couldn’t be more sure of.

I’ve waited my entire life for you;
What’s a little more time, for something so true?

But I cannot promise that I never shall cry;
On those nights, to you, that I wish I could fly.

After being together for almost three years with my boyfriend. I came to understand what a relationship really is. You don’t have to have an intimacy bonding every single day just to be happy together and feel loved. You don’t have to have sex or make out evey single day just to be happy in a relationship. It is about loving and taking care of that person you love for who he/she is deep inside and not from the outer. It is about making each other happy, making jokes that doesn’t make sense and laugh till your stomach hurts. Being really comfortable with each other. Support each other physically and mentally in everyday life. I have withness an old couple myself who haven’t make love since their first child was born till they grow old but they are still happy being with each others presence. What’s their secret? It is not about sex and making out every single day. It is about making each other happy, enjoy their love ones presence around them, being grateful for having their love ones still alive in this world with them and never expecting too much from their love ones. Don’t expect too much from your love ones in your relationship because the more you expect, the more unsatisfied feeling you will feel when you did not get what you expected. If both of you ever got into a fight, do not completely ignored each other as it will only make a relationship worst. Sit down and discuss that matter calmly with your love ones. Try to understand and situation and forgive them based on the relevant of the situation.

Hey guys! My blog is open to submissions or questions if you do have one. I may take some time to reply as I am busy with school and studies. You can submit your long distance story. How you met your love ones or what you guys did when you first met, how it feels. ANYTHING. You can also submit a picture of you and your love omes with your own story. Its totally fine! If you have like a YouTube video of long distance relationship, you can share it too but please stated what that video is and the title. Keep it clean guys!!

At night when I can’t sleep I crave for your voice and warmth.

I know you will tend to miss your boyfriend/girlfriend who you can’t see everyday. But try not to keep feeling sad all the time just because both of you are far away from each other. Try to make ypur conversation happy and lively everyday. My boyfriend and I did that so we don’t feel like we’re apart from each other.

You know its really hard especially when it comes to time difference in a ldr. My boyfriend and I were 6 hours difference and to me thats already sorta hard for me. I can’t be able to imagine those strong couples out there with more than 6 hours difference because it would be so much harder. You have to find the right time to talk in a day you know? I think mostly of the ldr usses text more than Skype. Maybe because some of you are busy with work or school? But when the time comes where you’ll be able to skype, you’ll have this feeling of pure joy inside you. “I’LL FINALLY BE ABLE TO SEE AND LISTEN TO MY BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND’S VOICE”, screams by your heart. You know. I don’t care if its just a few minutes or an hour a week, but being able to see you and listen to your voice is the happiest feeling ever.

You know that feeling when exams are looking over you? When they’re just around the corner and stress takes control of your mind and actions? Sometimes the stress neglects those around you and changes you. It makes you angry, ir makes you sensitive, it makes you sad. There is no way you can deal with this. Everyday you worry about her and if she’ll do well and you want to try and help her and advise her but youre jist too busy and the time difference won’t let it. All you want is for her to succeed, you know she can, you believe in her, but it still is hard. Remember to be there, remember to help her, remember to love her. She’s only human after all, she makes mistakes, she can fail, she can be hurt. Don’t forget that.

You know what’s the best thing ever? The best thing ever is that even though your partner lives far away from you and maybe have never even see you in real life but every single day they will constantly tell you that you’re beautiful. They tell you that because they want to remind you that you’re beautiful and you should learn to love yourself even more. Even your imperfections are perfections.