After being together for almost three years with my boyfriend. I came to understand what a relationship really is. You don’t have to have an intimacy bonding every single day just to be happy together and feel loved. You don’t have to have sex or make out evey single day just to be happy in a relationship. It is about loving and taking care of that person you love for who he/she is deep inside and not from the outer. It is about making each other happy, making jokes that doesn’t make sense and laugh till your stomach hurts. Being really comfortable with each other. Support each other physically and mentally in everyday life. I have withness an old couple myself who haven’t make love since their first child was born till they grow old but they are still happy being with each others presence. What’s their secret? It is not about sex and making out every single day. It is about making each other happy, enjoy their love ones presence around them, being grateful for having their love ones still alive in this world with them and never expecting too much from their love ones. Don’t expect too much from your love ones in your relationship because the more you expect, the more unsatisfied feeling you will feel when you did not get what you expected. If both of you ever got into a fight, do not completely ignored each other as it will only make a relationship worst. Sit down and discuss that matter calmly with your love ones. Try to understand and situation and forgive them based on the relevant of the situation.

Hey guys! My blog is open to submissions or questions if you do have one. I may take some time to reply as I am busy with school and studies. You can submit your long distance story. How you met your love ones or what you guys did when you first met, how it feels. ANYTHING. You can also submit a picture of you and your love omes with your own story. Its totally fine! If you have like a YouTube video of long distance relationship, you can share it too but please stated what that video is and the title. Keep it clean guys!!

At night when I can’t sleep I crave for your voice and warmth.

I know you will tend to miss your boyfriend/girlfriend who you can’t see everyday. But try not to keep feeling sad all the time just because both of you are far away from each other. Try to make ypur conversation happy and lively everyday. My boyfriend and I did that so we don’t feel like we’re apart from each other.

You know its really hard especially when it comes to time difference in a ldr. My boyfriend and I were 6 hours difference and to me thats already sorta hard for me. I can’t be able to imagine those strong couples out there with more than 6 hours difference because it would be so much harder. You have to find the right time to talk in a day you know? I think mostly of the ldr usses text more than Skype. Maybe because some of you are busy with work or school? But when the time comes where you’ll be able to skype, you’ll have this feeling of pure joy inside you. “I’LL FINALLY BE ABLE TO SEE AND LISTEN TO MY BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND’S VOICE”, screams by your heart. You know. I don’t care if its just a few minutes or an hour a week, but being able to see you and listen to your voice is the happiest feeling ever.

You know that feeling when exams are looking over you? When they’re just around the corner and stress takes control of your mind and actions? Sometimes the stress neglects those around you and changes you. It makes you angry, ir makes you sensitive, it makes you sad. There is no way you can deal with this. Everyday you worry about her and if she’ll do well and you want to try and help her and advise her but youre jist too busy and the time difference won’t let it. All you want is for her to succeed, you know she can, you believe in her, but it still is hard. Remember to be there, remember to help her, remember to love her. She’s only human after all, she makes mistakes, she can fail, she can be hurt. Don’t forget that.

You know what’s the best thing ever? The best thing ever is that even though your partner lives far away from you and maybe have never even see you in real life but every single day they will constantly tell you that you’re beautiful. They tell you that because they want to remind you that you’re beautiful and you should learn to love yourself even more. Even your imperfections are perfections.

Lana del rey

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I wish, after dreaming about you, I could wake up next to you

I never thought missing someone could be this painful. But here I am: crying at 4 am.

My biggest respect to all the long distance relationships that can’t see each other because of the corona virus. You’re gonna get through this. Stay strong.

There’s so many people in this world, but I’ll only ever want you❤️

Been MIA lately… Some stuff happened but me and Gio are doing good :)

I knew I loved him.

My boyfriend and I got into a small argument a few days ago. I was needing reassurance and I have trust issues. I broke down, sobbing and absolutely manic over something so small. I didn’t want to lose him. I love him so much. Finally, I looked him in the eyes and apologized. I loved him before, but I knew I loved him when he did this:

It was late and I was exhausted so I went to sleep in our bed. He thought it was best for him to sleep on the couch. Before he left, he covered me up with the blankets, kissed my forehead and said “i love you”. Later on I woke up and found him sleeping next to me. I knew I loved him before we had an argument and I knew I loved him after. One single “fight” could of blown out of proportion and lead to us potentially breaking up. In a relationship, shit gets hard. It’s not always sex, cuddling and lovey shit. Sometimes you have to be an adult and apologize. You have to move on. You have to push past it.