#overwhelm
Tinnitus seriesbyAriee
What I now realise know about stress and anxiety, is that rather than a dysfunctional thought pattern, weakness or worry - it can get be an overstimulated state of being.
Unconscious. Subconscious. Bucket almost overflowing with accumulated things. Viral load. Inflammation. Trauma.
Stress can be excitement- good or bad
It isn’t always the stereotype worrier, neurotic, over thinker
It’s just an undercurrent of overwhelm that can manifest in even the most calm person
I get overwhelmed easily when I’m not taking care of myself. I won’t feel my best and then before I know it, everything is terrible and I feel doomed.
Despite how I’m feeling, there ARE things that can help. Here’s what I do when I’m feeling overwhelmed:
1. I check my PLEASE skill. Am I hungry? Am I tired? Am I feeling sick? Did I miss my meds? If the answer to any of these questions is yes, I make sure to meet those physical needs asap.
2. I clock out for the rest of the day. When I’m feeling overwhelmed, the thought of doing even one more thing can totally break me. So if I’m able, I take a ‘mental health day’ for the rest of the day. I push all important tasks to the next day.
3. I engage in comfort activities. I watch a favorite movie, pet my cat, have a nice snack.
4. I sleep. If the overwhelm gets too strong, I hit that reset button and spend some time unconscious. Whether it’s a nap or an early bed time, I usually wake up feeling much better.
Remember: if you’re feeling like it’s the end of the world, it’s usually your body/mind being dramatic as a way to ask for something it needs like food or rest.
Try out these suggestions the next time you’re feeling overwhelmed and let me know what works for you!
Stay skillful,
Kat