What exactly is “harassment” anyway? 

Like, when I wrote that stuff yesterday, I was thinking of it as any kind of statements really intended to cause someone harm. The way Seebs was talking, though, it sounded like she was exclusively referring to aggression that is illegal. And then you have stuff like Anita Sarkeesian’s compilation of all the harassment she received in a single week, which includes every instance of “fuck you” and even a person saying “you’re not being harassed, people are disagreeing with you” - which is verifiably false, but only harassment insofar as it denies harassment is occurring. 

There are definitely multiple definitions at play here, both when people describe their own experiences and interpret the experiences of others. Qualitative descriptions are one thing, but since the trend seems to be dealing with these things quantitatively, some kind of operational definition is necessary, and I’m actually pretty curious what you guys think.

Whatis harassment? What “tiers” of it exist? And, of course, where is the cutoff point between it and criticism (which can, in the right context, cause someone harm)?

Send me Your Pics!

Hey everyone! So I won’t lie, I seem to be running low on pictures if anybody, and I mean anybody, has any pictures they find attractive of women please send them my way! Selfies are always the most appreciated for my Growth Snaps. You can submit them through inbox or just message me. I appreciate any and all the help I get! Love y'all!

I need someone!

Hey Everyone! I am looking for a woman, someone who I haven’t talked to before and has a tumblr preferably, as a new test subject lol but if there’s any women who would like to talk Growth/Expansion for a story please message me! I’ve got an idea but I need someone to bounce it off of so don’t be afraid to message me!

(P.S. thanks for all the questions!!! For those who have been sending them I LOVE answering them all of them have really made me think I appreciate it!!)

Question time!

Hey everyone, I got a question/request for the writers this time! If anybody has used “The Bimbo Virus” in their writing please message me! I’m curious how others use it and how you all see it or imagine it being like. Please let me know!!!

Little Update/Question

Hey everyone. Been a while since I’ve done one of these. As you can see I’m still kicking. I’ve actually got the whole week filled up with posts for once lol. So I’ve started taking a new approach to using colored text and stuff, I’m just curious if you all like that? Seems to add more personality and helps differentiate text. Let me know what you all think though.

Also, feel free to send me any questions you have. I haven’t answered any in a while so if you have any please send them my way! I love answering them. Also if you have any photos you want me to use you can submit them to me also. Until next time, take care!

I’ve been meeting a lot of different characters so I decide to make a little posty post. A lot of y'all…

but it’s ok though. I got a question and I want y'all to reblog this because I’m real curious to know and possibly get it on. If I threw a nasty, swirl, masquerade like event in Cleveland Pittsburgh or an undetermined city in Michigan June 2022 how many people would attend?? Honest answers and depending on the traction this post gets I’ll make make another one more specific.

If anyone has good resources for somewhere to buy a safe binder that has either hooks or a zipper pls let me know (reply or dm)

(I need one that can be taken off quickly for health reasons)

Does anyone else have issue with downloading from Box?

I’ve tried dl’ing 3 different files and they all fail to download even if I’m logged in.

http://www.box.net/shared/x91g9s0zfivsoymmaq2b

http://www.box.com/shared/c25eemxgfrrp3k2n3l0s

http://www.box.com/s/c1rl31mvj5oc8b9ogip4

it gives me the size of the file in question, says it is downloading.. but doesn’t.  Also says it ‘failed to load preview, please reload’….

UPDATE: Answered thanks to @watermelonsandal  Thanks for the tip to change the URL to ‘app.box.net’.

Would you guys say long-term college relationships last?

farm-bred:

Would have been a beautiful nude portrait. Anyone have the uncropped version?

A New way to censor for Tumblr

Several people have told me I am thinking too highly of myself. They say I am forgetting that I don’t have a purpose other than to be a whole for men to use. One suggested this way of censoring my pictures so that I never forget what part of me some people might actually care about. I’m not sure if it will stay up or if you all will like it. Let me know what you all think and if I should keep doing my censoring this way.

I really wanna know what some of you all’s fantasies are. So tell me your deepest fantasies and maybe I can do some captions for them! We’ll see what comes of it!

I honestly don’t know :<.