#queueer
i hope all genderfluid and genderflux people are doing great
Genderflux girls
Genderflux maveriques
Genderflux boys
Genderflux demigirls
Genderflux demiboys
Genderflux xenogender ppl
Genderflux Juxeras
Genderflux proxvirs❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Genderflux androgynes
All Genderflux people I didn’t name
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Some people have fluidity between being agender and being another gender.
Some people shift in the degree to which they have gender, ranging anywhere from being agender to having a strong sense of another gender.
Some people have fluidity between different genders and shifts in the degree to which they experience those genders.
All of these experiences are real, normal, and valid!
to all agender people: you are an amazing genderless human being who doesnt need a gender to be happy!!
to all bigender people: you dont have to “”choose”” just one gender!! if you identify with both, then you are!!
to all genderfluid/flux people: your gender doesnt always have to stay the same!! it can be fluid!!
to all demiboys: youre not “basically a boy”!! youre still nb and wonderful!!
to all demigirls: youre not “basically a girl”!! youre part of the nb community!!
to all nonbinary people: youre valid and amazin and you dont have to adhere to the gender binary!!
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genderfluid people are valid no matter what causes their gender to change.
whether it happens randomly or when you’re around certain people or go to certain places or do certain things, you’re still valid as a genderfluid person and you deserve to have your identity respected.
So, lets talk about Krem and classism. Fandom tends to focus heavily on Krems backstory and trauma as an issue of transphobia, and while that is true, the reason why it got as violent and dangerous as it did was in great part due to his status as a poor soparati.
I mean; lets be clear; punishment for being trans in the military was not slavery; it was a heavy fine. A fine that Krem, being very poor, had no chance of paying and therefore was given the choice between slavery or death. This is an excellent example of the ways in which the criminal justice system effects poor people way harder; Krems punishment is slavery or death. A rich trans persons punishment would be a fine and a discharge.
We also see this difference with Maevaris; she was allowed to marry a man, which implies that she is legally recognized as a woman and given rights that are exclusively given women. This is a right that is explicitly, and violently, denied Krem and we can only assume the reason for that is Maevaris social standing.
This is also the reason why I disagree that Dorian and Krem’s stories are fundemantally similar. To me, Dorians story is largely a personal tragedy of family abuse and unaccaptence. Krem’s story is largely one of systematic, state-sanctioned violence and inescapable poverty. They’re both queer, and they both left Tevinter for reasons related to it, but that’s about as far as the similiarities go.