#representation
hey,ps
did you know that there’s a difference between “bad representation” and “representation that just doesn’t match your personal experience” ?
did you also know that there’s a difference between “bad representation” and “a type of representation you’re just personally tired of seeing” ?
also, i keep thinking about that artist who lost an arm and she made self-portraits and of course they depicted herself without an arm, and people were like why do you keep marking art about the loss of your arm, and she was like i don’t. i’m making art about myself and i only have one arm.
while a lot of people write poetry about their own pain, sometimes personal poetry is just a reflection of who they are, and who they are is shaped by traumatic events and other things that youmay find upsetting.
Insider is creating a database to track queer representation in children’s cartoons. I searched through it a bit and it’s pretty cool. I wished it had some links to sources of confirmation to some of them and I’m not sure exactly how accurate it is, but it seems accurate enough at first glance. You can check it out yourself if you want.
Fun read from today
https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/gabrielsanchez/heres-what-its-like-to-identify-as-asexual
This Photo Series Captures Asexual Experiences From Around The World
Many of the interviewees are also aro-spec, and there is quite the variation of aces interviewed. This is a nice read and I just want to let y'all know that it is possible to be heard on a large public platform.
I’ve gotten a few asks requesting some research resources for writing characters who have Bipolar Disorder. I don’t have Bipolar, nor am I a mental health professional, but I have found some helpful resources from people who experience it in order to get you started.
Please let me know if you have any reading recommendations, and if you’d like to share your experiences!
Also note: apologies I haven’t been able to answer asks the way I used to, as adult life and grad school keep me rigorously occupied. But I always appreciate the people who take the time to write to me!
Happy writing, everybody!
Articles:
What it’s like to have bipolar, by people who have bipolar
What Bipolar Disorder Is Like, According to Women Who Live With It
My Story with Bipolar Disorder
This Is What It’s Actually Like to Live With Bipolar Disorder
What It’s Like to Be a Black Woman With Bipolar Disorder
Black and Bipolar: Our Melanin Does Not Shield Us From Mental Illness
Accounts from Black, Asian, and other People of Color living with Bipolar
Your Experience With Bipolar Disorder Depends on Your Race
Books:
Wishful Drinking, by Carrie Fisher
Haldol and Hyacinths: A Bipolar Life, by Melody Moezzi
An Unquiet Mind, by Kay Redfield Jamison, PhD
Mad Like Me: Travels in Bipolar Country, by Merryl Hammond
Rock Steady: Brilliant Advice from My Bipolar Life, by Ellen Forney
I’m Telling the Truth, but I’m Lying: Essays, by Bassey Ikpi
OMG That’s Me: Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, and More…, by Dave Mowry
Videos:
Destigmatizing Bipolar Depression
Putting in a plug for Maria Bamford, a comedian with Bipolar. She keeps bootleg stuff off youtube, but her entire catalog is on Spotify and I cannot recommend her enough. Here’s a clip from a Comedy Central special.
Seconding the rec for Carrie Fisher. She died right around the time I was first getting diagnosed myself and is still a huge comfort.
I have a diagnosis of Bipolar Type II myself and am glad to be a resource for questions as well.
“just not seeing enough people talking about carl clemons-hopkins, the first out nonbinary actor to be nominated for an emmy, and the nonbinary flag gown they wore last night”
Carl Clemons-Hopkins on IMDB
since it’s almost the holiday season, just a PSA: stop drawing jewish people celebrating christmas!
drawing them celebrating hanukah is much more respectful and i promise that it isn’t difficult! you could draw them lighting the menorah, playing dreidel, or even opening their hanukah presents! stay safe everyone, and & happy holidays!
actually, let me elaborate!
if you’re goyische, i would reccomend drawing a menorah that looks like this! this menorah is kosher, because the shamash [central candle] is more offset than the other candles, traditionally being HIGHER or lower. (if you’re jewish - go wild! have fun with your menorahs! once i saw a dinosaur menorah!)
this is a dreidel! dreidel is a game where people usually gamble gelt (chocolate coins) with each other. the dreidel is a spinning top, and depending on if it lands on nun, gimmel, hay, or shin, you can either get or lose gelt!
a quick little reminder from your two mods, these are some easy places to start with!
“They look like Ainu people,” my grandma had commented as I showed her Princess Mononoke. I had never heard of the Ainu people before. I asked her who the Ainu are, and she said, “they’re like Japanese Indians,” meaning Native Americans. “Mountain people.”
After we finished the movie I immediately went to Google to look up the Ainu. My grandma was right, on some level. The pictures I saw of their garments, their houses, their salmon culture, their faces… it all reminded me so much of the tribal culture I grew up around in Seattle and the Pacific Northwest.
I told my mom what my grandma had said about the Ainu, and my mom said, “oh yeah. Grandma is Ainu.” Whaaaaaaaat? Apparently at one point my grandma had gone back to Hokkaido to visit family, and she brought back all of these unusual souvenirs. Wood carved bears and wood carved bearded people, a mirror with a wood carved woman’s face, and other little things that had always been a part of our household. The little knickknacks that are never questioned, but are some how just kind of always there. I didn’t know that they had come from Japan, and I certainly didn’t know they were Ainu souvenirs.
Of course, my mom didn’t have the internet at her disposal in the 70s, and at the time misunderstood what it meant to be Ainu. She assumed that Ainu was a general term for people from Hokkaido, as opposed to a specific ethnic group. My grandma denied being Ainu, having grown up Wajin, but my grandpa seemed to suspect otherwise. “Sayuri, I don’t know why you deny your heratige. Of course you’re Ainu, look at your big mountain feet!” my grandpa would tease.
The more I read about the Ainu and their history, and the more I looked into my own family history, the more questions that had always nagged at my family seemed to be answered. The question of why we were always so different.
This whole journey started with a movie. Prince Ashitaka is Emishi, and there’s a lot of complicated history about the relation between Ainu and Emishi, but the point is would I have ever learned learned anything about my family background if this culture had never shown up on screen?
People who see themselves and their culture represented all the time take for granted what that can mean. For some people, it’s literally life changing.
Representation is great, and it can be really useful and cool to see other people like you in media. As a person who grew up with white parents in a white neighborhood in a predominately white area of the country, I definitely grew up with sort of a warped view of myself. When I watch Asian media, I can see features like mine and I feel less like a pariah. I absolutely understand how nice it is just to see people who look like you, and how it can be very encouraging to see other people finding them attractive, admirable, etc.
However, that all said, it’s also important that we are able to relate to others who don’t share our skin color or our religion or our gender. It’s important that we can see characters who don’t look like us or don’t act like us, and that we are able to like them or find them relatable.
More important than having a token character that reflects our outer features, is that we are able to realize that the human experience, that emotions and struggles, are relatable. We all live life, we all struggle to be good people, and we all do our best to find fulfillment in what we do.
I don’t need a character to be autistic or Asian or adopted or trans or all of the above to be relatable to me. In fact, I’d personally prefer that my escapism not mirror my life. I want to see characters that have depth and complexity, and I want to be able to enjoy them whether or not they look like me.
look i’m as absolutely against homophobic tropes as the next person, probably even more so, but like. at the end of the day if every gay character has to be wholesome and unproblematic in order to be a good character gay media is gonna get really bland really fast
i don’t just want “good gay characters/representation” i want a full spectrum of gay characters that encompass even a fraction of the thousands of diverse and complex straight characters in fiction
Everybody go watch “I Put the Bi in Bitter” in celebration of Bi Visibility! It’s a really cool show featuring bi women of color, a fabulous Asian lesbian, stable relationships between both bi/bi couples and gay/bi couples, and a whole lotta queer inside jokes! Season 3 comes out only three days after Bi Visibility Day. And the episodes are all really short so you don’t need a lot of extra time to watch it!
Season 3 came out today and you can watch it here on Youtube! And here are season oneandseason two. Go support #ownvoices and great representation of bi & gay women of color by checking it out. <3 Make sure to comment to show your love & support – it’ll boost the algorithm and share the stories of the marginalized peoples they’re representing.
Everybody go watch “I Put the Bi in Bitter” in celebration of Bi Visibility! It’s a really cool show featuring bi women of color, a fabulous Asian lesbian, stable relationships between both bi/bi couples and gay/bi couples, and a whole lotta queer inside jokes! Season 3 comes out only three days after Bi Visibility Day. And the episodes are all really short so you don’t need a lot of extra time to watch it!