“Once it comes time to put it all together in competition, that will be the real test. But as I’ve been training, I guess I would say I am better than I was in Rio.” ~Simone Biles
It is always satisfying to see his attitude improve dramatically after discipline… Training works wonders…
The thing I’ve learned is that seeing a picture like this with a woman dressed in a little leather miniskirt and a pierced bellybuttonisn’t what’s getting guys off. As a female, I’ve been conditioned by Madison Avenue to believe I need to buy certain things, have certain procedures, wear certain clothing and jewelry, and most of all be young and slender in order to have a man worship Me.
What utter nonsense that is.
So when I used to look at such imagery, I discounted My ability to have a man kneel and kiss My hand. I counted Myself out of the game before I ever entered the arena. But I’ve wised up. It’s all in the attitude, isn’t it, gentlemen? I can be Me, a middle aged suburban matron in a nice dress, auburn hair and red lipstick. When I sternly note that you need training to adjust your attitude, you will agree with all your heart. If I tell you to drop your drawers for some discipline, you’ll do it gladly, won’t you?
And you will kiss My hand and thank Me for providing you with the necessary attention to your corrections.
I suppose I’ve received some training of My own on attitude adjustment. Submissive men have persuaded Me that I am desirable exactly as I am, with the spirit of a strong, confident and loving woman.
Terrible photos of the 3 year old I have been breaking for my neighbor! Another Appaloosa. Gelding, named Booner. My neighbor was so impressed how good I did with Ember he asked me to break his 3 year old. He breeds for racing but says Booners back is too short to run, and wants him to still have a good life.. requested I train the guy and get him a good life! I agreed, earnestly. Love starting 3 year olds, no bad habits, just all play and wanting to have a good time.
We were getting ready for bed, and as I was getting in, he stopped me by saying that’s not where I belong. I was a bit confused as to what he was talking about. He pointed in front of him and told me to get on my knees. With that order, I felt a jolt of lust go through me, and I immediately complied. I proceeded to first lick his length up and down and then swirl my tongue around his head. He stopped and said that’s not how I want it. He grabbed my head and pushed me all the way down until my lips were feeling the prickly pubic hairs at his crotch. I started to gag a bit, and he told me to suck it like the nasty bitch that I was. I was getting more and more wetter as he starts to fuck my mouth. I was moaning around that thick piece of meat that was being shoved down my throat. I started to finger myself and making sure I was rubbing lightly on my clit in the process.
He then pulls his dick out of my mouth you can see the string of saliva that came from my mouth and trailed down to his dick and balls and onto the floor. He rubbed that spit and precome covered dick all over my face. The smell of our combined fluids was strong and so arousing to me. He was telling me that he knows that’s how I like it, to be covered in his scent, and to now lick and suck his balls. I whimpered as I stuck my tongue out to lick his hairy balls and then suck first one, then the other in my mouth. Above me, I could hear his light moaning, and I felt so happy that I was giving him pleasure. I went back to fingering myself, but after a few minutes he pulled away and told me to get into position. I knew what this means. I went back towards the bed and proceeded to get on all fours and to bring my ass up. It was very quiet in the room, and I could hear him stroking himself up and down, and just admiring my form. But then there was a loud smack, and I gasped and tensed up. He had smacked me on my ass. “You didn’t think I would see you pleasuring yourself,” Smack, I moaned out loud as his hand came down again. “rubbing your clit” Another smack was heard in the room and my pussy juices were dripping down my thighs by now. “I didn’t say you could touch my pussy” That last smack was harder than the others and I groaned out loud. He rubbed my ass, which was hot and throbbing from his hands, and then without any warning, he pushed his hard dick inside me. That hard-unexpected thrust pushed me further down so that only my ass was in the air. He got so deep, and I felt that pinch of pain which became pleasure inside me. It was enough to have me coming all over his dick, and as he was fucking me he would say, “You are such a nasty bitch, you love this dick deep all up in you” I moaned out yes. He grabbed my hair to pull me in an upright position and continued to fuck me. He was licking and sucking on my neck, and he whispered in my ear to play with his pussy while he fucked me. My pussy was so wet that you can hear it as I started playing with myself, even trying to insert a finger alongside his dick. That set off another climax, and I tighten around him so hard that he abruptly just started coming inside me. He groaned as we both fell back down to the bed.
She spent the weekend naked and servicing me. I gave her holes lots of attention and she had to masturbate frequently for me, all without being allowed to cum - she is extremely horny. It’s time for her to leave the house and go about her regular activities, although I insisted she do that wearing one additional accessory….a heavy duty chastity belt.
The belt came with a plug for each hole, it was extremely embarrassing for her to squat in the middle of the lounge room and insert the plugs into herself under my watchful eye. Now as she zips herself up and goes about her day she won’t be able to stop thinking about who owns her body.
I will have to think of a suitable task for her to perfom before I contemplate letting her out for her orgasm. Any and all suggestions as to what this task could be would be welcome….
This is a tough subject to talk about, because the vast majority of what you see on the internet, especially here on Tumblr, is unrealistic, and misrepresented. So I will need to take some time here to explain what male chastity is, and what male chastity isn’t.
First all, its important to understand that male chastity does not have to be weird. So before you judge it, it’s healthy to have a look at some first hand real life accounts of people who have incorporated chastity into their relationship, and ask them how or if it improved their lives. You will find most would never go back to “ normal” because it works that well.
So lets take a good look at the concept behind male chastity. Basically, it’s a device worn by a male in the relationship, in which, encases his penis into a small cage that prevents his erections. Yes, its hygienic, and yes, he can still pee out of it without taking it off. Hygiene and peeing are not problems because the cage has enough holes in it to maintain cleanliness and make it breathable. So, since it prevents erections, he is unable to play with himself or masturbate, without his partners knowledge or consent.
Now this is not something you do to someone because they cheated on you, or because you don’t trust him not to cheat… If you have cheating issues in your relationship, you have bigger problems to worry about and chastity is not a solution…. communication is the solution. So do not associate chastity with trust issues, because that is NOT what it’s meant for and would do more harm than good. So what then is chastity good for?
First, you have to understand what a chastity device does to a man psychologically. Since he is a submissive male, a chastity device can represent to him, the ultimate form of submission. He is literally gifting his sex life to his partner, and giving them full control of when or if, they get sexual pleasure. So once he no longer has the key to that little device, and he can no longer get erections or play with himself without that key…. after a bit of time has passed, he will want out of the cage because his desire builds over time, and the cage enhances that feeling. Especially if his partner knows this, and teases him a little bit. Therefore, the one holding the key, will have his full attention and all of his energy will be directed towards her. So that little device, is a powerful psychological tool she can wield, and use to control him. Chastity typically represents, the end of the his fantasies and the beginning of hers. Which is something he discovers along the way, but that will be brought up in another lesson.
Second, after you’ve understood the psychological side, comes control. Since the chastity device has turned his desire, passion, attention, and energy toward his partner holding the key, she now has the opportunity to enforce her ways in the relationship, she has control in ways she never had before it. From little things, to big things. It’s really up to her, how far she wishes to go with it. But one thing she will notice, is that this level of control is intoxicating. Knowing he is in the device, and will do anything for her to get out, including focusing entirely on her sexual desires and not his, adds a whole new dimension to FLR. This is why so many couples never go back. It energizes the submissive male, and brings great pleasure to his partner, including the usual chores and errands life brings getting done while she relaxes… if that’s what she wants.
Now this does not mean that he doesn’t get to have sex anymore. She has the power to unlock him any time she wants, and enjoy regular intercourse if she pleases. There really are no rules in how this can work, and this is why its important not to look at the online version of it. What we see online generally depicts men in chastity to be weak and worthless, typically cuckolded, and not allowed intercourse. This is simply ONE way of using chastity. But its really not realistic when you have a life to live. Chastity can be a mild and fun experience, or it can be a more serious one…. or anything in between. It doesn’t even have to be kinky. It could simply be about control. Perhaps a couple just wants a normal sex life, except he gets locked up until the next time, tomorrow, or the next day. It could be that simple. But the fact that he can’t play between now and the next time, is what makes it fun and exciting. Others, might take a more serious role, where he only gets unlocked once a week or once a month. Meanwhile, sex happens often, just with him locked, typically through oral or the use of a strap-on used by him over top of his cage, this can make a man cry, but he’ll love it as much as you do.
Since the denial builds up over time, the longer he is locked, the more he will typically enjoy it, even if he doesn’t admit it. What most men will never tell you, is that they actually like the feeling of being horny. Most men will deny this, because they have never been horny long enough to let it take over their body. Since chastity gives them no choice, eventually they surrender to their horny desire, and come to love it. Of course, he still wants a release, but if you ask him honestly, after a few long term chastity episodes, he’s going to give you a surprising answer. He’s going to tell you that after he has had his climax, he misses feeling the desire, it makes him feel empty, isolated even and more importantly, less desire to submit. That is, only until enough time has passed, to build it up again, usually within a few hours he’s starts to feel it coming back.
Chastity benefits both him and her. It’s also a major turn on for him because of the loss of control, this is typically what makes males suggest it in the first place. The desire to submit in a submissive male, isn’t something that can be changed, it’s a core aspect of his being that he is desperate to express to the right woman. He can suppress it, he can hide it, but he cannot destroy it. This giving up control to her, is often how women are introduced to chastity. However, once she gets past the weirdness factor, the control makes all of her dreams come true, even if they’re not exactly his dreams. As she grows in confidence, and chastity becomes a normal aspect of the relationship, she gets more explorative and often discovers her own sexual truths, like his core need to submit, she discovers her core need to dominate, and this makes for a very interesting relationship dynamic. As both partners no longer have to hide who they really are, as a result, it can bring them extremely close together. This can create a relationship that exists on levels beyond anything they have ever experience before, a human connection deeper than they imagined with clearly defined roles. The relationship itself can be a spiritual experience, with him deep in subspace, and her on cloud 9. More and more couples are discovering the benefits of male chastity.
Chastity gives the female the ultimate control in a female led relationship. It helps them both discover their roles and it keeps him focused on her pleasure, needs, wants, and desires. In previous lessons I talked about male pleasure, and male desire, and chastity caters to both, because he gets most of his pleasure simply through being horny. Chastity enhances this feeling 10 fold, creating an even stronger desire to submit and please. It’s bit of a catch 22, which she can use and benefit to her advantage making both of them more happy and fulfilled in the process. So in that respect, chastity can actually be one of the greatest acts of love, dominance, and submission within an FLR. It can symbolize marriage much more than a ring on a finger can. That’s what makes it so powerful, and life changing, and why most never go back to the old way.
There are ways to foster the feeling of submission and feeling small or overpowered. And these are things that both of you can do as well.
For the Dom/Domme
be consistent with your behavior, even if your sub does not respond consistently
provide punishment for bad behavior quickly. Give 1 or 2 chances, not 10 or 12, and then punish your sub if he or she doesn’t respond the way you want them to.
find ways to assert your dominance, even in small everyday matters. Be bossy! Get your sub used to taking orders all the time, not only at certain times of day or during a scene.
find a “codeword” or symbol and train your sub to feel submissive when he or she hears this command
make punishments harsher to give your sub some extra motivation to behave!
find ways to make your sub relax; this will lead him to obey
require her to do something that will remind her of her submission to you every hour or every few hours to keep her in the submissive mindset
give “maintenance spankings”
For the sub
have a glass of wine or a beer to help you relax. A relaxed sub will naturally feel more submissive.
have a mantra or routine that you do throughout the day to help you retain your subby feeling and not drift back up into “topspace.”
read submissive journals and blogs
keep a submissive journal
work on bettering yourself or doing 1 nice thing for your Dominant each day
The first time she ever let me cum inside her, I Immediately went down on her after and cleaned up as I licked her clit and made her cum too.
She told me later that one of the things she didn’t like about her ex is that he wouldn’t go down on her after fucking her.
I was thinking about it tonight and I honestly can’t remember a single time that I’ve ever cum in her without going down on her right after or having her crawl up on my face, if she was on top.
She’s clearly been training me before I even knew it.
After a long and successful day subby and I finally got some alone time. Planning and hosting a party is not easy. With my key in full view nobody said a word. We looked like any other normal couple while in our minds we knew who was in charge! Later that night I got a much needed back rub which lead to an orgasm and feeling my cock for the first time in a while. He was not allowed to cum so he had to stop a few times but, it was worth it. It was definitely making love and not just fucking. Even thought those words did come out of my mouth!
When I first became a key holder I never wore the key as jewelry. It was always hidden somewhere in the bedroom. Later on I started wearing it on my bracelet. I would take it off if I knew we would be around friends and family. I didn’t want anyone to ask questions. Not many people accept our lifestyle as normal. Fast forward about 6 months and I wear my key with confidence and pride. I don’t know what I would say if anyone asked but now I never take it off and I am proud of that!
She has to pass her servant test before I let her move on to sexual training. Just having her paychecks moved to my bank account doesn’t automatically grant pussy privileges.
1. First, there’s the obvious “Wash Her Mouth Out” punishment when she’s bad. That being said, it’s a little too nice, so I’m not a fan. There are much crueler, more appropriate things to do to your women to make sure they understand their place.
2. But more useful is that you can use her mouth as a repository for soap when you’re showering. She simply soaps her mouth up while you’re undressing, and then her saliva should be sufficiently soapy to lick you from head to toe, and clean you like you deserve to be cleaned. Now, it’ll taste terrible, but remember, her comfort is not nearly as important as her service to you. The inferior should be so grateful to pleasure and serve you in this most intimate way.
From 3/21/14 Little by little, I’m going to reprogram you. I’ll play to your fetishes only to ensnare you in mine. You wanted a shiny girl keeping you in chastity? That’s fine. I want you perfectly aroused when I whip you. And when I put your tongue to use whenever I like. And when I do things you’ve said no to before. You won’t just do it. You’ll be trained to WANT IT! I can’t wait to hear you begging me to inflictupon you what you used to hate…
