Unlabeled is an umbrella term for those who do not want to identify under specific label(s) for their sexuality, gender, or other identity (despite qualifying and being entitled to use one or more). By definition it is similar to the some usages of queer, but may be more suited for those who may not be as happy or comfortable trying to specify their identity within the LGBT+ community. One may have an identity that fits into a preexisting identity, but still not want to label oneself. One can be unlabeled in terms of their attraction, gender, or any other aspect of their queer identity.
I finally decided to make a post to pin because I feel like that’s easier than attempting to keep my bio neat and organized.
Name:Call me El for now! I don’t feel like sharing my irl name, so I’m currently testing out nicknames to see what I like. I want to have an identifier other than my username, you know?
Age:I am of the age of majority, but that being said, please don’t send me or ask me NSFW/18+ stuff, thank you very much. Minors are welcome to interact if they feel comfortable and safe doing so!
Gender, Pronouns & Sexuality: I’m a cisgender woman (I am at an age where “woman” feels too old but “girl” feels too young. Is there an in-between word? “Gal”?), my pronouns are she/her, and my sexuality is unlabeled.
Where I’m From:Canada!
Fandoms:There’s a bunch but I’m lowkey blanking right now, so this list will be updated as I remember or join new fandoms (I’m not necessarily currently active in all of them but if I’ve listed it, it is something I’m still interested in):
Kpop (ARMY, MOA, ENGENE)
Harry Potter (written by Daniel Radcliffe himself, of course)
Marvel
Musicals (there’s a lot, so if you’re curious if I know/like one, just ask!)
Classic rock music (my favourite rock band is Queen)
Supernatural (I’ve only watched through season 9, but there’s very little that happened up to the finale that I don’t already know about)
BBC Sherlock
Doctor Who (I didn’t finish before they took it off Netflix so I didn’t even finish the 11th Doctor’s storyline)
Science (it’s what I’m going to uni for! I’m specializing in earth and enviro sci, so please send pictures of cool rocks and rock formations!)
Music (listening, singing, and I know how to play a couple of instruments)
Theatre (singing, acting, AND dancing)
Dogs (but cats and other types of pets are cool too)
Sports (my favourites are basketball and rugby)
If you have any questions, please ask and I will gladly answer (as long as it is a question that I’m comfortable answering, of course)!
Making a (most likely temporary) return to the Tumblr-verse means updating my “About Me” post because of an official development in the sexuality sector.
[ID: Fanart of the content creator Dream, shown from the chest up. He is depicted as having short, dirty blonde hair and pure green eyes, and he is wearing a green hoodie. He also has a black fingerless glove on his visible hand. Dream is facing diagonally to the left but looking toward the viewer with a small, casual smile. He has one hand up, adjacent to his jaw, loosely holding his iconic smiley face mask.
On his cheek, Dream has a mid-sized heart in the unlabeled flag colors. The background of the art is medium gray. Dream has an outline around the front of his body in white, and one around his back in pale pink. The pink line leads into tiny, unattached wings like that of an angel.
Over Dream’s head, there is a light blue, lineart crown drawn onto the background. There are small accent lines around the crown. End ID]
It’s okay to never figure your sexuality out. It’s okay to always be changing your label. It’s okay to only partially define your sexuality. It’s okay to stick to general and broad labels. It’s okay to have a complex sexuality.
Never forget that your sexuality is your business and yours alone.
If you never come out to anyone, you are valid. If you only come out to several people, you are valid. If you come out and change your label, you are valid.
