#you are valid no matter what

mythicalcoolkid:

Okay but support trans people who get ignored

• Butch trans woman
• Masculine trans men
• AMAB nonbinary people
• Nonbinary people who present femininely
• Nonbinary people who present like their AGAB
• Trans people who don’t get HRT for whatever reason
• Trans people who don’t get surgery for whatever reason
• Trans people you don’t personally like
• Trans people you think are cringey
• Trans children
• Older trans people
• Fat trans people
• Trans poc
• Gender-nonconforming trans people
• Trans people who don’t fit your narrative

None of these people should be misgendered or disrespected and they all deserve our support

vaspider:

Here’s to the non-binary adults trying to deal with the fact that they can’t be out at work.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who can’t even try to be out with their parents because they’re trying to keep things ok for the grandkids.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who say “Oh it’s ok, I’m used to gender-specific binary pronouns” and die a little inside.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who have learned not to care.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who really don’t care about pronouns.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who have to gender-binary themselves for PTA meetings and talking to business owners and government officials.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who feel lost and without community because so much of the vocal and out enby community is very young.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who don’t feel welcome in the trans community and aren’t part of the cis community.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who feel guilty about calling themselves trans because they don’t “feel trans enough” or that they don’t deserve to call themselves trans.

Here’s to the non-binary adults who don’t identify as trans without any guilt about it at all.

Conditional Acceptance is like living on a high wire every day, and “passing privilege” is a painful myth, one that can leave us feeling miserable and crushed and empty.

Love yourself and honor that living in the closet isn’t a privilege. It hurts, and it’s ok that it hurts. You didn’t do anything wrong, the world did.

genderfluxthings:

Only come out if you want to!

Whether it is one of the first times you come out, or if you’re mostly out, you are not obligated to come out to anyone!

Not telling people about your gender/sexuality doesn’t make you a bad person!

You are still valid!