#adhd awareness month
Being an ADHDer really makes my catch phrase be “time is fake and I remember nothing”. Anyone else feels like they have lost time?
I love my ADHD. in many ways, my ADHD makes me a better person. yep, I said it.
what do you value about your ADHD? what aspects do you celebrate, find strength in, or claim as superpowers? here are some of mine, please feel free to share your own!
- my restless desire to live with interest, catharsis, creativity, fulfillment
- 200% of my efforts put into anything that captures my heart or genuine interest
- my ability to connect seemingly disconnected ideas, fields, problems
- my resistance against western traditions of linear thought, argument, narrative, time
- my empathy and consciousness for those who don’t fit ableist norms and paradigms
Finding out my ADHD diagnosis just this past November was a relief, but also left me with so many ‘what if’ questions. I’ve lost jobs, friendships, had issues keeping my spaces clean, doing homework, among so many other things and it left me feeling depressed. I kept wondering why I couldn’t just do things that so many others could do with ease and why I just never could live up to the potential others saw in me. Professionals diagnosed it as depression/anxiety, but really, there was more at hand if they had just looked further beyond the surface to see where it stemmed from. My depression was a mask for a root cause of undiagnosed ADHD.
I can’t say that I’ve got a full handle on all my symptoms, but it is getting better to manage with medication and unlearning harmful coping skills. I also still deal with self-doubt in being able to complete or start tasks because of the standards I was held to previously. I know people had good intentions in trying to motivate me to achieve the potentials they saw in me, but maybe if I had a different backpack earlier on, it may have been easier for me to succeed.
This is why understanding how ADHD can present in AFAB individuals is so important. Because a lot of current diagnosing standards are understood from the viewpoint of AMAB individuals, whereas the inattentive type, that I have, can go under the radar for years. I also hope that there can be better tools and resources made available for adults who get diagnosed later in life because there may be things that need to be unlearned in order to develop better strategies to manage our symptoms. Things to deal with shame, guilt, rejection sensitivity, time management, following through on goals and tasks, hyperfocus, executive dysfunction, relationship management, let alone all the other ways ADHD affects people.
I hope this comic resonates with many of you who were also diagnosed later in life and that you’re able to feel less alone. Thank you @adhd-alien for inviting me to be part of this and allowing me to share my story.
Me: Hey October is ADHD awareness month! Maybe I should get a cool ADHD positive button to put on my backpack
90% of the buttons I found on google: “oh look a squirrel” “talk to me about my- oh look shiny” “ADHD means never having to say you’re bored lol”
Me:…K never mind then
For those who don’t know we actually have an awareness ribbon. It’s orange.
Why was I told that it was purple…#almost dyed my hair the wrong color
Did some research and found both are used purple and orange
Thank you!!
October is ADHD Awareness Month.
There are a lot of misconceptions about ADHD, from “it only affects children” to “it’s not real”. ADHD affects between 4-5% of adults and is very real. It is also very serious; sleep problems, financial struggles, lower life expectancy, difficulty maintaining relationships, comorbidity with anxiety + depression, and social stigma are just a few of the realities people with ADHD have to live with.
Fortunately, with support and medication it is very manageable, but that doesn’t make it easy to live with. ADHD is challenging enough on its own, but you can make it easier by learning a bit about it.
October is ADHD Awareness Month, and Orange is our color.