#undiagnosed adhd
Me: I broke my leg in several places, it hurts like shit, but I still manage to walk without a limp and behave completely normal when I’m with people.
Person: WHAT THE FUCK GO TO THE HOSPITAL SEE A DOCTOR GET TREATMENT!
Me: Oh, sorry, I misspoke. I meant: I have all the symptoms of undiagnosed ADHD, it’s exhausting like shit, but I still manage to function completely normal when I’m with people.
Person:
i’m tired and angry and i just wanna give a special fuck you to every teacher who implied that using “complex” language meant you were cheating or sucking up, when in fact that’s just how a lot of neurodivergent/autistic kids (and adults) naturally sound
My thoughts indeed
This is so me. I used to use really complicated sentences and stuff, but did a lot mistakes bc i was dyslexic - which of course nobody told me. So the complexity of what I was saying resulted in even more mistakes. Since our school system only counts mistakes… Well… I was a bad student. Of course. Because how else would it be?
“If you don’t understand this, it’s because you weren’t paying attention!” Bitch shut up and help me with this geometry problem
me being awake at 2am: wow it’s such a good time to be productive!! i feel so motivated!! girl that is the adhd talking. go to bed
something funny about running a blog about symptoms of adhd is seeing people in the tags go ‘THAT WAS AN ADHD THING?’ and ‘people with adhd need to stop being so relatable or i need to see a doctor’ every. day. and i know the more they read into it they just spiral deeper and deeper and realise. what the fuck. why didn’t i know i’ve apparently had this condition that literally affects my whole life. and that’s exactly what happened to me.
don’t look don’t look don’t look!!!!
When my people make me feel really bad and upset about things i have no control over, i like to come and read the tags you guys post on my art. Like, i maybe a forgetful screw up, but atleast somethingi did had made some one else smile
Finding out my ADHD diagnosis just this past November was a relief, but also left me with so many ‘what if’ questions. I’ve lost jobs, friendships, had issues keeping my spaces clean, doing homework, among so many other things and it left me feeling depressed. I kept wondering why I couldn’t just do things that so many others could do with ease and why I just never could live up to the potential others saw in me. Professionals diagnosed it as depression/anxiety, but really, there was more at hand if they had just looked further beyond the surface to see where it stemmed from. My depression was a mask for a root cause of undiagnosed ADHD.
I can’t say that I’ve got a full handle on all my symptoms, but it is getting better to manage with medication and unlearning harmful coping skills. I also still deal with self-doubt in being able to complete or start tasks because of the standards I was held to previously. I know people had good intentions in trying to motivate me to achieve the potentials they saw in me, but maybe if I had a different backpack earlier on, it may have been easier for me to succeed.
This is why understanding how ADHD can present in AFAB individuals is so important. Because a lot of current diagnosing standards are understood from the viewpoint of AMAB individuals, whereas the inattentive type, that I have, can go under the radar for years. I also hope that there can be better tools and resources made available for adults who get diagnosed later in life because there may be things that need to be unlearned in order to develop better strategies to manage our symptoms. Things to deal with shame, guilt, rejection sensitivity, time management, following through on goals and tasks, hyperfocus, executive dysfunction, relationship management, let alone all the other ways ADHD affects people.
I hope this comic resonates with many of you who were also diagnosed later in life and that you’re able to feel less alone. Thank you @adhd-alien for inviting me to be part of this and allowing me to share my story.
Ok. So these results he says, literally the results the psychologist wrote down. Like, verbatim. “Questionnaire consistent with ADHD”. I’ve literally had my primary care physician say to me, “man, I think you have adhd. You sound and act exactly like my college roommate”.
Even saying ”I’m so sorry, I completely forgot” sounds marginally better than ” I’m so sorry, I didn’t completely forget, I actually completely remembered. I thought about it the whole time and it stressed me out so much my brain built an insurmountable wall around it.”
Even saying ”I’m so sorry, I completely forgot” sounds marginally better than ” I’m so sorry, I didn’t completely forget, I actually completely remembered. I thought about it the whole time and it stressed me out so much my brain built an insurmountable wall around it.”