Imagine coming home from work exhausted only to find your f/o with everything ready. Two plates of your favourite food are on the table, steaming hot. Your softest blanket is in the dryer, getting nice and warm. There’s a heating pad underneath your covers too, so it’s heavenly warm when it’s time for bed. They love making you relax and unwind, and can’t wait to snuggle with you.

You’re f/o misses you. Seriously, go talk to them! They could use a hug from you right now. Your arms are their favourite place to be.

Sometimes when you get anxious, your f/o’s usual means of calming you don’t work. Sometimes, they just have to grab your face in their hands and make you look at them. “Hey, I need you to breathe. Can you do that for me?” When you finally do calm down, you can count on them getting you your favourite desert as a reward.

Omg before you get in bed, put a heating pad under the sheets on low and go brush your teeth or whatever. When you come back and get under the sheets, it’s like your f/o was there keeping the bed warm

In public your f/o understands how nervous you get sometimes. Don’t worry, they’re always there to slip an arm around your waist and squeeze you gently. It’s their little way of letting you know that you’re not alone. They’ve got you.

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What’s your favourite activity to do with your f/o?

Want it to feel like you’re taking a shower with you f/o? Get a body wash that you think smells like them! For example, if you normally use a feminine smelling body wash and have a masculine f/o, grab some mens body wash and use it instead!

Your f/o loves you so freakin’ much…like seriously they start to tear up just thinking about how much they love you and how much you mean to them.

P.S.You’re their lock screen wallpaper<3

Does anyone have any tips for not feeling like garbage compared to your f/o’s love interest?

As much as you hate to admit it, you don’t feel like you’re good enough for your f/o. They’re just so amazing—kind to you, incredibly attractive, smart, everything you think you aren’t.

The first time you expressed feeling this way to them, they couldn’t believe it.

“Y/N, I’m so sorry you’ve been feeling this way…you—I don’t understand. I feel that way about you. I mean, you’re my definition of perfection. I can’t help but feel inferior sometimes to you, and I sure as heck couldn’t ever fathom being with anyone else.”

They poured their heart out to you, making you realize that you were never alone in this thinking.

That day ended with the both of you wrapped up in each other’s arms, a smile on your faces as you realized just how lucky you both were.

Pro tip for simulating physical human touch:

You’ll need a body pillow or regular pillow (memory foam is best because it’s more firm!), a heating pad, a t-shirt, and body spray that you think smells like your f/o.

Put the shirt around the body pillow, spray it with the body spray. Put the heating pad underneath the shirt on low. Boom. Feels like cuddling with your f/o!

*I understand how pathetically sad this sounds to a lot of people, but it really helps emotionally. For different reasons, so many of us don’t have a real person to have intimacy with. This really does help. For me personally, I just don’t want to cuddle with anyone but my f/o(s)!

Imagine your f/o looking at you. They’re just thinking about how absolutely adorable you are. They can only do this for so long until they pull you close and hug you tight. Basically like when you see a cute puppy or kitten and just want to squeeze it. That’s how your f/o feels about you.

TW: Cancer

Hi guys, I feel like I just need to get this off of my chest. If you’re easily triggered by talk of family members having cancer, please do not continue.

For about a year now, my mother (42) has been claiming to have late stage breast cancer. She will not go get a diagnosis out of medical PTSD, but has said it’s only gotten worse.

Right now, self shipping is the only thing keeping me sane/remotely happy. Depression has been coming and going a lot, and I just want to say I’m so thankful for all of you supporting my blog and everything else I’ve done. It means more to me than you all will ever know.

I don’t know what will happen in the future with my mother, but if anything changes or takes a turn for the better…or worst I will keep you all updated.

Thank you all for being amazing

My other f/o’s when I get yet another father!f/o:

Your romantic or platonic f/o is bringing you hot cocoa with extra marshmallows, your favourite movie on DVD, and lots of blankets for you to have a cuddle + movie sesh!

Pssttt—your f/o is bringing you your favourite candies and flowers right now for Valentines.

…plus cuddles.

Imagine your f/o comforting you while you cry. You hate crying, especially around other people. It makes you feel terrible. Your f/o immediately picked up on your emotions, pulling you into their arms and shielding you from the outside world. They allow you to let it all out, whispering reassuring words and phrases to you as they stroke the back of your head gently.

Imagine your f/o bringing to work/school your favourite food for lunch. They surprise you with it, loving the way you smile so big and practically jump into their arms.

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bedtime cuddles with your f/o ❆

packed with tender fluff <3

• its late and the outside is quiet, you rest your head against their chest and listen to the sound of their heartbeat and breath
• its slow and even and makes you feel warm. really, no matter where you were, cuddling close to them gave you a sense of safety and security like no other. no one could touch you when you were in their arms
• with a deep breath in, their scent flooded your senses. whether it was sour or sweet, floral or fresh, you wanted to sink into it more than anything
• you never felt the urge to shift or readjust against them, the position was perfect; not to mention you fit like a glove in the arch of their torso and the dip of their shoulder
• as you’re resting together, their hand comes up to pet your hair, gently running through each strand
• the tender fingertips brushing across your head send a few chills down your spine, but the sensation is nothing short of lovely
• as long as it was them, their touch, their scent, their warmth; there was nothing you couldn’t love when all they were giving you was love
• in this special moment, the both of you were untouchable
• it felt as though it would last forever, and as you fell asleep your dreams would be full of warmth and safety, and when you woke up, they would be there for you. ready to fall in love with you all over again

Imagine reading together with your F/O, their fingers gently making their way to your upper arms, fingertips crawling under your sleeve, almost tickling your skin.

Imagine their voice and tone, and how immersed you become in the story they’re bringing to life for you only, as you silently listen to them, the speech slowly falling into a natural, harmonious, honeyed rhythm.