#self shipping community
hi guys! just a reminder that i love self shippers and the self ship community but please do not reblog my posts if you are an adult and you’re denoting attraction to a character that’s a minor, whether aged up or not. it makes me i credibly uncomfortable. thank you!
Hi sorry for the month long hiatus practically, I’m queueing up some of my old posts just to get a stream of content for a little bit before I get back into things but…
If you want to help this blog keep going reminder that submissions are open! And you’re always welcome to send requests as well!
Imagine celebrating your birthday with your f/o(s). Maybe y'all throw a party, maybe it’s something lowkey. But what matters is that they’re happy to celebrate you!
Imagine cooking with your f/o. What are you cooking? Is this something that happens often? Is it fun or difficult for you? Do y'all share the kitchen well enough?
Imagine starting a garden with your f/o. What are you planting? Does one of you do more work than the other? Is it intentional if so?
For self shippers with f/os from the same canon: do you use the same S/I for all or different ones? Do the two f/os interact at all? If you have multiple S/Is do theyinteract?
Imagine having a movie night with your platonic f/o(s). What’s on the queue? Do you have snacks? Are they good movie-watching buddies or are they the types to talk the whole time?
Imagine you and your f/o can’t physically be together, so you two set up a virtual date night. How do you do it? What do you do? While it may not be the same as being in person, your f/o still likes being with you…even from afar
Imagine cuddling up with your f/o when it’s cold, sitting together by the fire with your preferred hot beverages, covered in blankets.
Imagine waking up in the morning and almost getting up before being pulled back by your sleepy, cuddly f/o. They won’t budge no matter what you say, wanting to get that precious five more minutes asleep next to you.
Question for the self ship community: are there any typical fanfiction tropes (enemies to lovers, “and there was only one bed”, hurt/comfort, stuff like that) that you feel apply or would be fun for you and your f/o(s)?
Imagine your f/o coming to meet your family with you the first time. They’re nervous the ride there, their hand on your thigh reassuring themselves more than you. You think it’s adorable how they want to make a good impression.
Imagine your f/o giving you puppy eyes because they want your cuddles.
*When you think about your f/o slipping their arms around your waist and pulling you into their chest*
Imagine coming home and having your parental!f/o envelop you in a big hug as soon as you walk in.
Did you know your f/o literally has you on their mind 24/7? Seriously!
TW: Food/Mentions of making sure you eat
As soon as they wake up, Y/N is on their mind. Questions race through their head. Have you eaten? Have you taken care of yourself? They’re in a rush to make sure you’re okay.
Lunch time? They’re immediately asking if you ate. If you haven’t, they’re going to your favourite food place and getting you something! Can’t have their baby going hungry now.
Are you stressed? They can’t have that. You can count on them giving you a relaxing massage, running a bath for you, and putting your towel and pj’s in the dryer so they’re nice and warm for you.
They just want to make sure you’re taken good care of. Stress free, nourished, and happy. They love you so, so much.
Imagine your f/o waking you up softly. They press little kisses to your nose, eyelids, and cheeks. They’d push the strands of hair out of your face gently, snuggling into the crook of your neck.
“Y/N, it’s time to wake up, sweetheart.”
Hi everyone!!
I’m moving a lot of items (mostly digital) to my Kofi due to how much Etsy charges the seller and buyer! My Etsy is still open, but feel free to save money by supporting my shop on Kofi!
Imagine your f/o walking in after a long day at work and finding you on the couch asleep. You stayed up late, wanting to be awake when they got home, but your sleep got the best of you. They smiled softly, coming to your side and putting a blanket around you before kissing your temple.
There’s something about self shipping that is one of the biggest stress relievers. I personally self ship and that is my relationship. I am no longer trying to date and have relationships with real people. The stress, paranoia, and anxiety is horrible for me personally. I assume that many others feel the same.
We never have to worry about it our f/o(s) got home safe, if they’re with someone else, if they are lying, ect. They’re ours to love for as much and as long as we want. And that is beautiful.
So, to all the people who call us weird, societal rejects, or whatever else, you know what? I’m the happiest I’ve ever been with my f/o’s all of the time.
You are valid. Your relationship with your f/o’s is valid. You deserve happiness, and if you’re happiest with fictional characters/OC’s, you’re winning at life.
Imagine your f/o noticing you being stressed. You’re sitting there, tense as you have your hands on your temples. They instantly envelop you in a hug, rubbing your back soothingly and telling you that it’s okay. They’re there now.
