#humanity
i think these go hand in hand <3
— “small kindnesses” by danusha laméris
— ross gay, from the book of delights
“We’re the cure for hatred caused by despair. We’re the good morning of a bus driver who remembers our name, the tattooed man who gives up his seat on the subway. We’re every door held open with a smile when we look into each other’s eyes the way we behold the moon. We’re the moon. We’re the promise of one people, one breath declaring to one another: I see you. I need you. I am you.”
— richard blanco, from declaration of inter-dependence
Buffalo
Rare examples of native children’s buffalo toys, made with love and care by their people to honor the buffalo that gave everything to native nations who depended on the buffalo for millennia.
#1. Shoshone. Wyoming. 1892.
#2. Arapaho. Sept 8, 1898.
#3. Lakota, (Teton/Western Sioux). Standing Rock Reservation, circa 1870.
Love is when you sit outside on a sunny day and watch the birds gather under your bird feeder and there’s a very gentle breeze and you have a bowl of sweet, in-season strawberries and you take a deep breath and slowly plan out the work you’re gonna do around the house at a very leisurely pace and it’s quiet, calm, and warm, and everything is okay
« some like to imagine
a cosmic mother watching through a spray of stars,
mouthing ‘yes, yes’ as we toddle towards the light,
biting her lip of we teeter at some ledge. longing
to sweep us to her breast, she hopes for the best »
― Tracy K. Smith, Life on Mars
Yana.
Italy, 12/12/2019
Scared of everything
Italy, 04/12/2019
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I am in love with the things humans create. Language. Cities. Stories. Little trinkets, grand mythologies, small gardens and radical engineering, close-knit book clubs and revolutionary movements. I am in love with it, with us. I want all of it
I always hire my guests to help me with ‘chores’ (if they’re willing!), the kind of task that’s fun at first but less fun when you have to keep going for hours (burning all the broom bushes in the pasture, picking many kg of berries to make syrup, carrying a mountain of logs into the wood shed and building stable log piles so they don’t come cascading down later…) And every time I’m amazed by the way humans can make the most tedious tasks genuinely fun through… group dynamics? just the way people start interacting and bonding with each other when everyone is focused on the same repetitive physical activity. It’s hard to find examples because it’s always so specific to each situation; but I mean things like
- people spontaneously specialising and developing a feeling of expertise and pride in their subtrade, no matter how silly (putting away firewood involved one Log Selecter outside going back and forth delivering logs to two Pile Builders who piled them up in the shed, and each rapidly created their own well-oiled System and became convinced it would be hard to replace them now that they had mastered their craft)
- new vocabulary being coined and immediately adopted (the Pile Builders came up with nicknames for logs of different lengths and shapes so they could ‘order’ them from the Log Selecter more efficiently—”I’ve got a One-Armed Bandit here, I need another one to fit next to it, but with an ‘arm’ on the other side” “Here” “The arm is on the same side!” “Just turn it around and the arm will be on the other side”)
- songs emerging almost by themselves (a song about fishing mussels was repurposed into a song about picking plums; a whole new song was invented to encourage weirdly-shaped logs to fit in with the others as we tried to fill all the gaps)
- stories being told. Weaving a trivial task into a complex imaginary plot and context to make it more entertaining and meaningful
- the extremely human compulsion to write down our knowledge to share it with future generations (I was told to take note of the best & quickest knot to tie up foliage when making tree hay, for the benefit of whoever does it next summer)
- beliefs as to the Right Way To Do Things quickly solidifying into myths or superstitions, as we forget what drove us to do things this way in the first place, but trust that we had good reasons so now it’s the Way It’s Done
I always tell people to help only if they feel like it and we can stop anytime and I’ll finish later by myself, but what usually happens instead is that they want to come back at the same time next year to do this exact chore again because of how they’ve made it theirs in just a few days (or in one afternoon!) Give a group of humans a banal task and while they’re at it they will come up with a whole new inside slang, a few work songs and a handful of founding texts and myths, until it feels special and important. I love seeing the way these miniature folklores just emanate from people doing things together.
Vira vira Vira.