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REGARDING BLACK MEN REFUSING TO DATE BLACK WOMEN…

The issue here is that all of these groups of men and their value of their women cannot be analyzed outside of the context of colonialism. They cannot be analyzed outside of the fact that the black woman, and man, are the most despised and degraded group of people on earth. Society doesn’t value the black woman and that resentment is taught to all of us, including black women, from birth.

Asian women are uplifted in society, “Hispanic” women (by which I assume they mean Latina/ indigenous women cuz if they’re talking about women actually from Spain then they’re talking about white women) are uplifted, white women are the archetype, the standard of beauty, of worth, of womanhood period while black women are the opposite of the white woman- the opposite of her beauty, her grace, her worth, her womanhood and are treated accordingly.

How many of those same white, asian and Hispanic women would happily marry (not just sleep with) a black man? Very, very few. I’m also confident that black women unwilling to be with black men vastly outnumbers other groups of women unwilling to be with men of their own nationality.

This certainly isn’t the fault of the black woman but neither is it the fault of the black man.

This is the result of a societal standard that the entire world’s population subscribes to by default until they make a conscious effort to overcome it (decolonizing the mind). Black people, historically and presently, are the most disempowered, reviled, disregarded, degraded and brutalized people on earth and because of that, we learn to resent each other as well. We develop an inability to even see the value in the life of a black person, much less see one as a viable romantic partner. This is the root of any black person refusing to deal with another black person romantically.

Once this system that makes white people the standard of humanity and everything that stems from it (beauty, intelligence, dignity, worth) is defeated, that’s when black people will be able to enjoy a dignity, respect and societal praise/ upliftment that we haven’t experienced for hundreds of years.

That’s when the worth of our people will be the standard n we’ll most certainly be dating each other lol.

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You have finished filling out your profile on our white men black women dating site. You took and uploaded your best photos to your profile. You have already looked for some potential matches, and finally, there is a black woman who caught your eye and ignited your interest. But, this is just the beginning. The main question now here is, how will you show your interest to that black woman in the first place? Do you just go ahead and tell her right away, or are there subtle moves you can do that will let you show your interest without being too straightforward?

To lift the burden off your shoulders, here are some ways to let that lovely black woman know how much you like her:

Get Her Attention: Send Her Winks and Add Her to Your Favorites List

You probably know that most online dating websites have exciting features such as favorites list and sending winks. Instead of just letting these features go to waste and unused, why not use them for showing your interest? You can start by sending that gorgeous black lady with winks. If she gives a good response, then, you can take things a step further by including her in your favorites list. She will be notified about it, and will definitely be interested to know why you did so.

Check Her Profile and Leave Comments

There are times when the best way to show your interest is actually the easiest way. You can just visit her profile every now and then, and leave a few friendly comments that will show her that you like to get to know her better. Sometimes, ladies appreciate guys who can say what’s on their mind, so use this chance to use that comment section as well.

Start Some Good Conversations

There are many ways for you to actually talk to the woman you find interesting. There is the chat option for example, or you can also send her a private email. No matter which method you choose, the key here is to be just yourself. Engage in friendly conversations where you can tell her more about yourself. instead of asking about her, let her open up to you willingly by sharing more about you first. This way, she will feel more comfortable with the discussion because she will not feel complied to tell everything about her right away. When you just let her get to know you better first, she will be more at ease and soon, she will also start telling you things she is willing to share.

Ask Her Out on a Casual Date

Once you both feel at ease with each other, it is time to take things to a whole new level by asking her out on a casual date. To give her the peace of mind, you can let her choose the time and place, or even make her plan what you will do on that day. Be the perfect gentleman and surely, things will fall into place.

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