A beautiful dancer from Afghanistan, a lovely person, a friend…
If you follow me andwatch my art, please read this, it is veryimportant.
A few years ago I made these artworks of an afghan dancer and posted them on my blog. Later I had to delete them because of many negative reactions from people – people who didn’t know the truth that this young man was, in fact, my closest friend! Yes, he was someone I knew for a long time.
I couldn’t talk about it then, because I would have to explain and risk way too much. Reality was morecomplicated than it seems. When I tried to be positive about the Afghan culture without touching something that hurts us both, people’s response was only hatred, disgust. NOBODY even asked me! Nobody was interested in “whydid you draw him”? They just attacked and accused. Eventually, now, I still have to explain.
First of all, Afghanistan is a homophobiccountry, it does notacceptanything LGBT+, it denies gay/trans/queer rights, andnotonlythat – anyonewhosupportsqueerness, equality, or even “looks queer” will be condemned, criticized and persecuted there. So how could I, a foreigner who openly supports queer rights, tell everyone “THIS IS MY FRIEND”? If the public of his country discovered that he befriended someone like me, he would just get even more hate. I didn’t want this negative attention for either of us.
If you see any videos of him on Youtube or other sites, there will be plenty of negative comments. But these people don’t know him personally, they draw the wrong conclusions based on their assumptions.
I will notshare personal details with respect to his privacy and safety, but as a friend I must defendhim, and defend myself too, for just trying to treat him not as a stereotypical negative image, but as a human being, a person with self-respect, pride, honor.
Originally from North Afghanistan, he enjoyed dancing since his youth; performing at parties was his entertainment and a job for himself and his family. I featured videos with his amazing performances before. While avoidingsensitive and scandalous terms, I used tags like Uzbek dancer, talented artist from Afghanistan and ‘bacha’بچه - in Farsi/Dari - boy, young man (I’m fluent in Persian language enough to know what term to use). I wished he could be recognized as an artist. However after seeing how much hate he still gets, I removed all videos and links.
For the majority “a pretty and young looking dancer” automatically means something else. Everyone keeps pressing on negativity, people call him “bacha-bazi” – butHE IS NOT! Concerning how twisted and notorious this term is,Idon’t call him like this. And don’tcall him this, please.
He only performed the “bacha-bazi” style of dance as it was a part of a Central Asian folk theater, nothing more. NOBODY forced him to dance. He is a completely free person. Dancing was his owndecision.Needless to say, my friend is already 38 years old. In all previous videos of his performances he is above 25-30 years old, surely he looks young but NOT like a child.
ALL rumors or assumptions about him on the internet are false. Despite that it’s uncomfortable for me to say, I will say it to be clear: he is NOT a slave, NOT a prostitute, NOT an abused child! Please, don’t label a grown up artist with such horrible assumptions just because he is from Afghanistan.
I know, the condition of this country is sorrowful, with the past war, conflicts, poverty, lack of education etc. so people from other countries aren’t aware of many things that happen there, thus controversies remain, but I wish people to stop judging before knowing the truth.
If you really care about somebody’s safety, try to contact them directly, ask them if they need help, but what’s the use of shamingon the internet? If you actually want to help children and youth of Afghanistan, help them in reality, increase education, security, welfare. But putting up a scandal in the media, accusingsomeone you don’t know personally is useless and harmful. You think you spread justice? You just spread hate.
I condemn anything that violates human rights. I don’t care what it’s called, if there’s a violation – it’s a crime. But my friend has NOTHINGto do with it. I knew his family and friends, who were very protective. They love him and care for him, and he loves and respects them as well. The whole of Afghanistan is not like what you imagine based on the negativity in the media. There are good people too, who can love, who have feelings too.
This dancer is an adult who decides his personallife, which is noneof others’ business. He had a dream to become a performer, but sadly in his country it’s a stigma. Four years ago he stoppeddancing (all videos with newer dates are wrong), and guess why? Because of people’s hate and misunderstanding. He cannotdance anymore. In his country they say “it’s gay”; they forcehim to live according to heteronormativestandards: look like a man, marry, have kids, and stop befriending “queers”… while in foreign countries they keep saying “pedophilia victim”, “abused child” etc. He is NONEof this. With your aggression you are not protecting him, you’re just making it worse for him.
Nobody actually cares if he got a job, how he lives and what are his dreams and life goals? They judge him only for one thing. I was also accused of… drawing him? Accused of doing something that made him happy.
He was aware of my artistic skills and reallyappreciatedthat I portrayed him, he even requested me to draw him! He also allowed me to publish those paintings. Receiving praise and compliments from friends was pleasing to him. However there was a lot of negative reaction and hatred, which forced him to delete his social media accounts. I also care for his safety and peace and the reason why I spoke about it all now is because reading all the misconceptions about him is too painful to ignore.
These two works I made were some of his favorites. He really loves Persian myths and poetry, so I depicted him in a fairy tale theme, seeing him the way he is: graceful, pure, and joyful. I admired his beauty, his talent; he was, indeed, a very nice and sweet person, always cheerful and smiling whenever I talked with him.
Unfortunately I can’t share any more of his portraits I painted, people will just keep judging him, judging me,judgingeverything they don’t understand. I doubt that this situation will change for the better. Now, at least, if you read this, please don’truin his life. Let him live peacefully.
I borrowed the wonderful world of Exandria for these adventures . Thank you Mr.Mercer for creating such wonderful world!
I don’t expect people to like this, but its something I feel happy drawing and would like to finish :)
The boxes with symbols in them are the actual DND skill dice rolls that me and @paznip rolled for the characters and the roll influences how the specific comic strips story goes on ! Let’s see if you can figure out what symbol represents what skill :D
I also tried to do a bit of colouring with markers, but the process uses up too much of them and they be expensive..so i ll probably stick to just pencil unless you guys think this is worth investing
I also kept to grey tones…their skin is actually green and red but not sure how it would read on comic page..might look like x mas time on there xD
Hope to update every 2 weeks !
If you wanna follow this, the tag for this story will be#NeutralDevils
I am not a professional….I just wanna put my thoughts on paper and I hope you guys will join in for the ride :*
I decided to introduce my friend (who only recently watched POTO for the first time) to Love Never Dies. Here are the best bits of her reaction:
Beneath a Moonless Sky:
“Ma’am, you literally f***** this man you need to stop fainting the moment he enters the room”
“She bang him with the mask on?”
“I know he’s got self-confidence issues but”
“Yeah if you don’t listen to the lyrics this is wonderful”
“This doesn’t make any sense”
*confused eyebrows*
[‘A woman and a man, no more and yet no less’] “What does that even mean?”
“It’s such a good song. If you listened to this in a foreign language it’d be beautiful.”
*incoherent wheezing*
“They’re both being so dramatic right now.”
“I still can’t believe this guy finally got the thing he’s been dreaming about for years and then he literally just LEFT?”
“He’s definitely just digging his thumb into her boob right now.”
“She’s really pretty though. They both are.” (and yes my friend is bi)
Devil Take the Hindmost:
[Erik pops up from behind the bar] *incoherent wheezing*
“Why the f-?”
“He’s definitely into, like, degrading people” (about the phantom)
“This man definitely acts like a dominant but he would probably fold” (again about the phantom)
“This is so gay- what?”
“There’s no need for them to be this close to each other.”
“They even fit the stereotype for gay couples with the tall dark one and the smaller blonde one… and their girl boss wife.”
[The phantom chokes Raoul] *snorts*
“He’s not even really trying to get out of this man’s grip right now” (about Raoul)
Beauty Underneath (as requested):
“It’s very dramatic”
“Why is he grabbing him like that?”
“Is this dude [Gustave] not like concerned at all that this guy…? I don’t know”
“This guy [Erik] just comes in and is like ‘look at all this strange sh*t’ and the kid is just like ‘cool!’”
[Demon skeleton horse thing appears] “Hello?”
“Who are these people?”
Friend: “Does he own a circus?” Me: “Yes?”
“That mirror thing is kinda resembling the torture chamber, no?”
“What is the finger-?” *sound of disgust* “No not the fingernails”
“At least this is a healthier outlet than torturing people.”
“Did [Erik] dress his son up in this little suit or is the kid already as extra as his dad?”
“It’s a mermaid! Not in water. Probably dying.”
[Gustave screams upon seeing Erik’s face] “It was a good scream- it was a little rude, but uh. This dude [Gustave] seriously went around like ‘oh yeah I like all this scary sh*t’ then screams in his face… like???”
Til I Hear You Sing:
“So dramatic”
“Sad boi”
“Does he have a portrait of her?” *wheezing*“She looks like Mary- this looks like a religious posing. Did he paint this?”
“He’s like a dramatic golden retriever boy that also has a lot of trauma.”
[Excellent note by Ben Lewis] “Ooh that was good”
“He’s a really good singer”
“He really is like so dramatic but this is all his doing, he literally could’ve had a happily ever after with this woman but he was like ‘oh I’m so ashamed I slept with her’”
[ID: a drawing of oluwande from our flag means death, shown from the chest up. the drawing is focusing mostly on his face. he is looking off to the side, frowning. his hands are held near his chest. there is a soft golden light shining on him. End ID.] ID credit: @jesus-iscariot
This is a new ask/rp blog for the bmp2 guys. I noticed that there aren’t that many blogs dedicated and thought they needed a little love. Please feel free to ask the princes any questions your heart desires. Spread the word around! They love interacting with you guys.
Okay, so firstly I can not believe 200 people have followed me in such a short period of time so I want to thank you guys soooooo much, you mean the world to me and I can believe how welcoming this community has truly been. I decided to do my first give away (the first of many) to show my appreciation and give something back <3.
Rules: 1. You must be following me 2. Reblog this post (likes don’t count - you can reblog as much as you wish just don´t spam your followers) 3. The deadline will be December 1st 4. You MUST have your ask box open for me to send one saying you won. 5. You have 48 hours to respond to my ask.
1st prize is a full length AMV with game/ characters/ anime and music of your choice. CGs and music must be downloadable. You are allowed to use multiple characters, games, and animes just don´t go too crazy. A few examples of my AMVs can be seen below
2nd prize is a head cannon & aesthetic of a character or game of you choice or a headcanon and wallpaper. The headcanon will include gifs and can be of any game or character and be any type including NSFW.
3rd prize is either an aesthetic or wallpaper of your favorite guy, game, or anime. It´s your choice.
