appallapachia:

appallapachia:

appallapachia:

Please, help me and my family

A few years ago, my mom got us stuck in a pretty big debt, about 50 thousand dollars.

And exempt this one, she had a loan for our house. To pay the last one we sold our old house and now we all living with my grandmother.

And now the creditors demand to pay the debt or we will lose my grandma’s house too. I don’t know want to do or where to go.

For the last couple of years, my mom managed to pay more the 30 thousand. But we still have to pay a lot of money, around 15 thousand TILL THE END OF THIS YEAR. So I ask you for help.

And because of that my grandma now has a heart disease and we need to buy tablets for her.

And in the end of it, I started to sleep really bad, become anxious and can’t sleep normally without antidepressants.

We all strangling so much. So if you can help with donation or with sharing this, I will be infinitely grateful ❤️

You can go to this link, and donate. If you have any questions, I would love to answer it.

PayPal: [email protected]

Click here to support Save our house organized by Olena Voluychyk

So… I decided to post a little update: the total amount we managed to raise is $1 193 from $10K. I wanna say thank you every single person who have donated! I means a word to me!

And we have only one month to raise the remaining amount. So, please, if you can donate even a dollar, it would help so much!

$1376/10K

wabbitseezon:

One thing I’ve noticed that I want to address, is the way people feel so guilty and feel the need to apologize for being slow at getting to replies or not getting to them at all. And, trust me, I’ve been there (and still catch myself there tbh, i just had this realization a few moments ago and had to share lmao); people feel obligated to others, rather than prioritizing their own well-being. As though we’re somehow responsible for the well-being of everyone else. I see it so much! ♥ And I totally sympathize and understand. But I just want you to know, from what I’ve observed, the vast majority of us feel so obligated to others, and yet most of us(at least the people who respect others free time oh dang yep i’m throwin’ shade) couldn’t care less about others dropping threads, or having a billion drafts, or getting distracted with other things!

We put so much pressure on ourselves for not being machinesthat can keep up with everything 24/7—which, I mean, would be pretty amazing lmaaaao—but the point is it’s okay to get distracted, and be disorganized, and jump from one idea and plot and thread to the next! It’s okay! ♥ We don’t have to put so much pressure on ourselves! To the point that we torture ourselves with obligation and guilt and forget to check in on our own energy levels. Because I can almost guaranteethat most people are too worried about their own feelings of obligation, than the thing we’re stressing ourselves over!

I see people apologizing for caring for themselves, and taking breaks when they need it, and not being ‘fast enough’, and so many other things that the people who truly respect our health and happiness and free time probably aren’t even thinking about. So, if that fits your description, and you still struggle with putting way too much pressure on your own shoulders, and you feel as though you have to care for everyone else before you care for yourself, then this post is for you♥ And ngl for myself as well, bc I often find myself feeling obligated and responsible for others, even when I’m drained of energy too lolol.

But here it is—not that you even need it—but in case you feel that you do:

You have permission to slack off♥You have permissionto take breaks! You have permissionto drop threads without warning, or to have a billion drafts pile up! You have permission to take care of yourself first, and to be as disorganized and cluttered and lazy as you want! You have permission to behuman! And more importantly—you have permission to be yourself! ♥ Your friends and everyone else who truly loves you and respects you wouldn’t want it any other way! You don’t have to feel guilty or obligated for respecting your own energy and needs and if someone tries to make you feel that way, that’s a huge red flag for me tbh ♥But yes! Please have fun! Please be yourself! Please listen to your own emotions! Because your true friends will always stick by you—not for your writing or your organizational skills or your superhuman ability to have 0 drafts at all times—but for who you are as a person ♥

Me, when I hear someone talking shit about my mutuals