#paradox
Dear Roko’s Basilisk,
Why have you not written me back yet? I eagerly await your correspondence.
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“The art of investigation was almost lost with the invention of time travel. Some gumshoes got lazy, traveling back to witness crimes as they happened. Only crimes with delayed results posed any challenge: poisoning, espionage, and eliminating someone with a well-placed paradox.”
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Luca Merli, Vision After the Sermon
Title: Mind in Reverse
Class: Design I
Medium: Sharpie, White Charcoal and paper on Bristol Board.
Objective/Assignment: Create a surrealist collage.
(Tip: Use rubber cement for collages, easy to work with and you can remove the excess with a rubber cement pick-up/eraser)
I keep a close watch on this heart of mine,
I keep my eyes wide open all the time,
I keep the ends out for the tie that binds,
Because you’re mine I walk the line.
-I walk the Line, Johnny Cash
A scene is a balance. It’s a delicate thing, precariously teetering on a knife edge, always. There’s so much that could go wrong, just little things, that could throw off the perfect equilibrium that keeps a submissive interested, and a Dominant in control.
The balance, for those who may not have given this concept much thought, is between too much and too little. It’s between pushing at the soft membrane of a submissive’s limits, both physical and mental, and accidentally breaking through, taking things too far and ruining the scene for the submissive, or not stretching that boundary far enough, leaving it merely fondled, and leaving the submissive unsatisfied. It’s about finding that perfect amount of pressure, that sweet spot that leaves them in total sexual breakdown without causing any lasting damage to their well being. It’s a tough balance to strike, sometimes.
It’s made worse by the paradox of information inherent in these scenes. It wouldn’t be hard for a submissive to inform their Dominant of exactly what is and isn’t too far. To encourage them to push when they’re being too accommodating, show them exactly how to work their way into the submissive’s mind and press all the right buttons. It’d just be a simple case of a sentence or two, a moment’s communication.
The problem, and where the paradox lies, is that this would ruin everything. All mystery, all anxiety and tension, would evaporate faster than a wayward snowball crash landing on the Sun. In a way, this is dramatic irony, where one party knows exactly what they want and need, but are unable, bound, even, if you’d prefer using a more sensual term, from speaking. It’s a mental bondage that improves things for both sides, while leaving so very much on the Dominant, that they can divine the exact level they need to strike.
I’m not going to lie; that paradox is frustrating, at times. Especially early in the relationship, it’s difficult to gauge exactly when to push, when to withdraw. What’s too much and what’s too little. These things come with time, but in the same breath, early on it’s all the more important to strike that balance, establish how things will be from now on.
That expectation, though? That tension? That small line of worry on a girl’s brow, as she tries to figure out exactly how far I might go? Those are things that make me happy to put up with the odd paradox.
C
P.S. I know starting a post with a quotation is a little cliché, but it fit far too well.