#paraphilia
ppl need to understand that the pro-para community does not condone harassment, violence, or abuse.
i am extremely against putting harmful paraphilias into action that leads to putting others in danger. nothing i support will ever change that, i want nothing more than for people to be safe.
with that being said, i also want people to be safely themselves. no one, no matter how different, deserves harassment, violence, abuse, or any harm that can put them in danger.
as long as you are genuinely yourself and you dont put anyone at risk of danger, you do not deserve any horrors the world thrusts upon you. be understanding of others, do not wish ill will upon those you dont yet understand.
being pro-para isnt about being pro-harm, its about being understanding of those who are plagued with thoughts of harmful paraphilias.
they know what the morals and ethics of this reality are. being abused and stigmatized for having intrusive thoughts leads to the harm of others that you fear. they will believe theyre bad people, and bad people act on their harmful paraphilias. they cant find the right help and support to work through these thoughts if everyone keeps harassing them. please educate yourselves first before attacking for things society deems as “weird” or “strange” or “different”.
this isnt the only community that is “weird/strange/different” to society, witchcraft and paganism is too, so is the lgbt+, and alterhuman, and plural, and furry, and neurodiverse communities. we should be helping each other and learning about each others differences. we’re all freaks to what is “normal” in society, but none of us want to spread harm. we only want to be recognized and supported. so please, open your heart to learning about others before you hurt them, all of us together just want to be okay.
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Relatable to every introspective boy growing up…. knowing just how hard it was having to pretend that men weren’t sexy
Like every crossdressing schoolboy, I was adamant that my dressing in no way meant I was gay. Also like every crossdressing schoolboy, everything I so desperately wanted to believe about my sexuality, changed when I went through puberty….
“But mum! It is bad enough that I already look like a girl with this stupid long hair! But if I go into school in a skirt, my friends will really think that I actually like it, that I am actually a sissy and want to be one of the girls!…. My life will be over!”
“Stop being so dramatic son! And what did I just tell you… you can’t wear your boxers under that skirt, it’ll ruin it’s shape! Put on your sister’s knickers.”
The photography of champagne facials that so strongly evoke such a relatable insatiable yearning for males and their masculinity…..
Me: “My hair is just a bit on the long side… it isn’t like I’m going to become a sissy or anything!”
Me a year later:
As a boy that happened to grow up almost entirely around girls, I would come to unsettled and confused by the faghag sentiments I often heard around me and provocatively said to me. Perhaps the most unsettling of it all, was how a part the girls desire for all boys (including myself) to be homosexual, was just how undeniably exciting it was….. and even that was frighteningly compounded with just how delighted the girls would have been if they knew I felt that way…
paraphilian. sexual perversion
“If I have to follow you up the stairs one more time, Lola, you’ll be bringing on my paraphilia. Again.”
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For the last hour of @kinkfest all tawses are $10 off. That includes everything from stitched handles to XL 4 tongue. Help me lighten my luggage!
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Day 2 of @kinkfest and the matched pairs are on the table.
If you’ve asked about matching cocobolo floggers, this is your chance.
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Small batches are the only way to maintain my standards for quality and constant improvement. Get ‘em while they’re hot. I don’t suspect this batch will survive @kinkfest weekend.
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Ha.
#paraphilia (at Los Angeles, California)
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The last few seconds of polishing and now we get to see the results of our work. Excuse the lack of a tripod.
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Halfway through the polishing process. The reflection while in motion tells me a lot about what the material needs to shine.
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Getting some sun.
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Like it’s dipped in honey.
My job title should be “polisher”.
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Don’t be afraid to modify your tools to suit your needs. Always seek improvement.
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#VIP clients help me to keep innovating and improving my offerings. Those improvements and adjustments then get applied to my standard items. Everyone deserves quality gear that feels good to use.
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Lunch in Silverlake.
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Which do you want? D-ring or trigger clip? 3 of each available. DM to purchase. First come first served.
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I need a rope apprentice. Demand is beginning to outpace capacity. Many hands make light work and my hands would appreciate the help.
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The best way to practice old techniques is to make something new.
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My first DomCon was a turning point for @paraphiliatoys. I spoke with professionals and they told me what they wanted but could not find in gear. The next year I came back with products built for the most serious players I’ve ever met and nearly sold out.
See you soon.
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Get it right, do it again, do it better. Repeat.
Even your simplest and least important knots deserve your care and attention.
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Not joking in the slightest. A respirator with good filters costs less than a copay.
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