#values
I try not to post politics here, but I can’t resist this one.
If you’re not actively influencing your child someone else is.
I remember one time I was in a trad relationships group and a lot of people complaining about finding someone. So I made a post asking how those who were married found their spouse.
The overwhelming answer was they started as FWB or a hookup from places like Tinder.
So I guess I’m not the only one who has been going about finding his future wife all wrong.
This one’s for the boys. You know who you are!
I’ve noticed there’s been a lot more toxic postings in the trad community and it needs to be addressed. There’s a lot of trolls and troublemakers who are specifically attempting to make a trad relationship look wrong and vile. Or attempt to insert various things that are innately mutually exclusive of a trad relationship, such as poly or trans, and subvert the community by forcing inclusion. And there’s many who are bringing up the classics: How trad is racist, abusive, etc.
Ignore them. Ideally block them. Many are from Twitter, which is well known to be pointlessly hateful. You don’t have to deal with them and there’s nothing wrong with wanting and having a trad relationship. You can expect this sort of hate from liberals a lot, but don’t be surprised as you see conservatives who also consider family to be less than important.
Also you’re not alone. Several people I talk to regularly on here have seen the same. Don’t feel like you’re an isolated case. That’s part of the tactic, to make you feel like you’re by yourself, but you’re not. So don’t let them get you down.
Birth Family
- Natural relationship with the family of birth
- The family simply acted like a family unit as expected
- The experience with the family is likely pleasant and easy going
- Solid and stable sums up the experience with the birth family
- (can be modified by other planets, influences on 2nd House)
Early Childhood Teachings
- Traditionally down to earth values we’re expressed
- Educated on how to survive the real worlds
- Taught value of patience and endurance to find success
- Trained about money and finances
- Instructed in the world of materialism, sensualities and comfort
Value System
- Down to earth value systems
- Values stability, routine, and dependability
- Security, finances and ownership are very important
- Values work hard and being productive
- Sensualities and art are of high significance
Gained Assets
- Realizes the importance money plays in life
- Achieving financial security is paramount
- Works hard productively to build financial resources
- Exercises persistence and patience in building assets
- Main reason to make money is to support the family unit
- Intuitive with business and knowing how to make a buck
- Uses money made and reinvests it to build a business
- Pushes to make money to support materialistic desires
- Finds stability and feels solid having routine income
- Possibly settles for complacent situations to make money
- Can be overly greedy and work to exhaustion to bolster resources
Spent Assets
- Spends resources on survival means (food, expenses, etc)
- Money can be spent to take care of family
- Strong sense of the value of what to spend money on
- Enjoys owning possessions that have lasting value
- Money is spent toward material and sensual pleasures
- Prone to collecting items just for their future financial worth
- Can have issues spending money just for sake of spending
- Resources can be spent selfishly on own needs and values
Possessions
- Simply feels pleasure owning things
- Owning things satisfies materialistic desires
- Very patient and enduring to get things that are wanted
- Love to own things for the comfort they bring
- Wish to possess things for the sensual enjoyment value
- Prone to spend lots of financial resources on luxuries
- Capable of owning a solid collection of things over years
- Building collections of sensual things like clothes, arts
- Owns practical things for day to day living like food, real estate, etc.
Speech
- Easy going speaking style, pleasant voice
- Laid back and comfort style with words
- Sensual and artistic voice
- Romantic tones in the speaking style
- Patient and waits for the right time to assert speech
- “Frugal style of speech” lacking wordiness
What Goes into the Mouth
- Eats to survive and loves eating for pleasure
- Slow eater, loves indulging every bite
- Sensual foods that taste good are preferred
- Eats healthy and things from the earth (grown)
- Enjoys predictable foods, may resist different things
- Picky and stubborn, probably turns down new foods
Birth Family
- Inspiring toward members of the birth family
- Maintain a gain sense of independence away from family
- Could be insensitive and lack patience with birth family
- Competitive and wanting to win against birth family members
- Arguments and disagreements with the members
Early Childhood Teachings
- Taught the importance of being independent and self sufficient growing up
- Living life by passions was embedded in early life
- Informed to always be incisive, go with your impulse, and take action
- Trained to be relentless in life and always go get what you want
- Expressing was encouraged by the family environment
- Narrow minded teachings have been a key theme in the early life
Value System
- Always fight for what you believe in
- Want to be aggressive, compete and win
- Go with impulses and what inspires in the heat of the moment
- Work towards being enterprising and pioneering
Gained Assets
- Ambitious and Self Motivated in Pursuit of making money
- Achieving financial independence is very important
- Very competitive and passionate with making money and wants to be number 1
- Takes the lead being assertive in trying to make money
- Pursues pioneering efforts and shows courage by creating a business
- React quickly to situations where turning a quick dollar is possible
- Show impatience with making money
- Could take foolish risks and crash and burn in financial opportunities
- Show resilience to get
Spent Assets
- Inspired very easy to spend income on things
- Self motivated and spends on things of passionate interest
- Ambitious and Competitive with spending money
- Tendency to be impulsive and careless with spending habits
- Trouble saving money due to reckless spending habits
- Gets into “financial accidents”
- Occurs financial debts, bounces back accounts
- Narrow Minded and selfish in spending habits
- Arguments and fights pertaining to how money is spent
Possessions
- Pursue owning anything that is of self interest
- Loves the chase and passionate thrill of ownership
- own items that are extremally ambitious to attain like rare items
- Competes with others over possessions, perhaps having to copy and own what they do
- owns things are related to the nature of ruling planet Mars
- May like to own things that are of a military nature like guns, swords, knives,
- war movies, books
- Can own items related to sports like sporting equipment or sports memorabilia
Speech
- Expressive and passionate speech
- Inspires others through speech
- A majority of speech can be influential, trying to help
- Self Motivated speaker, speaks only when feels right
- Competes through speech. Turns into debate.
- Argumentative and possibly angry tone
- Speech may be relentless
- Possibly say things impulsively without thinking
- Foolish or reckless with speech, Possibly lie or overexaggerate
What Goes into the Mouth
- Passionate about eating
- Courageous and will try anything almost once
- Aggressive eater. Probably finishes portions fast.
- Eats first at the dinner table. May not wait for others.
- Prefers hot and fiery types of foods
- Eats on an impulse with no questions asked
- Fan of Competitive eating
