End of the Year Reflection/Saying Goodbye To Sugar Dating
I meant to post this before the year ended but dating in med school has been incredibly demanding! I had a fling with a millie (one day I will meet my billie). I actually had to retake my block 2 exam because I was so wrapped up in the money I’ll record a podcast episode about it soon but for now here’s my reflection on last year and what I’m looking forward to in the future!
When I started this blog I was a newbie in the bowl. Had no idea what sugaring really took. Didn’t even realize the difficulties I would face as a brown sugar baby. Thought it would be so easy… I’m so grateful for all the experiences good and bad because they are part of my story. This year I really wanted to take my experiences to the next level. I was able to purchase an investment property with my sugar sis, start med school, elevate my business, had a wonderful sugar daddy, start healing from past traumas & forgive myselffor staying in an abusive relationships for so long (still very much a work in progress). I love counting my blessings because it reminds me of how far I’ve come and excites me about what has yet to come.
I love sharing my experiences and connecting with so many people who enjoy the same lifestyle and mental frequency. That being said, I’m saying goodbye to sugaring. I feel I’m at a point in my life where I am ready for the next chapter. Sugaring has been so helpful in getting me where I need to be but it’s time to transition. I talk about hypergamy often, and it just seems like a more appropriate setting for me now. My experiences in the sugar bowl have really taught me a lot about men and the dynamics between men + women.
I have a few upcoming trips planned where I will have the opportunity to be around affluent people with millions/billions of dollars. I’ll still continue to document my journey because I’m sure it’ll be a wild ride. If you’re interested in hearing more about my decision and the reasons behind it, check put my podcast! The season finale episode is up now.
Unfortunately I have to change the set up of my episodes. The sugar/hypergamy related episodes will be available on my public platform until the start of season 2, and then I will be moving them to a private podcast space. It will still be on Brown Sugar Doc, The Podcast but limited access. This decision was made after a few classmates bombarded me at a party about a sugar date I went on. It was very bizarre but a necessary lesson learned. So to protect my sanity I’ll be continuing to document all things hypergamy related on my private podcast. I’ll still post on my regular pod but for the hypergamy listeners, I’ll continue the journey exclusively for us.
I love everyone who has joined me at any point on this journey. More to come!
In this episode we’ll discuss the bookSugar Baby Hypnosis by George Hutton. It takes a look into some mental hypnosis and mind control techniques. We’ll analyze one of the most interesting and mysterious organs: the brain!
We’ll also take a look at the role business and economics play in modern day relationships. Whether you are single and trying to find creative ways to influence people to do your bidding or you are in a relationship and can’t seem to get your guy to listen and do the things you want, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode!
Using the art and science of language to get what you want
Dr. Milton Erickson’s subconscious mind model
Economics, trade, and cost in relationships
Desires of men and women differ
Using the law of scarcity and fear of abandonment to hook your target
Get anybody to do anything with Carnegie’s Golden Rule
Business minded decisions in relationships
How the human brain works in piecing memories together
Embedded commands and right handed gestures
If you enjoy the episode and want to read the book for yourself, you can get a free copy from the ebook library on my website. Sign up as a subscriber (free membership tier)
Whether you’re sugar dating or vanilla dating, manipulation tactics are often used by both parties. This week’s episode takes a look into some of the most common manipulation tactics men use in the dating game.From personal experiences, accounts of other women, and even the men themselves I’ve compiled a list of the top male manipulation tactics. See if you can spot any of these tactics that may have been used on you in the past or that you’ve seen happen:
Texting endlessly with no real plans to meet
Asking for pics
Trying to get you to pick something cheap on the menu
Buying nice things to throw it in your face during an argument
Lovebombing
Lowering your expectations
“Leaving” without any real intention to leave
Backhanded compliments
P.S. I’ve just launched a few Self Development Courses (1 free course for Insiders and 7-day free trial for Subscribers before I make it available to the public for purchase!). If interested register on my website hereorshoot me an email and you will receive info about the course description, layout, and registration:
Med school has been trying to end your girl’s life. I’ve been so busy with so much on my plate but I HAD to record an episode this week. I’ve been really missing all the Tumblr fun and this lifestyle. I’ll also be trying to catch up on the asks this week.
This week’s episode focuses on wealth creation:
Different methods and testimonials to help you take charge of your finances and life goals
Balancing many different aspects of life can get overwhelming, especially when you factor in sugar dating. In this episode we’ll put together a list that can make it easier to balance and enjoy every aspect of your life.
Top Luxury Inspiring Accounts You Need On Your Feed!
On this episode of The Top List, we’re going to go through my list of top 10 Luxury Inspiring Accounts to Follow for the level up journey. This week we have supporting visuals, so be sure to check out the video that accompanies today’s episode.
So what happens when you’re getting a steady allowance and you want to take your sugar money to try and advance yourself in life? Society hates SWers and women who use their body, looks, personality to make money so be prepared for that. I’m in the process of trying to purchase property and have hit some roadblocks with my lender.
Finding out that my whore moneyisn’t good enough to get me approved for a mortgage Now I have to push back my timeline for buying a home while I “make legit money” is probably one of the most frustrating things to happen to me lately. I’m just fortunate enough to have parents that support me and will help legitimize my money. Do y’all want me to document this homebuying process? I feel like this may be a common problem SBs and other SWers may face when trying to get loans, mortgages, etc.
The allowance and/or camming money can be saved and used for down payments but you’ll still need a “legit” job with a steady paycheck coming in every month to get a bank approval. After talking with my lender, I learned that even having a steady income from camming isn’t good enough to get a mortgage approval unless you’ve been doing it for a year and even still it’s considered freelance money so lenders are less likely to feel comfortable approving you for a loan So my suggestion is have a “normal” job in addition to SW money always.
If it’s hourly you’ll need to have the job for 1 year.
If it’s salaried then at least 6 months.
I used to have a legit job with a boss I hated but when covid hit I took the opportunity to leave and channel my inner whore to make money at my leisure which was so great and easy for me to balance school with.
It’s so frustrating that in 2021 women can’t do what the fuck they want or have to explain why they’re doing what they want with their own life and body. The upside to all this is that I’ll have a lot more money saved for a bigger down payment and better mortgage loan rates when it comes time to fill the application. Trying to stay the course and keep positive while the Universe works her magick in my life.
I put together a guided meditation for this bonus episode, as requested. Guided meditations are a great way to keep up with our wellness goals. Healthy mind = success at securing more bags. Look within to reap the benefits of what’s around you
We’ll also talk about common feelings that can manifest due to the highs/lows of life and how to adjust to them.
Sugaring, classes, work, and just life in general can get exhausting. Mental health is critical for manifesting and creating a life you love living. Join me while we go through some self care and wellness strategies:
Affirmations
Mindfulness activities
How to create and incorporate a self-care routine
Pro tip: subscribe to luxury magazines for more visual vibe enhancement. My favorites are Veranada, House Beautiful, AD (Architectural Digest), and Elle Decor
[still willing to purchase pictures ladies, contact me on kik @ girlsbackdoor]
I guess this is it, soon all adult content will be removed or flagged. It was a great run and amassed close to 50,000 followers.
without you all I couldn’t provide great content. from other content sharers as well, thank you.
If anyone can suggest another website or something maybe we can continue sharing content or buying photos, I’m gonna miss all the girls on here too. let me know if anyone wants to stay in contact. I also have kik @ girlsbackdoor
It you’re looking for; a new daddy, dudes with money or just more followers feel free to drop a message and ask to be featured or maybe even send a submission if you feel brave. I am here to put you in the spotlight and have you loved and worshipped ❤
