#characters of color
sunshineandsuperheroes said: Do you have (or know of) any information on black kids’ experiences with being adopted or fostered by white families, or any advice on writing that sort of situation? Thank you. :)
Anonymous asked:I have a female POC (ethnicity undecided yet) but she was adopted by a white couple. Is there anything I should be watching out for?
I’d say that if you’re trying to portray a well-rounded household/relationship between the Black children and the White parents, the parents should be conscious of the struggles that come with being Black (e.g. treatment of Black people by police, the types of micro aggression and discrimination faced, etc), or will at least do their damned best to learn. However, it’s almost inevitable depending on where they live, they or their child will have experiences that won’t allow them to ignore racism. This goes for white x any other child of color, though public treatment and struggles can vary.
If they’re young, or in general really, they should learn how to do their children’s hair and make the effort to keep the right kind of products in the house (e.g. generic shampoo won’t do it for Black hair).
There’s a potential for a strong disconnect ifthe parents are firm on not seeing the issues their children face and have a colorblind dichotomy so that’s the strongest thing I’d urge against. If the Black child has a problem or faced some racism or were perhaps even questioned for having white parents and confronted for that, the parents should not dismiss their experience or feelings or tell them to just ignore it. It should be discussed and comfort and assurance provided if the situation’s right.~Mod Colette
Please do not take my word as an end all, be all to your question and I encourage you to do some research on your own.
White parents adopting black children will often have the issue of getting their children to learn this history of their people and some white parents don’t think it’s their responsibility at all.
There is always the concern of assimilating their kid due to ignorance or being unwilling to see that cultural identity is essential to the child’s upbringing.
I had a friend in high school who was black and was adopted by a white couple. She didn’t fit in with the black kids or the white kids. She had natural hair because her parents knew nothing about processing her hair. Her parents discouraged her from finding out about her biological mother and she had to connect to her culture on her own, sometimes overcompensating.
You also have to avoid the white savior trope. Don’t forget that white people already have a general disconnect and lack of empathy towards black people (proven by the fact that majority of unwanted foster children are black and will remain there until their adulthood), so their adoption does not make them exempt from being racist or incapable of fucking up in regards to their black child.
~ Mod Brei
Adoptee PoC followers with White parents, anything you’d like to add or a PoC profile to share?
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Hey.
So it’s been confirmed that Tatum Mendoza is Filipino.
You know what that means?
Time to get your face claims fucking right.
I’m tired of this fandom’s bullshit of whitewashing API LIs (and characters of color in general).
You want a way to help support the API community?
You can start by acknowledging the ethnicities of these damn pixels y'all are thirsting over.
Btw.
Bryce Lahela is not white so fix your fucking face claims for him too.
you know… with this rise in interest in east asian culture and “aesthetics” over the past couple of years also comes with a rise in asian cultural appropriation… so for every nonasian out there who would consider themselves a fan of cutesy asian things or stuff like kpop or anime, you guys have an obligation to people of the culture you’re enjoying to be informed and educated about their struggles. it’s not right to love and consume cultures that’s not your own while ignoring the people who are part of them. read up on appropriation, the fetishisation and infantilisation of east asian women and desexualisation of asian men, whitewashing in media, xenophobia, the erasure of our achievements and the model minority myth. you owe it to us east asians to be educated on topics that concern us if you’re going to continue to consume media and content we make.
EDIT: if you’re nonasian please reblog this so that other nonasians can see it!!
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