#fiance
“Anything?” You asked.
“Anything bro.. I hope you are being serious and don’t fuck me around tho!”
You swallowed hard.. But you already made up your mind.. You knew there would be no turning back..
“..let me watch when you fuck her.. And make it a regular thing..”
Your best friend looked dumbfounded at first, but you can see a smile starts to form..
“Damn bro.. Didn’t know ur a fucking cuckold.. That works for me! I’ll cum in her pussy too if u want.. So u can lick it clean after!”
..this now happens every couple of days and you couldn’t be happier..
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My vintage engagement ring great great grandmas ring ❤️ I’m so lucky #excited #engaged #fiance #should have painted my fingernails #noragrets
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The night I got engaged, someone asked a question about my fiancé - I don’t remember the question, nor do I remember my response, but I remember feeling shocked. Logically, I knew he was now my fiancé, not just my boyfriend, but it had come so quickly within the timing of the proposal that I hadn’t had time to transition over to our new titles. Thankfully, I don’t think I’ve been referred to as his fiancée yet… though he has now been introduced as “my fiancé” which is still just as strange. I remember it also took some time for me to say boyfriend. I often just said “we’re dating” but would introduce him by name, without the “title”.
Yet society is all about the label. Facebook and other social media sites encourage us to DTR or “define the relationship” using commonly accepted terms. We didn’t make it “facebook official” until almost a year and a half later (over some interesting circumstances*). We still haven’t made our engagement “facebook official” because I personally think it’s a rather poor way of announcing things. But it becomes a thing that we “have to know.” Even though there are those couples who break up for an hour before getting back together. That somehow becomes something that “we” have demanded to make rather public knowledge. I’m not sure why. Why is this more important than our dreams or goals in life? Why is it more important than what we mean when we say love? Why are there no boxes or announcements or statuses about that?
What I find strangest about the use of certain nomenclature is that it is often not about the couple or the relationship - it is about their community. The thing that made me the happiest about being engaged was NOT “being engaged” - it really didn’t change our relationship that much in terms of how we interacted with each other. Certainly the decision upped the commitment for both of us, and was an illustration/action demonstrating such but we haven’t actually behaved much more differently with each other. But I was thrilled that now it would be acceptable to others the degree to which we spent time together. Indeed, my other friend, who got engaged before us said something similar: that she felt freer to take time to just hang out as the two of them once they got engaged, that people would understand.
While extreme “intimacy” often acts as an indicator that engagement is coming, it is also often frowned upon outside of engagement/marriage (and occasionally within). Men might be asked if they’re “whipped” while women may be cautioned not to give too much too soon. Ironically, in romantic movies, the same level of intimacy often is the precursor to (and cause of) the relationship, while to the main female protagonist, it is seen as indicator/proof for the validity of the relationship: he’s so sweet, this has to be the one!
I can understand that relationship labels can be helpful for couples to be on the same page about where they stand with each other, as well as acting as reassurance to parents who are worried about their children’s degree of investment. However, I also feel like the existing vocabulary fails to capture what relationships can look like and distort people’s perceptions of the progression of romance by their categorization. Serious dating and engagement are closer than engagement and marriage, which are again closer than the first years of marriage and the later years of marriage. Someone can transition from friend to best friend to fiancé just as easily as a lover might become a boyfriend/girlfriend to fiancé to friend.
Maybe it’s just because I don’t hear the term very often, but calling someone my fiancé formalizes and codifies something I feel like is more organic than a stepladder. But I do it anyway.
I love him so much ❤️ #fiance #walks #beach #santabarbara #views #California #lovehim #cutie (at Santa Barbara, California)
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What a cute surprise, thank you @benjamincharlescarr #hesakeeper #fiance #surprise #thesmallthings #finallyinourgarden #wine #smokedsalmonalways #pinneysoforford
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#throwbackthursday to #infinitywar screening and being a nerd with my feyoncé & friends. #fiance #engaged #vicannah #vicannahforever #wakandaforever #blackpanther (at Price, Utah)
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Bro proposed while she was sleeping by putting it on Facebook!
“It’s 5:00AM for weeks now I been planning on how to pop the question…. you know all my moves and you are one very hard woman to surprise but the jokes on you because now you’re going to wake up with 3 surprises… a phone full of congratulations notifications and text, an engagement ring on your finger and a picture of you sleeping that you don’t want all over the internet SURPRISE!!! I’ll let y'all know the verdict when she wakes up.”
She said: “Yesssssss!” ♥️✨✨
Congratulations to Michael Mayorga and Jamilah Williams
#heproposed #heproposedtome #wonderwombman #blacklove #blackmarriage #fiance #marriage
https://www.instagram.com/p/CdAI0QUOTiT/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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Got our table number… sitting with George and #Oprah …!
#royalwedding #harryandmeghan #wedding #weddinghair #tattoos #weddingphotography #bridetobe #fiance #hairstylist #hairstyles #saturday
(at Four Seasons Hotel Westlake Village, California)
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#fbf When I took a #Birthday #Bathingsuit #Selfie because my @lhorizonpalmsprings room had amazing light and a magical mirror
#oldlady #birthdaygirl #hairstylist #fiance #fitness #fitmom #longlayers #brunette #healthylifestyle #poolside #bikini #palmsprings #fiftyshadesofgrey (at The Horizon Hotel Palm Springs)
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These two are getting hitched… #2018
#couplegoals #lovers #boyfriend #fiance #husbandtobe #hairstylist #hair #haircut #brunette #hiking #yoga #fitnessmotivation #healthylifestyle #vegan #journey #life #love #transformation #goodthingshappentothosewhowait (at Paseo Miramar)
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The ⭐️of my show
#mcm #janetjackson #hollywoodbowl #fun #life #couplegoals #fiance #lovers #myman #hairstylist #redcarpet #guyswithtattoos #tattoos #facetattoo
(at Hollywood Bowl)
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Pics of my fiancée’s and my sags. I was wearing overalls folded over and my fiancee was in his jeans. So hot to watch
I know I’m not active on tumblr anymore, but I just wanted to say that I found the love of my life on here.
It was unexpected, but so perfect. When I think back to the night we connected on here, it feels like a dream. I’ve never been in a relationship as healthy as this one and it has made a difference in every aspect of my life.
hey, it’s been six years, ew, gross but like ilysm tho! — #happyanniversary #love #thebeau #myparamour #daddy #couples #fiance #couplesofinstagram #sixyears #666 #alternativefashion #alternativecouples #gothgirl #gothmakeup #alternativestyle #blackcraftcult #softgrunge #couplegoals #iloveyou #iloveyouforever
https://www.instagram.com/p/BrTZg4Igaod/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=o941kdyki3ei
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The #Loish artbook and big box of Sharpies I got from #Steph while in #London was meant to trigger my old habbits of doodling…hey, it worked!
#Doodles #littleredridinghood #Sharpies #Artbook #Sketch #Notebook #Colors #fum #Gifts #fiance #red
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When I jokingly say I can do better, this is the face I get. She right, though ♀️
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#icantdobetter #noway #sheright #mygirl #myfav #mylove #ily #wcw #wce #myfav #fav #fiance #wineforlife #wine #winedown #winewednesday #humpday #summer #loverher #loveislove #amoresamor #lovewhoyoulove #lovewhoever #pridemonth
https://www.instagram.com/p/BzMDaw1lsRy/?igshid=d5v951s36ggu
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The hero I don’t deserve, but the hero I need.
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#mysuperwomam #wcw #wce #myfav #fav #mygirl #fiance #mylove #casualhike #hiking #outdoors #nature #statepark #enchantedrock (at Enchanted Rock State Natural Area - Texas Parks and Wildlife)
https://www.instagram.com/p/ByoOmsUFYEQ/?igshid=13p40unxgyywd
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It’s not Wednesday but guess what…I crush on her evey day.
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#wce #myfav #fav #mygirl #fiance #bae #thirstythursday #thursday #raineystreet #barsonrainey #bars #austin #atx #texas (at Lustre Pearl)
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx01Ai3lax0/?igshid=edeicn0fzj7e
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