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So sorry ladies and gents! I know I have disappeared again out of the blue when I promised I was back for good. I must seem like the flakiest blogger of all time. I have had some pretty major road bumps in my life recently. I know it sucks for you guys, but life happens and occasionally I actually have to be the one to deal with it. Sucks, right?

So here’s the low down of my life over the last few months of my disappearance. A very dear friend of mine, lapsed into a coma of unknown origin for 5 weeks. We were all exceptionally concerned that he wouldn’t make it past these extreme hurdles. But against all odds, about a week before Christmas, he woke up. He still has a long recovery ahead which means I’m still not 100% back to the blogosphere since I will be trying to spend at least 1 day per week at the hospital with him.

After all this happened, I was informed that my grandmother was very ill, with cancer. I cut my hours down at work so I could be there more for her and my friend, we moved my grandmother into our home, and started caring for her full time. Unfortunately she took a severe downturn after Christmas. Last week we were forced to move her into Hospice care, and yesterday, she passed away while I was stuck at work. It’s a lot for myself and my family to process, so please be understanding about my absence.

All this being said, I am in need of a good distraction. So today and tomorrow you will likely notice a big boost in my question responses. If you have been waiting some time for your answer, I truly apologize. I hope you all had lovely holidays! Lots of love my darlings!

Hi fellas. You may recall that last year I introduced you to my friend, Listen to Lisa. Back then I told you I’d be doing a little interview with her so you could get to know her better. Many of you submitted questions and I finally got them to her and she’s responded. Let’s hear what she has to say about chastity, hypnosis and herself, shall we?

What’s your favorite food?

I love Thai food! But if I had to narrow my favorite food to one dish I’d have to say mashed potatoes and gravy. I make a killer chicken gravy.

If you could visit any place in the world for a week, where would you go?

Hands down… Disney World. Are these answers sexy enough yet? Haha. I could have made up some sexier foods and destinations, but I have to be 100% candid.

What drew you to hypnosis?

Even as a young lady I knew that I had a knack for utilizing the power of suggestion. Before I knew what to call it I was doing it. Using my words, my tone and my non-verbals to influence a favorable outcome came naturally to me. Before committing more time to this I worked in the mental health field for nearly a decade. I’m sure you can already imagine how many skills are easily transferable between the fields. Therapy techniques I’d been mastering for years only proved to make me even more potent when it came to mind control and covert suggestion. But most importantly I was drawn to hypnosis because it was and still is a major turn on for me. I often sit back and gush at the thought that somewhere in the world one of you are listening to me at this very moment. I envision the way you look when you cross the barrier between autonomy and mindless stroker. 

What is a Fuck Boy in Training (FBIT)?

A fuckboy is a man who is a play thing for me. It’s a term of endearment but also a term which I proudly admit is used to objectify. I know it’s very unpopular right now to suggest someone be objectified- primarily when it comes to women right? Well I’ve found that the type of men who flock to me have been waiting their entire lives for a woman to objectify them. They want to be of service, they want to be used, they yearn to be played with.

If you are my Fuckboy you’re in a very elite circle of men who have proven themselves worthy of my time, my attention and most importantly they’ve earned the privilege of helping me satisfy my own sexual needs. Now, a fuckboy in training is a newcomer who hasn’t yet earned their capital “F”. They are in training, they are being groomed, they are having to consistently prove themselves worthy. They are being put to use and bit by bit I’m teaching them how to please me. Only I will determine when a fuckboy in training (FBIT) has earned Fuckboy status. But earning that comes with incredible perks and most importantly real purpose. It’s fair to say that I have way more FBITs than I do Fuckboys at any given time. But training is most of the fun anyways don’t ya find?

Do you offer real-time hypnosis sessions over the phone or skype?

I do yes. I don’t do any cam work, but I do use Skype as my primary platform for messaging and for hypnochat. In fact, I find hypnochat is much more potent and enjoyable than live phone calls. If you’re not sure what hypnochat is, it’s essentially a tool I created to skillfully control and mindfuck the…participant. Using a messenger platform (preferably Skype messenger) I use a combination of text, audio clips and visuals to completely control you. I take you down deeper and deeper (Listen to Lisa) until I can easily manipulate your strings and turn you into my dutiful little puppet. Oh my did that trigger you random reader? Ahem, so yes hypnochat is by far my favorite medium.

Do you offer custom recordings? Are they hypnosis?

Yes I do offer custom recordings! Hypno is my speciality of course, but what exactly Hypno means depends on the person. That’s why I’m very methodical when it comes to asking the right questions before creating the content. There is no cookie cutter approach in my method, it’s all very personalized.

Do you offer real hypnosis?

I’m still trying to figure out what that means exactly. I’ve heard the term and have asked some of my FBITs (Fuck Boys in Training) what they mean by that and I’m still not clear. So, since I’m not really sure how to define it I’ll just say this: Those who walk away from one of my recordings or from an interaction find themselves affected deeply. Sometimes for hours, days WEEKS my words stick with them. I’m met daily with messages from my listeners who tell me they just can’t get me (or my triggers) out of their head.  I’ve noticed some hypnodommes spend an inordinate amount of time in the “Induction Phase” i.e.. “breathe deeply until the count of ten, you’re getting more and more relaxed, now your toes and relaxed, now your ankles are relaxed- and on and on. I find that repetitive and dull and only so effective. I like to get to the “meat” of the content so that the overall experience is much more interesting and potent.

Where can we hear a sample of your voice?

Check out my YouTube 

Do you use hypnosis for the purposes of chastity play? How long do you keep boys locked up?

I’ve used elements of chastity in my recordings and directly with my FBITs for quite some time i.e. restrictions on masturbation, denied orgasm/play, planting ideas and triggers which make it so the subject can’t cum unless I’ve unlocked him. Some of my very intense recordings have made it so that you actually physically feel the chastity device there, or are unable to touch because you literally can’t penetrate this mental forcefield I’ve created.

I’ll be honest that it’s only been more recently that I’ve become more knowledgeable of the world of chastity- thanks to Agni and this blog for sure! I do have a mental chastity recording for sale and am working on more as we speak. I also have many FBITs who engage in regular hypnochat that involves mental chastity. I’d say the longest I’ve kept someone locked was about 17 days.

What is your philosophy on male chastity?

Well, like I said, I’m still leaning more about this very exciting (for lack of a better term) kink. I’m not sure if I’m worthy yet of spouting my philosophy. What I will say is that chastity genuinely excites me. Some of my happiest FBITs have been denied release for quite some time.

My wife isn’t interested in chastity. Will you be my key holder?

I’m always open to discussing how my Hypno skills relating to mental chastity might work for you, but I don’t think I’ll be moving into a physical key holder position any time soon.

My wife is interested in chastity but cages don’t work for my body. Would you be willing to work with me toward hypnotic chastity such that my wife could control the “keys”?

Yes yes yes! I’m working with several people right now who have asked for the same thing.

What are your biggest turn-ons? Anything unique or quirky?

I’ve always had a fetish for male masturbation. I’ve always been really turned on by watching, listening or telling a guy how to jerk off for me. My Niteflirt profile goes into a lot more detail about that https://www.niteflirt.com/Listen_to_Lisa. I talk about this a lot too, but I’m aroused on a daily basis whenever I think about the fact that a complete stranger is listening to my voice at this very moment. That I have complete control over someone I’ve never met and don’t even know exist yet. I’ve offered an add on to my audio recordings for a while now that no one has jumped on yet. For an extra cost I allow you to send me a video of yourself listening to my recordings. I’d love to be a fly on the wall watching you Listen to Lisa. I hope someone bites soon because it would most definitely be some good masturbation material for myself!

Do you work with people outside of the US?

As long as they have a way to communicate and are able to utilize one of my various payment options, sure.

What’s the cruelest thing you’ve done to a sub?

This probably depends on what one thinks might be cruel. I’ve put out there since the very beginning that I am not the bitchy bratty sailor mouthed type Domme. I don’t get into yelling or degrading or intense humiliation. Now don’t get it twisted, when you’re on my time I have no problem setting the pace and tone and telling you exactly what is expected. That being said, a few things that come to mind are: forcing a FBIT to taste their precum/eat their cum, keeping a FBIT in chastity much longer than they anticipated. I’ve also turned many FBITs into clickboys- unable to stroke unless they are actively clicking (tributing).

What’s the nicest thing you’ve done for a sub?

Lisa takes care of her FBITs when they are deserving. A good fuckboy in training is deserving of pleasure. And I’m good at birthday presents for loyal FBITs.

I see you do findom? Do you always do findom or can someone opt out of that and just pay for other content?

I’m in no way a Findom specific Domme. That being said, using money or other Findom related tactics is just one of many tools in my belt. Again, I’m very proud of the effort I put into getting to know newcomers and therefore figuring out which buttons feel good when they’re pushed and which buttons are likely to make someone shut down/break trance. But let’s be honest here, money is power and giving up money is so closely related to giving up power. It’s not for everyone, but some come to enjoy engaging in that type of power play to some extent. I don’t kill the goose for the golden eggs. It’s not advantageous for me to be irresponsible with my skills and cause someone to hurt themselves financially. It’s a delicate balance but you’re in good hands with Lisa ;)

Do you have any fun stories about femdom, chastity or hypnosis you want to share?

Well a story that comes to mind is something that happened quite recently. I needed to rent a car and made some arrangements online to rent an economy model for the day. When I got to the Enterprise that day I was met by a very vulnerable young man at the counter. I can just sniff it out ya know? The moment I met him I knew he could be very easily manipulated. Long story short, I drove out in a 2018 Mustang convertible but only paid for my economy package. In the system I’d still paid for the rental, but he handed over those Mustang keys completely unaware that had been brainwashed. For all I know he didn’t even bat an eye when he saw me roll out in that $300 a day ride.

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Thank you Lisa!

How cool are these pillows!! I love bringing fashion into the home! My house is black & white theme so these throw pillows would be a great addition to my lounge! 

I have almost finished decorating my new home! Recently I have been collecting black & white shopping bags to frame as art on the walls! I started doing this when I was given a thoughtful gift from a friend I really admire. I was given a beautiful clutch that was so me, it was mean’t to be! I had never had someone be so generous, or picked a gift so well suited to me! I know it sounds very materialistic but the clutch represented more than a beautiful bag, it showed that this person knew & valued me. I felt really special. I had never been gifted something like this!  SO I decided to frame the paper shopping bag it came in! I found it inspirational, not only did I think it looked pretty cool -Im a huge fan of fashion art, but it represented a goal for me. I wanted to be more like the friend who gave me that bag. I wanted to be thoughtful, kind & generous like she is! I also wanted to work hard like she had so I would have the opportunity to one day give her & the people I love a gift they can cherish! 

On the note of giving, if you would like to give your bed or lounge room a face life you can find these pillows on etsy; http://www.etsy.com/shop/TheLindas?ref=seller_info

Here is a picture of the bag that started it all…

It’s always good to talk to a true friend

In fact, what everyone really needs is to

TALK

But sometimes people don’t listen to you

To be heard, what you really need is to

SHOUT