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“Worthless”

I do not like the concept of someone being “worthless” in the context of BDSM, it’s not something I have ever said to a sub and it’s not something I enjoy seeing. I’ll preface all of this by saying that I can understand hypothetically why that term could be appealing to people in a humiliation context, but it’s just not for me.

If you have ever so much as glanced at my blog, or even read the title, it shouldn’t be hard to see that I am very interested in humiliation. Some of my absolute favorite things to do in a D/s context are to piss on a sub and make her make out with my ass. In that context I may call a sub my urinal or ass licker, and it might be all I call her that whole day.

So you might ask if you are willing to piss on someone and call her a urinal, then why not worthless? Two reasons:

1) Whether you are dripping in piss or you have your head shoved up my ass, that doesn’t make you less of a person. I may make her do degrading things, but I never think less of her as a person because she is doing something I want her to do, if anything those are moments where I praise her, for doing things that are difficult to endure, because they please me. That’s absolutely worthwhile.

2) I think that any good humiliation has to be rooted in some level of truth. If I call someone a urinal for example, there’s truth to that title. It might be degrading to hear for her, but that’s because she knows there is truth to that and so do I when I say it. If I were to say someone was worthless, I wouldn’t believe that and wouldn’t want her to believe it either, which is not effective in creating the mindset I want.

I get on average 4-5 messages a month from random people on here where in their first message they describe themselves as worthless. I understand that they usually think they are demonstrating that they are interested in humiliation, but it’s not appealing to me. Quite the opposite, when I first get to know you I want to know all of the things that make you worthwhile, your skills, your talents, along with your faults and flaws, but when the first thing you tell me is that you are worthless, it makes me wonder than why I should take my time to respond to you. When I look for someone, I want someone who is going to add to my life, enrich it in various ways that I might choose and that I can do the same for her.

So while I fully support others using those types of phrases in their humiliation play and can understand the appeal, it’s not something for me. I don’t think people are worthless, I certainly don’t think being a submissive negatively affects your worth as a person and if I did think you were worthless I certainly wouldn’t have interest in speaking to that person let alone considering them as a partner and/or submissive.

I’ve been wanting to write something like this myself. Too many times I’m scrolling around to find posts written as so. The entire “You’re only good for…” bullshit. My blog is also very rich in humiliation. But I believe there are a growing number of people who are living in a fantasy world here on tumblr. They’d never be able to actually treat their subs as shitty as they claim in these fantasies.

Truth is, the actual beauty of a humiliation is the beauty of a female lowering herself and ALLOWING you to degrade and humiliate her. The biggest turn on for, for me anyway, is the sacrifice she gives for my pleasure. Licking my ass, choking on cock, kissing and licking feet, getting pissed on, being called names, etc… are all a major turn on. Why? Because first, she doesnt have to do it. Second, here’s a beautiful woman willing to look foolish for my pleasure. And finally, shes doing things I’m not willing to do myself.

Worthless? Bullshit! Women like this are beyond priceless! Rare and truly worthy. Appreciate the strength it takes to surrender and trust you.

Devotional Training: Allowing itself to be degraded for His pleasure is The essence of it.

aka the most overdue post on my blog. I have been struggling with getting a basic recipe and guide out because it’s such an important, useful, tool that can go overlooked and I want to get it right. I’ve decided to go ahead and publish the copy from the pages i’ve written on it since I’m 2 years late on my cookbook. I promise it’s coming! I have page layouts and everything - i’m sad i had to put it on pause so consider this a sneak peek and a very long post. hope you like it!

Disclaimer ⛔

The idea here is that the original recipe isn’t safe for consumption but those ingredients are what make it so effective. So it can be wise to have two different batches working. The classic which is toxic - for external work, and a modified recipe that can be ingested. Make sure you keep these properly marked and away from each other. 

Uses

As a seasoning in food
As a daily supplement 
Cleansing Baths
Floor Washes
Protection Work
Repelling negativity

History

The history behind Four Thieves is elusive- There’s a possible confusion of names. Richard Forthave, a man said to have allegedly concocted and sold the vinegar as a medicine. The name being transformed over time from Forthave’s to Four Thieves. Then there are the more classic tales of thieves ranging from four to four hundred, employing it as a pesticide and cologne during the plague. Regardless of it’s origins, it was highly effective. It’s prolific history has made it a staple in folklore and practices around the world to protect oneself from illness and malevolence.

One tradition I personally enjoy when crafting your own is adding a new personal ingredient to a batch. Your own contribution as a “thief” to the ever-growing folklore. Customize your vinegar to your own needs! For example, I add turmeric for it’s anti-inflammatory properties as well as it’s energetic and positive correspondences

Recipes

Thieves Vinegar #1 [edible Base recipe]

-Rosemary (protection)
-SageorSage Flowers (cleansing)
-Lavender Flowers (cleansing and calming)
-Garlic (Protection)
-Bruised Cloves (Protection)
-Strong Distilled Vinegar (Cleansing)

Method:
1. Sanitize and cleanse your tools with the method of your choice. Wash and dry your herbs.
2.Take the carving tool and in the head of garlic write your name and the names of the people in your home if you so wish. You can also make this for others, using their name. Think about all negativity and unwanted energy leaving the space as protection fills the area like the aroma of the garlic.
Place the entire head of garlic in your jar.
3.Take your cloves, and give them a smash with the flat side of a knife, or use a mortal and pestle to gently crush them while keeping them whole. You can also take any heavy object to them while they’re in a plastic bag/under parchment paper if these aren’t available to you.
Maintain the same thoughts of protection as the garlic while crushing and adding the cloves.
4.Add the rosemary, sage, and any other desired edible herbs with a clear mind, thinking of a clean protected space, having the utmost confidence in it.
5. Fill jar with vinegar knowing you’re surrounded by clean, positive, and sanitary energy.
6. Let the jar work either in the sun or in any cleansed space for a week to 3 months.
7. Shake occasionally.
8. Strain and store in sanitized glass container of your choice.

✨ Thieves Vinegar #2 [edible & ornamental]

- Rosemary sprig(cleansing, purifying, healing, protection)
- 3 dried Red Chili Peppers(banishment, protection, warding)
- 5 cloves ofGarlic (protection, healing, warding)
- 11Peppercorns (banishment, protection, warding)
- Strong Distilled Vinegar (protection, cleansing, banishment)

Method:
1.Fill jar or bottle with ingredients in an eye pleasing manner
2.Top with vinegar
3.Display in the kitchen, the place in the home with the most activity or where you feel you need it the most

☠ Thieves Vinegar #3 [non-ingestible] 

-Thieves Vinegar #1
Your choice of ingredients like:
- Black Peppercorns, Chili Pepper, Rose, Wormwood*, Meadowsweet, Thyme, Ginger, Turmeric, Angelica*, Horehound*, Marjoram, Rue*

Method: 
1. Follow same method as Thieves Vinegar #1
*IF CHILI IS ADDED DO NOT BATHE OR TOUCH EYES AFTER HANDLING
*RESEARCH ALL DRUG INTERACTIONS/DOSAGES BEFORE ADDING OPTIONAL INGREDIENTS
*IF SKIN IRRITATION OCCURS WASH WITH COLD WATER AND SOAP IMMEDATLY
*IF IRRITATION WORSENS OR CONTINUES CONSULT HEALTHCARE PROFESSIONAL
*DO NOT CONSUME IF RUE IS ADDED // DO NOT CONSUME PERIOD. 

⚡House Wash / Bath for Cleansing and Uncrossing

- 1 gallon Hot Water
- 3 tablespoons Thieves Vinegar #1 for bath or #3for home
- Psalms 23 or any protective prayer/words you like

Method for House Wash:
1. Combine ingredients in bucket with preferred house wash or alone.
2. Read prayer/words over the mixture three times to bless it.
3. Wipe down walls, floors in a counterclockwise motion, working from the back of your space to the front.
4. Listen to music you enjoy loudly and open your windows and doors. Let in as much sunlight in as  possible at the very least. Have fun and fill the space with your own positivity and hard work.
5. Be proud and say thanks afterwards.
6. Light a preferred incense to help set the tone of your freshly cleansed space.

Method for Bath:
1.Take an intimal shower to sanitize self with normal preferred products. 2.Combine vinegar with water in bath or basin.
3.Read prayer/words over the bath three times.
4.Immerse yourself for 10 minutes at the least while thinking of all negativity leaving your life and positive, protective energy covering you and the actions you can take to help facilitate that.
4a. If in a shower pour the water starting from the top of your body working your way down, thinking about the same. See all unwanted energy flow down the drain with the water.
5. When finished, air dry and dress in clean white clothes if able to. Do this during the time of day you have the most alone time.
6. Thank any spiritual guides, God, Gods, or the universe- anyone you may have for their blessing and protection and try to conserve your energy for the rest of the day.

Quick Salad Dressing [Bonus Recipe]

2 Tbs Thieves Vinegar #1or#2
6 Tbs Salad Oil
1 Tbs Dijon
3 tsp Thyme

Thanks for Reading! ✨