Jim Kirk understands being a transmasc person but really liking feminine things and acting feminine, and being upset because it isn’t the breaking of gender roles it is on cis men. He knows that this is a really difficult topic for transmasc people because of the masculinity we’re expected to perform in order to “successfully pass as cis”. When cis men do traditionally feminine things, it’s considered breaking gender roles, but when transmasc people do the same things, it’s considered a sign that we’re not really transmasc. Remember that this is a toxic double standard, and that if it makes you feel happy not to conform to the traditional gender role, you do you! Don’t let people get you down. :)
